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do ugly chicks make better girlfriends than hot ones? (pg. 17)
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| Orbax |
my new favorite pickup line (if its going to be that way instead of meeting someone for real in classes or church or whatever) is telling someone that they caught my eye and I was hoping they are as interesting as they are attractive and if they want to grab a drink.
usual answer: no (not interesting...and no go away :( ) |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
I feel so in' bad for you man. |
tell me about it.
although I hope you aren't reading into that there are no interesting and attractive women. Im saying, its hard to find the right woman, you for instance took 25 years to find your wife. I think good looking and attractive are two distinct concepts and as interest goes up so does attractiveness even if they aren't necessarily "good looking".
because that would be silly and illogical of you if you think that. |
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| dinoXpress |
| theres more to life than being really really ridiculousy good looking! |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
tell me about it.
although I hope you aren't reading into that there are no interesting and attractive women. Im saying, its hard to find the right woman, you for instance took 25 years to find your wife. I think good looking and attractive are two distinct concepts and as interest goes up so does attractiveness even if they aren't necessarily "good looking".
because that would be silly and illogical of you if you think that. |
True, it is hard to find the right woman. That being said I don't think that few women are as interesting as my male friends (maybe I just have boring male friends). Sometimes I get concerned about you when reading your posts because I get the impression that you really don't give women a chance... kind of as though you have your mind made up before you even talk to them that they will be superficial and/or an annoyance. I hope I'm wrong on that point. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by dinoXpress
theres more to life than being really really ridiculousy good looking! |
Speaking on behalf of all ugly men I say Amen brotha! |
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| jonze234 |
| quote: | Originally posted by dinoXpress
theres more to life than being really really ridiculousy good looking! |
i challenge you to a walk-off. prepare for Le Tigra. :stongue: |
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| jonze234 |
| quote: | Originally posted by JenniferRene
thank you. that's perfect. ;) |
your welcome |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
True, it is hard to find the right woman. That being said I don't think that few women are as interesting as my male friends (maybe I just have boring male friends). Sometimes I get concerned about you when reading your posts because I get the impression that you really don't give women a chance... kind of as though you have your mind made up before you even talk to them that they will be superficial and/or an annoyance. I hope I'm wrong on that point. |
its just that if you think back on your timeline of hanging out with women its probably similar to mine. around 20 years old you started having really good female friends. Women that could totally hang out with your friends and you wouldn't be embarassed or annoyed, and neither would they.
It usually takes college and having to make an effort to hang out with guys and do what they do to catalyze women into being a tad more willing to try things, speak their mind, and generally have something to say.
Dont get me wrong, I friggn' love women, I think they are adorable, smell nice, and make you feel good. Its just when it comes to finding someone that you can see you know...spending a lot of free time for the rest of your life with...its a lot harder. and I think its not just women, I think girls are having just as hard of a time these days.
People are becoming more and more boring, weak, and asexual. No real men, no real women. I just had a couple of friends from california come up and really want to move to seattle now (and are going to in a few months) because they were shocked at how much different NW men are from California men. they couldnt stop saying "I feel so protected around you guys, its really weird" "Wow my guy friends back in LA would never do this!"
its like...wow guys. Way to keep women excited to be around guys. No one challenges, its always one person too afraid to admit that they might *gasp* actually be human and like someone.
Its the days of instant judgments and snap decisions and no one really just hangs out any more and does stupid around one another and just try to be a little more understanding that motive is more important than action.
Although I still stand by my point that, for the most part, women aren't nearly as easy to hang out with, talk to, and get to do exciting things with as men; and I don't think it needs to be like that. |
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| dinoXpress |
| quote: | Originally posted by jonze234
i challenge you to a walk-off. prepare for Le Tigra. :stongue: |
Fine. Lets do it.
dun dun dundundun dun dun OW! |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by JenniferRene
Well, I wasn’t asking for a girls opinion. I was looking for a guy’s. I’m female, yet can still answer the question to the title thread. Was wandering if any guys can give their opinion on their own gender. I actually did a survey on this years ago on 100 people which is why I was intrigued by this thread. Most of the girls that were attractive replied “Yes” and really had no reason as to why while what you could call less attractive girls said “No and gave full paragraphs describing as to why.” Attractive guys and less attractive guys pretty much all gave the same answers, responding that looks didn’t matter since their “equipment” is what really counts and keeps a relationship alive. However one answer that stuck with me was when I did ask what I would call an attractive female about how important looks play in a relationship, she said “They aren’t. And anyone who is basing the future and judging a person by looks alone for dating purposes, needs to stand a little longer in the mirror themselves.”
Before anyone lashes out I’m not saying any of you are judgmental or superficial in this way. I just read the title thread and it brought back the memory of my survey years ago. |
well as i said earlier in the thread about women i think the same thing applies for men. what effects how people are in a relationship is imo dependent on their own self image. if you think that the person you're dating deserves better than you...well you're going to get walked all over and manipulated. if you think you're too good for the other person...well why would you want to date them anyway.
bitches are bitches and s are s because of how they think about themselves in relation to others. the people that are the best for dating are those that are self-confident, but at the same time modest enough to be tolerable. |
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| jonze234 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
bitches are bitches and s are s because of how they think about themselves in relation to others. the people that are the best for dating are those that are self-confident, but at the same time modest enough to be tolerable. |
this part reminds me of team america where they talk about dicks, pussies, and s. |
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