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The Flirting Game (pg. 3)
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| naesean3 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Beach420
flirting is so much fun! just go with the flow and be yourself. whatever happens happens. |
sage advice from someone so young who already has the "flirting" game down to a T!!
Much luv Sarah......YOU RAWK!!!!!
WIKKID!
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| tha_broad |
| quote: | Originally posted by Porky
and didnt u know? attraction isnt a choice |
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr tooo true.... |
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| Porky |
| quote: | Originally posted by tha_broad
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr tooo true.... |
k, i think i owe u a drink? i forgot
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| [NFC]Wave |
| I think my personality is on constant flirt but I just try to be nice to everyone so it could come across as that also. |
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| chanoa |
| quote: | Originally posted by [NFC]Wave
I think my personality is on constant flirt but I just try to be nice to everyone so it could come across as that also. |
i've been accused of the same..but that would mean i flirt with grandmas and similar
so gonna be flamed for this post |
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| Tordan |
| The hardest thing about constantly flirtatious people is trying to gauge their true intentions... especially when you first meet. |
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| VERTiG0 |
| quote: | Originally posted by chanoa
but that would mean i flirt with grandmas and similar
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Holy that's hot*
*not hot |
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| Crazy Serb |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spam
But flirting is fun :D
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Flirting IS fun, but what she was getting into was more than flirting... she was actually getting attracted to this guy. And I guess the society you grew up in didn't show you how to react to those feelings properly. "You can't admit you like him, you're gonna end up being too easy, end up being a slut"... in reality, all you're gonna end up being is alone, confused and hurt, with your confidence being shot waaaay down.
I will never understand this western society when it comes to that "denying the obvious need and pleasure" that one has... |
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| Jem_hadar |
| quote: | Originally posted by Crazy Serb
Flirting IS fun, but what she was getting into was more than flirting... she was actually getting attracted to this guy. And I guess the society you grew up in didn't show you how to react to those feelings properly. "You can't admit you like him, you're gonna end up being too easy, end up being a slut"... in reality, all you're gonna end up being is alone, confused and hurt, with your confidence being shot waaaay down.
I will never understand this western society when it comes to that "denying the obvious need and pleasure" that one has... |
Honestly, I think its less about that and more about wanting to have the upper hand and being in control -- and not exposed.
If you admit you like him, the balls now outta your court and in his. He knows you like him, but does he infact like YOU??!?!? This is whuat scares many chicks (and guys of course too)!
If you admit to your feelings to him or her, you feel like you've said I like you, but he or she may not say that, and that'll hurt... so ppl wanna try to protect themselves and only hint at it w/o actually saying it... they perceive this as somehow not opening themselves up as much because some mystery is left and they dont feel so exposed!! Feeling exposed and vulnerable is the key scary thing ppl usually always try to avoid!
Thats more likey why in this society ppl dont always (or usually) come right now and say it.
-jem- |
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| Jem_hadar |
| quote: | Originally posted by chanoa
i've been accused of the same..but that would mean i flirt with grandmas and similar
so gonna be flamed for this post |
Im curious as to why you said "grandMAs" and NOT "grandPAs" :confused:
Hehehe, *very interesting* Andrea... indeed... :eek:
-jem- |
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| tha_broad |
| quote: | Originally posted by Porky
k, i think i owe u a drink? i forgot
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That is completely up to you :) If you decide you do, Ill collect at Labour of Love. Because you WILL be there :p |
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| iLLnaDa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Stingray
Sure!
It started when I was born and shall last till I die :nervous: |
hahahh
Cam that's a LIE !!! :p |
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