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Am I psycho? (pg. 3)
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| Floorfiller |
| you know this is exactly the kind of situation if a guy was thinking that about his girlfriend going out with her friends he'd be "over-protective" |
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| StanVoid |
| let us know if your boyfriend's guy friend succeeded at the bars tonight |
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| nchs09 |
| give him p00p3r love 2ice before he goes out.. hell love ya and be so drained he wont look for t3h p00n |
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| nchs09 |
| by give i mean let him give j00 |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
you know this is exactly the kind of situation if a guy was thinking that about his girlfriend going out with her friends he'd be "over-protective" |
i don't mind my guy being overprotective, because that's how i am. craig and i have openly discussed (and agreed on) how we would act if out at a club without each other...and we basically said that we act the way we would want the other to act...and we're both pretty big on respect and stuff, and we're both kind of jealous, so we're on the same page with that.
if a guy is being really fresh and obnoxious even after i say "no thanks" or after i make it clear that i have a boyfriend and i'm not interested, i have no problem making him feel like a moron and being rude. but if a guy is just innocently hitting on me, i'll be nice, but decline (obviously). i'm sure he's the same way.
oh and i could give 2 s really if his buddy gets laid. he's pretty funny when he gets drunk though. last time we all went out, he was drunk and he looked at me and was like, "JAMIE! i'm going to walk right over to those girls over there and make a move...it's time" and i just busted out laughing and said GO FOR IT! he gets really ballsy like that...i can only imagine what he's dragging my bf into right now:( |
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| Rodrico |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
for the record...i know better than to act on this insecurity/jealousy. i definitely have a jealous insecure side (i'm a female in the 21st century, sue me), but i rarely act on it. usually, the way i deal with it is i make a joke about the situation with my guy and then usually sort of laugh at myself and then i keep busy so i don't think of it.
i'm just venting to you guys, but trust me, i wasn't giving him any or being annoying. i made a joke about him having to be a "wingman" (this was on instant messenger earlier tonight) but he laughed and was like, "baby u have nothing to worry about...i just want to get out for a bit tonight, i've been missing you a lot since you left, bla bla" then i just said, "oh i know, i'm just being psycho, have fun baby"
so far i got drunk and played poker with my dad...then i watched some James Bond with him while i painted my nails...now my dad is in bed and i'm still drinking and posting.:wtf: wow, i'm a lamo. |
You know what your problem is, your drinking and posting on TA on a saturday night. You might be jealous of him having fun tonight while youre stuck with us. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
by give i mean let him give j00 |
that's the oldest one in the book;) of course if i was there and he was going out without me, i'd screw his brains out before he left.
rule #1. u don't ever let your man go out with his boys while in a fight...u have to give it to him really good and remind him that there's more where that came from when he gets home. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rodrico
You know what your problem is, your drinking and posting on TA on a saturday night. You might be jealous of him having fun tonight while youre stuck with us. |
yea that's one of many... |
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| Floorfiller |
if you trust craig...and you guys have talked about bar behavior or whatever...then you shouldn't be worried right?
i dunno...i learned in my last real relationship that it's only damaging to worry, because you're not trusting that person...and unless they have given you something to worry about...you just kinda gotta trust em (easier said then done of course hehe:p) |
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| igottaknow |
| i think you have more to worry about him being picked up by another guy :disbelief |
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| Slylee |
i know but this is kind of new to me. i'm used to not trusting. my ex and i didn't trust each other at all because of drugs in the relationship and many episodes of bull and him not coming home and not picking up his phone, bla bla.
i DO trust craig, but i guess i'm trying to find fault with it all cuz i'm used to not trusting. but i'm not going to let this everything up. i really love craig and he has given me every reason in the world to trust his every move. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
i think you have more to worry about him being picked up by another guy :disbelief |
only if you were at the bar fag. |
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