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| Slylee |
| k i'll call tonight. |
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| Xenocreator_PG_ |
| What? Are you insane? DONT CALL TONIGHT. that will make you weak & desparate. He'll see it & then walk all over you. Then suddenly youll realise 10 years down the track when you have kids & a morgage that you have lived a full prosperous life. & that would suck. |
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| Vivid Boy |
| yeah him and his momma's boy side burns. ui need to get back together with that cokehgead billy and like the coke will never make him cum |
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| NiteMer |
| Sounds like you're handling the situation right. It's a little bit of a red flag, if he's getting attached so quickly, but you have to play situations like this out. I've had girls seem way into me, after only a few days, and I proceed with caution from there. If they are a little needy, but I really enjoy their company, I can handle it. If they are too needy/insecure, it becomes a problem for me and I'm turned off by them. The e-mail sounds like a good idea, and now you can only wait to hear what he has to say. Good luck! :) |
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| NiteMer |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
so even though at the end of my letter i said to call me or write back after he clears his head and thinks about what i've said, you guys think i should call him anyway tonight if i don't hear from him?
in the letter i told him to think really hard about whether or not he is ok with the situation right now and if he can deal with it...the "situation" being that we can only see each other on weekends... |
Ball's in his court. I would let him contact you. |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
k i'll call tonight. |
i think your original insticts were right and you should wait until tomorrow to call. dont be too hasty. it doesnt sound like he is about to run away from you right now. |
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
k i'll call tonight. |
DONT DIAL THE PHONEEEEE!!!11!11one |
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| lücid |
if you don't call him tonight, i would at least send a txt msg to let him know you're thinking about him.
it's the little stuff that makes the big impressions. |
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| Slylee |
HE ING DUMPED ME!!!!!:(
i hate men. i'm gay. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
HE ING DUMPED ME!!!!!:(
i hate men. i'm gay. |
ouch! you've been having a rough year of it. i never liked him, but did he really dump you. |
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| Slylee |
I don’t understand. He told me it wasn’t enough (weekends only) for him to “feel the relationship” or make a commitment. But he also made little comments about how he is “setting me free” and I can “do my thing” bla bla bla. He did it over the phone first and I told him I was crushed and we hung up. But then I decided to do something spontaneous and romantic so I drove all the way down to his place and told him to come outside and talk to me face to face. He basically said the same things and he seemed like he was really struggling with telling me it’s over. And I told him I really liked him and that this hurt me bad. And then he made a comment about how he was upset that I didn’t go see him on Sunday and I said, “well you could have driven to ft. Lauderdale to see me” and he was like, “well you didn’t invite me and you never invite me to your mom’s, like it’s such a big deal or something”. That made me think that he was upset about that. Like he thinks I was trying to keep a distance between him and my personal life. I think my email really hurt him and rejected him and so he dropped me like a hot potato and I totally ing blew it:(
Oh well |
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