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| Orbax |
a feeling that all your friends, people you used to know in school...just everyone generally is "growing up" and that childhood friendship free for all is placed on the shelf as priorities begin to shift and you feel like just another line item; something to be attended to in proper time with the proper amount?
Having to reserve time, almost feeling like a burden and wondering when you can get pencilled in next?
This is more than about people having busy lives because we all get the same 24 hours every day and, in the end if youre really THAT BUSY, you are putting sleep over friends.
Remember when you had school the next day, you have a paper to write, and you end up laughing to tears with your friends until 6 am?
I hate that slipping away. |
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| DjConfessions |
| ya i'm pretty busy. but now i'm rich so i can buy my own friends now |
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| Orbax |
That was close! yeah, but now we're rich!
3 fast 3urious reference |
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| Sumit_A |
Ditto.
And I'd kill myself the day I just go home from work...sleep...get up and back to work. I need to break away from the system that we all seem to get caught in. 9-5 aint me. It wont be me. Gotta work to break from this ...plans are in place...things go well...in 5 yrs I'll be outta this "system". Need to do things my way.
Hate this...and Hate saying "I'm tired". Wanna go for a drive at 2am...got work next day?? Hell ya..count me in....:disbelief |
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| Orbax |
Exactly. I still remember getting a phone call from a friend who was having a rough time at 3 am and we just went around and drove for 3 hours while we talked about getting his life back together.
I cant imagine being the douche who trades that up for a few hours of sleep so he can be super awake for the first hour of work. |
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| smokeape |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
a feeling that all your friends, people you used to know in school...just everyone generally is "growing up" and that childhood friendship free for all is placed on the shelf as priorities begin to shift and you feel like just another line item; something to be attended to in proper time with the proper amount?
Having to reserve time, almost feeling like a burden and wondering when you can get pencilled in next?
This is more than about people having busy lives because we all get the same 24 hours every day and, in the end if youre really THAT BUSY, you are putting sleep over friends.
Remember when you had school the next day, you have a paper to write, and you end up laughing to tears with your friends until 6 am?
I hate that slipping away. |
BWAHAHHAAAAA!!!!! Welcome to the real world and adult life! Wait until you got a family to boot...a house mortgage and all the other nuances associated with living. Been there, done that, and fixing to breeze out of it in a few years at my own choosing, since I could retire tomorrow if I want. Ask me anything you want.
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| Orbax |
Eh, its more than that. We've all had bills to pay, jobs to keep, family to protect.
I dont think you need to skip a day of work to go out drinking all night...some things are irresponsible when you have obligations of the higher magnitude. I've just noticed that you deciding you can't do all that "stuff you did when you were younger" spills over into "i cant do anything I used to do, no matter how important it seemed."
just a little depressing to think that relationships tend to bear the heaviest load due to lifes issues when they should be the things kept pristine and free.
Im just waning a little bit philosophic/melancholy before I go to bed here, sometimes you just feel like youre the milk that got moved to front of the rack because the relationship expires if you arent careful hehe |
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| The Soundman |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
a feeling that all your friends, people you used to know in school...just everyone generally is "growing up" and that childhood friendship free for all is placed on the shelf as priorities begin to shift and you feel like just another line item; something to be attended to in proper time with the proper amount?
Having to reserve time, almost feeling like a burden and wondering when you can get pencilled in next?
This is more than about people having busy lives because we all get the same 24 hours every day and, in the end if youre really THAT BUSY, you are putting sleep over friends.
Remember when you had school the next day, you have a paper to write, and you end up laughing to tears with your friends until 6 am?
I hate that slipping away. |
Yeah, I know what you mean. I travel alot and don't see my friends that often, but they understand that i'm busy.
I have two friends that i've known since I was 12yrs old (I'm now 32) and see on a regular basis, but even then I can go weeks, sometimes a month or two without seeing them. Stay in contact by phone though!
Your friends will come and go depending on where you are in your life and what your doing, but if your lucky, you may meet one or two that you'll stay in contact with for the rest of your life. even then, that's not guaranteed!!!
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| Sumit_A |
| quote: | Originally posted by smokeape
BWAHAHHAAAAA!!!!! ........ Ask me anything you want.
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Family to boot....:nervous:
Dont plan for one until am financially sound and can bring one up without workin for the rest of my life...seems like a dream..but gotta make it happen OR will just retire and open up a beach shack on the beaches of GOA. :crazy:
Giving my self 10 yrs max to break away...when am 35 its either this or that. |
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| Orbax |
aye, its just one of those things that you feel slipping away from you and you grip harder and harder and the other comfortable threads are ignored hehe. Its like having only 1 belt loop left on your pants. You forget about your shirt and just want that damn loop to hold!
Im still in the *drive 100 miles every week to see my friends who live there* phase. I think Ive made that trip about 50 times in the last 6 months hehe. I put about 20,000 miles on my motorcycle last year @@ |
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| Sumit_A |
Think positive.Have a plan in place.Follow it and work on it. Nothing has to be sacrificed for another.
You atleast have to try what you always wanted to do....and give it your best...if it works out..great..if it doesnt, theres always PLAN B.
Starting a family----this can wait for me. This is when hits the fan and you gotta be in yr best armour. |
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| Xenocreator_PG_ |
| "communication" is overrated :o |
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