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Depresion? WTF (pg. 2)
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| TurboGS-R |
you're not alone dude. i think i'm suffering from depression too ever since my graduation (1999) from high school. trust me its been downhill for me since then and i'm sick of it. most of the time i just feel like and what's worse is that i have quite a temper to go with that. occassionally, my mood swings kick in, and i throw a temper tantrum on anyone that does the slightest thing to annoy me. which sucks because i'm usually a very nice guy. don't worry about the girls. i've recently crashed and burned myself (not saying you did of course) but you know life just moves on. happens, we all have to deal with it.
| quote: | | Why can't we just go on with our lives full of happiness. |
this is an old cliche but without the bad times, will you be able to appreciate the good times when its here?
anyway good luck to you man. just hang in there and may we all recover from this soon. :) |
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| Miss Proximus |
Sorry d00d, no advice from me as I'm struggling myself to get out of that pond they call depression...
I always feel a lot better when i'm on irc or this site..but when i go to bed and my thoughts are let loose....hmmmz......hate it.. :S |
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| AnotherWay83 |
| lol, from this thread it looks like many of the TA regulars are depressed...just a side note :) |
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| InsomnEac |
hmm, yeah i know lots of people that have battled depression at some point in their life. i think the best advice, like someone mentioned earlier, is to excersise and fix-up your diet and sleeping patterns. even though, i myself haven't been really depressed, ive had a similar problem called "seasonal affected disorder". where your moods change drastically depending on the season. where i live, it rains almost staight from about oct/nov to march/april, and it really affects you. i used to get lazy, tired, grumpy etc in the winters and totally change in the spring/summer to motivated, happy, excited. i never even realised the pattern myself, it took my gf of 4.5 years to figure it out. (note: we broke up every year, sometime between dec-feb, and got back together in may-june, now we know why). i guess i was unbearable during those months. i figured out a way for me to get over this, (including the advice at the top) to take small vacations during the winter to hot/sunny places, and (this is embarassing) to go to an indoor tanning place about once a month for 15 minutes. it sounds stupid, but every time i leave that place, i feel totally refreshed and energized. so, i guess what i'm getting at is, there is definetly a way out of it! you might just have to put some time and effort into it. about the girl problems, it might just take time to get over that.
good luck bro! and no worries, it'll get better!
:)
ps. proxi- cheer up! when you're going to sleep, just think about rosenmontags ;) |
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| TurboGS-R |
| quote: | Originally posted by AnotherWay83
lol, from this thread it looks like many of the TA regulars are depressed...just a side note :) |
do u think thats why we turn to trance to lift us up for just a sec? :) |
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| ta_wilson |
| quote: | Originally posted by trancearmada
Today was one of the worst days in my life all kinds of stupid and ed up stuff happened to me, some of it I don't think I will ever be able to tell anyone in my life time. Part of it is to do with girl problems, but that's just a small part of all the coming down on me.
I feel like , I can get cheered up for like a moment by some of the posts here and some other stuff that goes on around me, but I just can't snap out of it.
WTF is depression any way? WHy the hell can't I just go and snap out of it, it's been like this before, but each time this depression cycle comes around I feel worse and worse, and the regular and ussual stuff that I did to snap out of it, did not work this time around.
There is so much that's going on in my life right now, I can even hardly talk about it.
Why does like this happen to us humans?
Why can't we just go on with our lives full of happiness.
Most of the time I have this total 'I don't give a about anything', but I feel like I am just braking down as of late!
HELP? Somebody?
P.S. and no I am not on durgs! |
man i feel for u cause i am having the EXACT same problem right now...its so bad sometimes i just dont want to get up, or move, because what the is the point...thanks for adivice everyone...this really sucks...hope u snap out man, and me too |
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| Eugene |
Man, all of us TAs here are depressed :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
what's going on :conf: |
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| ta_wilson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Eugene
Man, all of us TAs here are depressed :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
what's going on :conf: |
school, some female problems, etc. |
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| torontotrance |
So i conclude the following
a)everyone gets depressed at some pt or other
b)this is normal
c)people need to be careful, could be a serious problem |
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| ta_wilson |
| quote: | Originally posted by torontotrance
So i conclude the following
a)everyone gets depressed at some pt or other
b)this is normal
c)people need to be careful, could be a serious problem |
i know u are right man...but to the depressed person that means nothing.
my health teacher (dumb bitch) actually has an inteligent quote:
suicide is a permenant solution to a temporary problem
just dont do...things will get better |
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| hypronix |
There's one thing with which I agree: sufference is a condition for intelligent people. It is something that Schopenhauer said, the more intelligenec the harder, more painful the sufference, and I fully agree. stupid ppl are way too ignorant to sense anything, they just think life is a pursuit for money... they are not aware, they are not awakened...
"keep ya head up", trancearmada... |
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| Miss Proximus |
| quote: | Originally posted by hypronix
There's one thing with which I agree: sufference is a condition for intelligent people. It is something that Schopenhauer said, the more intelligenec the harder, more painful the sufference, and I fully agree. stupid ppl are way too ignorant to sense anything, they just think life is a pursuit for money... they are not aware, they are not awakened...
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ya I talked about the exact same thing with my bf. My parents always taught me to think. Think about what you're doing, about your future about everything actually. Ofcourse I love this very much..and I love to question all things in life that are taken for granted...but the side effect is that I also think too much about my own life...about what it is like...about what it will be like in let's say 10 yrs (the thought alone of being in a job, having kids, continuing to live this life till my retirement scares the hell out of me)..what it would have been like if I made different choices....damn....I seem to be in some sort of midDLE-life crisis!
ANd my bf doesn't suffer from this at all! He was never taught to think!! His parents take everything in life for granted and they only think about what new furniture they can buy for their newly furbished bedroom and stuff like that! But I think he's blessed with his attitude towards life cuz he just lives to the fullest, without any analyzing of his acts or of his future acts...he is very happy with his job...even though he works fulltime since he was 18! He doesn't think about the future at all (well....only to dream of his upcoming career as a famous dj :D)..I wish he could pass a little of that attitude over to me!
Cuz it's funny...neither he, nor his parents suffer from depression....never....and me, my bro, my sis, my mum AND my dad do! And at night, before I fall to bed I sometimes wish that I could stop this constant flow of words and thoughts that are invading my head....but I can't! At those points I wish I wasn't intelligent at all :S isn't it all a little strange ...... :) (shokk) |
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