| guster |
Some of you might remember my thread in May about my girlfriend cheating on me. This entire summer, I've been trying to mend the wounds and it just didn't work.
The thing about this chick is that we had been best friends for 2 years before dating, so it seemed as though my life was lined up for me when we got together.
I went off to college and we did the long distance thing to a pretty successful result for a while. But, things change, just as I now realize they had to.
In a couple of weeks I'm transferring to the school that I really love.. great academics and cool ass people and parties to boot.
I guess what I'm saying is that I've learned a pretty big lesson this summer. Things change.. they just do. Don't try to hold onto the past.. and don't be afraid to move on.
I haven't learned much in my 19 years, but my first serious relationship is now moving back to what it was.. a great friendship. I can forgive the girl for what she did.. it's no big deal in the big picture. I'm gonna stay great friends with her, but I'm not gonna try to grip onto the past like I was.
I'm pretty damn happy at the moment. SHOKK isn't hurting me either right now :nervous: :D
Point of this post? Guess it's cool to have a feeling of a chapter complete in my life and the unknown future is exciting. I'm ready to grow and change and become the person I am destined to be. :D |
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