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bi-sexual girls (pg. 4)
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| FallingMoon |
| quote: | Originally posted by Porky
yea...that makes alot of sense. society's double standard.
how many girls have u kissed in the past!!! :eyes: :eyes: :eyes: |
LOL, I'm sure that is the only thing you paid the most attention to! haha
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| Porky |
| quote: | Originally posted by FallingMoon
LOL, I'm sure that is the only thing you paid the most attention to! haha
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| FallingMoon |
| quote: | Originally posted by Porky
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lol
ok ok, 7 but who counts? :p |
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| MeLLyMeL |
i didn't read anyones reply.
but here... if the girl is BI but is dating you and if u guys agree on a 3-way then that would be fine.
That doesn't give her the right to go macking it to girls n .. cuz wtf are u there for?
So in the end... she aint worth it if she's macking to other girls :D |
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| Porky |
| quote: | Originally posted by MeLLyMeL
So in the end... she aint worth it if she's macking to other girls :D |
but of course that's from a girl's perspective? :p |
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| MeLLyMeL |
| quote: | Originally posted by Porky
but of course that's from a girl's perspective? :p |
haha coming from an open minded perspective also.
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
i probably wouldn't want to date a bisexual chick for any serious length of time...sounds bad i'm sure, but i want whoever i'm with to be just with me |
just because the girl is bi-sexual doesn't automatically mean that she would be screwing other girls while she has a boyfriend. it just means that she goes both ways, but not necessarily at the same time.
i think if you really care about a girl and like her a lot and it turns out that she is attracted to girls too, that you should still count it as cheating if she hooks up with other girls. i mean if i was a guy and i was dating a girl who i was really into, and she brought up the topic of hooking up with other girls, i'd be like that...not, "oh hell yea, bring your friends over". i'm saying if i really liked her and was exclusive. if it was just some chick i was casually dating, then of course i'd say bring it on. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
just because the girl is bi-sexual doesn't automatically mean that she would be screwing other girls while she has a boyfriend. it just means that she goes both ways, but not necessarily at the same time.
i think if you really care about a girl and like her a lot and it turns out that she is attracted to girls too, that you should still count it as cheating if she hooks up with other girls. i mean if i was a guy and i was dating a girl who i was really into, and she brought up the topic of hooking up with other girls, i'd be like that...not, "oh hell yea, bring your friends over". i'm saying if i really liked her and was exclusive. if it was just some chick i was casually dating, then of course i'd say bring it on. |
well when i said what i did in that post it was under the assumption "would i want her to be with other chicks"...if it's something she had to have...then i probably wouldn't want to date her seriously like i said...
basically i agree with what you just said haha...i didn't mean because she's bisexual we can't have a relationship...i just meant that if it's serious...me only |
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| Porky |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
just because the girl is bi-sexual doesn't automatically mean that she would be screwing other girls while she has a boyfriend. it just means that she goes both ways, but not necessarily at the same time.
i think if you really care about a girl and like her a lot and it turns out that she is attracted to girls too, that you should still count it as cheating if she hooks up with other girls. i mean if i was a guy and i was dating a girl who i was really into, and she brought up the topic of hooking up with other girls, i'd be like that...not, "oh hell yea, bring your friends over". i'm saying if i really liked her and was exclusive. if it was just some chick i was casually dating, then of course i'd say bring it on. |
slyleee, so have you ever? while dating a guy? and did u tell him?
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| Boomer187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
just because the girl is bi-sexual doesn't automatically mean that she would be screwing other girls while she has a boyfriend. it just means that she goes both ways, but not necessarily at the same time.
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thats what I was gonna say.
if your in a mutually exclusive relationship with someone, it doens't matter what their sexual preference is, they shouldn't fool around on you.
from the stories I hear, 3 somes are only good if your the guest star. If its your relationship, ya done funked it up. |
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| mezzir |
| quote: | Originally posted by Boomer187
from the stories I hear, 3 somes are only good if your the guest star. If its your relationship, ya done funked it up. |
that makes a lotta sense actually
my girl's bi, so its like the best chance i'm gonna have for a 3some, but still
i wouldn't really just randomly bring it up
it'd be best if none of the 3 people were in any romantic relationships with anyone else |
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| lücid |
i think it depends on how the guy handles relationships and the sort of connection the guy and girl have. i've actually asked a lot of guys their opinion on this subject, and most of them seem to think that it would be cheating if their gf hooked up with another chick.
i think it's become "cool" and not a big deal for girls to be kissing and making out, and i don't really think it's something for a guy to get all paranoid about... but you need to figure out if your gf is just saying she's bisexual because she likes to get all drunk and make out with her friends, or if she's TRULY into the . i mean, i don't think it's acceptable for a girl to have a bf and a gf at the same time. it just seems unfair.
i've dated guys who freaked out when i told them i hooked up with a girl, but i think in that case it just stemmed from not having enough trust in the relationship. i blew it off like "meh, you're just jealous because you weren't there to watch or initiate a 3-some"...
i used to be pretty crazy about the idea of having a gf to play with, but now i feel that if i am in a relationship, my satisfaction is going to come 100% from one person and that person only.
oh, and 3-somes...  |
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