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| robospanker |
when someone has a gf or bf and they broke up, why do they want to erase the memories of their relationship MOST cases ?
they dont want to see each other, talk, not even hear of them.
its weird... dont most people who break up stay friends and still have a great time ? |
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| Palladium |
| i dont want to be your bf anymore...lets be friends...and just bang bang bang !!:D |
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| dinoXpress |
| quote: | Originally posted by robospanker
when someone has a gf or bf and they broke up, why do they want to erase the memories of their relationship MOST cases ?
they dont want to see each other, talk, not even hear of them.
its weird... dont most people who break up stay friends and still have a great time ? |
I like to stay friends,
thus fdar i have not had a gf that ive wanted to cut off and never see or hear from again. |
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| BTG |
| because its a defence mechanism. hi i'm dr.phil. |
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| robospanker |
i havent seen people who were in a relationship staying friends afterwards and seeing each other often
i have seen friends who had sex from time to time and that worked well for them |
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| BTG |
one of my ex gfs was like that with me for a while. we would have casual guilt free sex for a year after we broke up. then she started dating and her boyfriends were like 'wtf is this doods picture doing up on your wall?!"
and so she decided it was best to block me forever.
so i slept with her sister. |
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| DOOMBOT |
Not necessarily true in all cases. Some stay in contact while some don't. Personaly, I don't. Even with the girls I have slept or hooked up with. I have a girlfriend now and find no reason to stay in touch with those I've been with before her. She on the otherhand still keeps some of the guys before me as friends. It took time for me to get used to but have come a pretty long way with it and am beginning to not let it get to me much anymore. It's not a bad thing to do but I feel it still leaves a chance for dumb to happen.
Trust. One of the most important parts of a relationship. :) |
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| robospanker |
you people are strange
why do you do this relationship thing so early ? if you want a relationship wait for it until you get married.
during the rest of the time everybody is a friend with benefits or without benefits.
anybody can whoever they feel like.
what is this crap YOU ARE MY GF OR BF NOW... YOU ARE MINE. I OWN YOU.
thats how it feels to me... idunno :rolleyes: |
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| Slylee |
| you can only truely just be "friends" after a breakup if the breakup was 100% mutual. but if one breaks up with the other, then the other one is always going to try to get back with them, bla bla bla. it's best just to move on. why would you want to be friends with an ex? my ex and i had a nice breakup with no animosity really, and we were so close friendship-wise, but i still don't really talk to him. at first we did as friends, but we talk less and less as my relationship with my current boyfriend gets more serious...just out of respect you know. my boyfriend still talks to his ex from time to time. she always calls him though, he doesn't call her. he said he doesn't really care to talk to her, but he's too nice to tell her to quit calling. it doesn't really bother me. i trust that if she ever gets out of line or just comes out and says that she wants him back or something of that nature, that he will handle it. she's in another state anyway...i don't really see it as a threat. |
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| robospanker |
| suck it , nchs09 |
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