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How do you fight pickyness?
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| Blue. |
For some reason my standards are set too high and I always seam to find flaws in them. It's sad because some flaws I even see in myself and because of relationships in the past I have my gaurd up against girls who bring me down and depress the out of me.
It seams that a lot of the ones that seam great just don't do it for me as far as wanting a relationship goes, it just ends up me wanting to be friends. When I find a girl that I think is perfect she just wants to be friends (or just wants to , but always at a time when I just want a girl to hold).
I wish I could read minds, people need to communicate with eachother more. |
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| Blue. |
| quote: | Originally posted by josh4
aint that the truth
you depress the out of me all the time
you need to lighten up |
I always look foreward to reading your replies when I see you as the last poster in one of my topics :D |
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| kr00t0n |
| quote: | Originally posted by josh4
you forgot the period!  you really must be under a lot of stress |
nah, just means he's pregnant :D |
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| Blue. |
| quote: | Originally posted by kr00t0n
nah, just means he's pregnant :D |
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| Dervish |
| I tell you how you fight the pickyness you get drunk thats how. |
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| Arbiter |
I'm curious as to how you came to the conclusion that the problem you're having is that your standards are too high.
My point of view is that almost everybody's standards are too low and they seem to be dropping constantly. As a result, the quality of people generally keeps dropping since they can get away with being tier and tier and still meet most other people's standards. |
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| Blue. |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
I'm curious as to how you came to the conclusion that the problem you're having is that your standards are too high.
My point of view is that almost everybody's standards are too low and they seem to be dropping constantly. As a result, the quality of people generally keeps dropping since they can get away with being tier and tier and still meet most other people's standards. |
Well I think my standards are too high because I always seam to find something wrong with them, no matter how small. Even if it's something that wouldn't normaly bother me or doesn't bother me when friends do it it annoys me when I find a girl who does it.
If a girl gives me attention and calls me then she must be obsessed and hence must be a psychopath and then I'm not attracted to her. If she doesn't call me enough then she must be too shy or too stuck up in which case I'm not attracted to her.
It happens with just about any little detail. |
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| Blue. |
| quote: | Originally posted by josh4
don't be such an arrogant ass. don't balance how you feel about her by focusing on how she feels about you |
Well obviously you're going to base how much you like a girl based on if she seams like a stalker or someone who completely avoids you. |
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| Yan |
| quote: | Originally posted by josh4
stop trying to read into their actions so much. if you like her, call her, if you dont then dont. |
I'm going to back you up and say "life's really as simple as that". |
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| Blue. |
That was an example of things I do to sabotage, it goes deeper than that with paranoia and whatnot. Plus I tend to get annoyed easily when it's a girl I want to date so if she annoys me I get turned off and stop talking to her.
Among other things. |
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| DJ Chrono |
| don't be picky please just when you think you're being picky say nah It's just me being picky again so you can reverse your thoughts and be anti-picky and accept everything just like I'm being anti-grammer with this response cause i stopped being picky about it and so should you |
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| Blue. |
| quote: | Originally posted by josh4
it seems like this has nothing to do with girls but an inability to allow yourself to be happy. whenever something seems to be going right for you there is a need to find something wrong with it. i'd suggest therapy |
One step ahead of you ;) |
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