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Seriously- I need to find new friends. *RANT*
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| Final GTS |
I just dont get it. I am sitting here at 9:05 typing this- in Buffalo. What am I doing here on the night I SHOULD be partying my balls off at the Guvernment for their anniversary? Well, let me tell you; My friends suck. Period. Plain and simple. This is the FORTH consecutive time I have been screwed over by them, in an attempt to put together an amazingly good time together up in TO. I am so pissed right now it is not even funny. I go out of my way to set everything up- then I go doubly out of my way to cancel everything when the bunch of loosers either bail on me, or just disappear when it comes time to go. I swear, I could pay for the entire night, and s would either STILL bail, or find a way to sell the spot for some extra cash.
Do people not want to have a good time? I dont get it. They LIKE trance. They LIKE the Guvernment. They HAVE the money. They HAVE the time. Its a big deal if I dont show to something they set up- but its no biggie when they screw me over. My friends suck. period.
If there are any NORMAL people in TO that wouldnt mind having a tag-along, trust me, I am down- virtually any time. I can pay my own way or help with whatever if need be. I know I am going to lose it if I continue to try to change these people- its not worth the hassle.
Geeze... I just may have to start hanging out with strippers again, at least they are remotely reliable and know how to party! Thats more than I can say for my current group of friends...
Did I mention I was in a bad mood? |
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| Special K |
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leave NOW and just go by yourself and have a kickass time anyways |
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| dance2dabeat |
:haha:
that's it...let it all out!
It's hard when ur closest friends dont want to party with u...hell it wasnt too long ago where I had the same problem as my friends didnt party period and I was limited to ppl I hung out with that were in the scene.
but lucky I met new ppl through TA that have become really good friends of mine...and they absoloutely rock!!
hang in there though! |
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| Final GTS |
| quote: | Originally posted by dance2dabeat
:haha:
that's it...let it all out!
It's hard when ur closest friends dont want to party with u...hell it wasnt too long ago where I had the same problem as my friends didnt party period and I was limited to ppl I hung out with that were in the scene.
but lucky I met new ppl through TA that have become really good friends of mine...and they absoloutely rock!!
hang in there though! |
My problem isnt far off yours- My friends' idea of "partying" is drinking beer at a house, or going to the bar on the corner of Boring St. and Loser Ln... They have been to the Guv a couple times, always talk about how bad they want to go back... but then when the opportunity arises, they bail.
I just hope I can find a few people more in tune with MY idea of partying. |
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| perpetuous |
| I have the same problem with my friends. Everyone always wants to party, but is just too disorganized to do anything about it. I've ended up just buying tickets to concerts/parties in the past for everyone, and getting them to pay me back, just so we commit to going. Even then, it's hard. |
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| infinity HiGH |
| quote: | Originally posted by Final GTS
My problem isnt far off yours- My friends' idea of "partying" is drinking beer at a house, or going to the bar on the corner of Boring St. and Loser Ln... They have been to the Guv a couple times, always talk about how bad they want to go back... but then when the opportunity arises, they bail.
I just hope I can find a few people more in tune with MY idea of partying. |
You've definately come to the right place.
Welcome! |
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| Mizrachi |
| I know the feeling.. My friends have bailed on me more times than I can count on probably both hands in the last year alone -- disgusts me. Whether it be for an event or dinner, movie, whatever, and regardless of how early I plan it there's always something that "comes up" that pulls them away. A few weeks back I had planned a birthday dinner and reserved a place for 40 people. I nearly called them back to tell them to increase the number to 60 because so many people had told me they'd come. End result: 25 people came in total and out of those that didn't come, few told me they wouldn't be able to come. Well.. at least it shows who my closer friends are -- but I agree, this kind of situation sucks ass :whip: :mad: |
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| MidnightClubber |
Yeah like they said you just need to find people that are more social and willing to go out and have some fun...
but regarding a tag along? As long as you make your way to the GTA (mississauga, toronto, scarborough) there's usually people willing to pitch a ride to the club, its just getting to the person's house and getting home that'll be the problem :(...
Or then again print out the 20 pages of a successful party night and make them read it till they cry for not going. |
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| TheVrk |
Ahhhhh, Buffalo tranceheads NOTHING like us TOTAs.
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| Qiang |
sorry to hear that. maybe you should meet some likeminded people who can commit things. I rarely bail out on friends and I have no idea why other people would do that. :conf:
my friends are not like that but they usually are not the kind of party animal. I think i should feel lucky i have 2 friends who are into trance & club scene and always jump ship with me whenever call them ;) |
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| court-jester |
| most of the time when i go clubbing with friends we all lose each other in the crowd and we party on our own, might as well come alone :haha: |
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| Qiang |
not if you have to find your friend in order to get ride home. :eyes:
me and my friends always dance together. |
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