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teh f_ck buddies! (pg. 2)
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| igottaknow |
here's a thought for you...
If your still sleeping with her on a regular basis then she is still your gf even though in your mind you've fooled yourself into thinking that she is your ex. :rolleyes: |
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| Demoted |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
here's a thought for you...
If your still sleeping with her on a regular basis then she is still your gf even though in your mind you've fooled yourself into thinking that she is your ex. :rolleyes: |
we mutually broke it off. |
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| JenniferRene |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
:stongue:
boy that sucks :/ |
haha i'm a very outspoken person. well to some extent. |
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| Demoted |
| quote: | Originally posted by JenniferRene
haha i'm a very outspoken person. well to some extent. |
Heh, I can tell :toothless :wtf: |
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| lücid |
" buddies" is just a nice way of saying "yea we like each other, but not enough to want to commit to a relationship, and we're waiting for something better to come along"... not that that's a bad thing. it's just hard to make it work because usually feelings start to develop and all of a sudden you're dealing with a relationship and not casual sex anymore. i guess if you can keep it casual and you're only interested in someone for the sex, that's cool... i've just never been able to do that. everyone i've slept with, whether it was a boyfriend or just something casual, was always someone i considered a pretty close friend first... i find sex very unsatisfying if there isn't some sort of emotional connection there.
and personally i've never used an ex as a buddy. there's usually a good enough reason why we broke up, so sex is usually out of the question. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Demoted
we mutually broke it off. |
You're missing my point. Its a matter of symantics, actions speak louder than words. If you're still sleeping together then you're not truely broken up. I know friends who have been living together for over 5 years and they're not "married". Technically they're right but in reality they are in every other sense of the word. |
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| JenniferRene |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i find sex very unsatisfying if there isn't some sort of emotional connection there.
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i couldnt agree with you more |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Demoted
we mutually broke it off. |
ok, so you broke up, and now you're just in...
but what happens when one of you meets someone else? how are you gonna take the news when she comes to you and says "i met someone that i want to pursue a relationship with"... or what would she say if you started screwing some other girl? |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
Max, don't have sex with your ex
It will make your life complex
My Max, baby take it easy
yeah sex with the ex is good
im going to try and hit mine up again :p |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
" buddies" is just a nice way of saying "yea we like each other, but not enough to want to commit to a relationship, and we're waiting for something better to come along"... not that that's a bad thing. it's just hard to make it work because usually feelings start to develop and all of a sudden you're dealing with a relationship and not casual sex anymore. i guess if you can keep it casual and you're only interested in someone for the sex, that's cool... |
right on... i had two buddies (not at the same time). one was on and off for 2 or 3 years and the other just a few months. the key is to keep emotion out of it. just have a good time together, make it clear you dont have a relationship. if someone starts to develop feelings, get out of communicate about it. i dont particularly need an emotional connection for sex.
ing an ex girlfriend is not a buddy. that's just a screwed up time in your relationship. |
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| flavdave |
| quote: | Originally posted by Demoted
it burns calories. |
it burns when you pee. |
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| ChemEnhanced |
| quote: | Originally posted by Demoted
Who's got one, had one, and thoughts on 'em.
I've got one. It's my ex. But we're thinking we might go back legit. Just because we figured we don't like many other people. Oh, and we like each other a little.:wtf: |
Sorry to tell you but ex's are not and cannot be buddies. A true buddy is someone who you only call to have sex with...there is no meaningful conversation...in a perfect world no conversation at all. There can be no thought of any sort of relationship and no feelings towards each other. |
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