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what works in the bedroom for you? (a honest discussion) (pg. 2)
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| Jer. |
| quote: | Originally posted by dance2dabeat
^^^^^
too sweet.
Yeah really caring for someone/loving someone sure makes the bedroom that much better :) |
I'll drink to that. |
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| EvilTree |
And to think I thought this was about sex technics in bed. :p
Isn't loyalty, integrity and honesty enough for a good relationship? Why do some people insist on trying to make it a rocket science? |
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| andielips |
I have been with my partner for three years now and I can tell you that this is the best relationship I have ever been in and I have been married before too!!! Communication, respect of oneself and each other and one of the most important laughter. Being close with the one you love and being able to always share a laugh no matter what kind of crapy day either one of you has had. Being able to laugh about it with the one person you know wont judge you, whom you can be yourself with always makes me feel better!!!
Andie |
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| zoogla |
| quote: | Originally posted by andielips
Communication, respect of oneself and each other and one of the most important laughter. |
GOOD CALL!!! Good communication and to be able to make eachother laugh (or at least smile) is SOO important and I love that in our relationship.
Good oral sex doesn't hurt either :p
that's for your comment, EvilTree! ;) |
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| zokissima |
| IMHO, the most important aspect of any relationship is the ability to communicate well and be honest and open. Over time, if there is no honesty, or if things are held back, they will float to the surface in ugly ways. Respect each other, and try not to take anything for granted, even though you will anyways, and show the other person that you appreciate them, no matter what. All these things will build bonds and comfort, and those two things make sex, no matter how/where/why/when, into an amazing experience, repeatedly. |
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| PartyHarlequin |
I'm at a point in my life where I really don't like the idea of a relationship. I've been in a couple (longest @ 6 months) and I seriously don't feel a need or want to have to worry about anyone else until I feel that my life is secure on both a financial and social level ad infinitum.
If I were to hook up again the girl in question would need to be capable of complete independance and would need to realize that she'll never come before my work.
women=distraction=even less time to sleep=worse business performance.
*needs to develop the first "on call" girlfriend, who doesn't require regular installments to her bank account*
j/k |
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| VERTiG0 |
| quote: | Originally posted by PartyHarlequin
I'm at a point in my life where I really don't like the idea of a relationship. I've been in a couple (longest @ 6 months) and I seriously don't feel a need or want to have to worry about anyone else until I feel that my life is secure on both a financial and social level ad infinitum.
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Myself as well. I did the highschool relationship thing, was with her for almost 2 years, decided I didn't want a relationship at my age and going into college. It's been over 2 years since we broke up, and I'm having the time of my life right now.
When I find the right girl I'll maybe get back into a relationship, but right now, it's all about having fun. |
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| Skipper |
| quote: | Originally posted by Fir3start3r
- Have common and separate interests/goals.
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I agree with all of your points but this is a big one for me. I ended a relationship because we were just not individual enough from each other.
For those who say they don't want a relationship - that's cool - but when the right person comes along, you'll change your mind in an instant. |
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| VERTiG0 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Skipper
For those who say they don't want a relationship - that's cool - but when the right person comes along, you'll change your mind in an instant. |
Yeah, I can't wait for that instant :) |
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| zookeeper |
Lets see if we can get this thread going in a different direction.
For those who have been in a relationship for a long time, how do you introduce "new" things to the bedroom? To keep things interesting?
...and no I don't mean any of that deviant, dysfunctional crap. Just good fun between partners.
..."Toys" for example... |
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| zookeeper |
| Just to add some "flair" to an established relationship;) |
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