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| töbias |
| quote: | Originally posted by Zombie0729
actually something awkward happened the other night. my roomates friend who was visiting in town had my cell phone because of whatever reasons.
i didn't need it, i had a girl over and she was in my room. we were going at it and in walked one of my other girls that i'm seeing. It was one of the most awkward moments of my life...
now, the girl that walked in KNEW i see other girls, its just what i do and really explains how selective i am. she walked out and wrote me a letter of apology the next day saying she apologized for walking in on me and showing up unexpected but that she called my phone and the guy told me to come over.
(this story does have a point to what your post is in regards to)
i realized that although i might see multiple girls at a time before i do end up picking one to exclusively date, those girls stay compeletly faithful and choose to actually obey my rules rather than the common counterintuitive thought. interesting |
You must be an extremely good manager, hats off.
Yes, well, I read a story on a girl that is extremely hot and sexy, and she mentions that the thing she likes about guys is strength, show her strength and she will get on her knees, show her weakness and she will destroy you.
So I guess that there is a temptation to be the nice guy that is considerate and thoughtful, and romantic, and let there be total agreement on all the rules, and be sweet, although unfortunately this will more than likely lead to country girl sex and being cheated on until you toughen up.
I kinda learnt this lesson from this girl I was seeing, she was hot, the sex was hot, and she was a fair amount of fun to be around. I was really great to her, treated her really well, if anything, was too nice. And the problem was that she treated me like , she really did. So I dumped her, called her some nasty names, and didn't speak to her for 2 weeks.
When I did see her again she was a perfect angel. Offering me no strings attached sex, pretty much do anything for me, essentially wanted to do all teh stuff that she wouldn't do when we dated. I was being offered threesomes and the works.
We live in a world where only arseholes get ahead and its fantastic. |
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| bobba lou |
| quote: | Originally posted by jonSun
I know plenty of girls who do. At any club on a saturday night is filled with girls that will with a little alcohol. They have to blame it on something the next day so they dont feel like so much of a whore. :p |
i agree with this 110%. |
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| Zombie0729 |
| quote: | Originally posted by töbias
You must be an extremely good manager, hats off.
Yes, well, I read a story on a girl that is extremely hot and sexy, and she mentions that the thing she likes about guys is strength, show her strength and she will get on her knees, show her weakness and she will destroy you.
So I guess that there is a temptation to be the nice guy that is considerate and thoughtful, and romantic, and let there be total agreement on all the rules, and be sweet, although unfortunately this will more than likely lead to country girl sex and being cheated on until you toughen up.
I kinda learnt this lesson from this girl I was seeing, she was hot, the sex was hot, and she was a fair amount of fun to be around. I was really great to her, treated her really well, if anything, was too nice. And the problem was that she treated me like , she really did. So I dumped her, called her some nasty names, and didn't speak to her for 2 weeks.
When I did see her again she was a perfect angel. Offering me no strings attached sex, pretty much do anything for me, essentially wanted to do all teh stuff that she wouldn't do when we dated. I was being offered threesomes and the works.
We live in a world where only arseholes get ahead and its fantastic. |
as you get better with your approaches you'll realize that its in the first 15minutes where dominance is established. i'm actually thinking of doing a small study on this and writing about it. Not because i think i'm amazing with women but I've put myself in enough good situations and helped countless friends with this.
let me know if you have any deeper communication questions, this is a subject that interests me greatly |
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| igottaknow |
| hats off to you bro you know how to play da game |
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| töbias |
| quote: | Originally posted by Zombie0729
as you get better with your approaches you'll realize that its in the first 15minutes where dominance is established. i'm actually thinking of doing a small study on this and writing about it. Not because i think i'm amazing with women but I've put myself in enough good situations and helped countless friends with this.
let me know if you have any deeper communication questions, this is a subject that interests me greatly |
I read a study somewhere that women generally do over 90 individual assessments on someone in the first minute they meet them, some conscious and some subconscious, I don't have the source handy.
I've had the pleasure of growing up in the remote country and having poor social and people skills along with pretty low self confidence, along with being at a low standard of living in a housing commission house with a crap job at a hardware store whilst dressing bad and having to work extremely hard for girls and being treated extremely bad by girls, to living in the city with a great job, $140k BMW and having girls chasing me. So I've had a load of experience in communicating with people at all levels of society and figuring out what works and what doesn't.
I'm interested to hear your theories on what works and what doesn't I must say.
So a few hypothetical situations:
- Approaching a girl at a bar.
- Arranging a date over the telephone.
- Ensuring that no strings attached sex is no strings attached sex. |
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| nchs09 |
| i never meet these crazy out of control honry chicas :( |
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| töbias |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
i never meet these crazy out of control honry chicas :( |
Without any intention to cause offence, one of the best old sayings that I believe in totally is "you attract what you are".
So in order to attract certain people often you need to start with changing yourself. |
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by töbias
Without any intention to cause offence, one of the best old sayings that I believe in totally is "you attract what you are".
So in order to attract certain people often you need to start with changing yourself. |
i havent gotten any p00n in a while. :( iv gotten hot chicas before. so i guess im a hottie :p |
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| Zombie0729 |
| quote: | Originally posted by töbias
I read a study somewhere that women generally do over 90 individual assessments on someone in the first minute they meet them, some conscious and some subconscious, I don't have the source handy.
I've had the pleasure of growing up in the remote country and having poor social and people skills along with pretty low self confidence, along with being at a low standard of living in a housing commission house with a crap job at a hardware store whilst dressing bad and having to work extremely hard for girls and being treated extremely bad by girls, to living in the city with a great job, $140k BMW and having girls chasing me. So I've had a load of experience in communicating with people at all levels of society and figuring out what works and what doesn't.
I'm interested to hear your theories on what works and what doesn't I must say.
So a few hypothetical situations:
- Approaching a girl at a bar.
- Arranging a date over the telephone.
- Ensuring that no strings attached sex is no strings attached sex. |
of course dude, what ill do(becaues its getting late) is go over some ideas and concepts with you guys tomorrow. I dont know if that number is accurate but you are absolutly right in that a multitude of assumptions are made before even a first word is spoken.
What most people realize is that technique, while important, is maybe a 1/5th of what causes attraction. Also note that many girls feel attraction for guys but don't actually 'like' them. Attraction is on the deepest level of human subconscience and women, especially cannot control it.
So tomorrow it's on! |
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| Psiweaver |
| very interesting thread. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by töbias
Without any intention to cause offence, one of the best old sayings that I believe in totally is "you attract what you are".
So in order to attract certain people often you need to start with changing yourself. |
I always get hit on by slutty slovic women in their mid 30s. I'm not slovic, a woman, or in my mid-thirties. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
I always get hit on by slutty slovic women in their mid 30s. I'm not slovic, a woman, or in my mid-thirties. |
they're in my age range send them my way if they be hawt |
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