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naesean3
I came across this while surfing and it made me feel sad - for it is so very true for so many people...........


Quiet Anguish


I am the boy kicked out of his home because I confided in my father that I am a homosexual.

I am the prostitute working the streets because nobody will hire a transsexual woman.

I am the sister who holds her gay brother tight through the painful, tear-filled nights.

We are the parents who buried our daughter long before her time.

I am the man who died alone in the hospital because they would not let my partner of twenty-seven years into the room.

I am the foster child who wakes up with nightmares of being taken away from the two fathers who are the only loving family I have ever had. I wish they could adopt me.

I am one of the lucky ones, I guess. I survived the attack that left me in a coma for three weeks, and in another year I will probably be able to walk again.

I am not one of the lucky ones. I killed myself just weeks before graduating high school. It was simply too much to bear.

We are the couple who had the realtor hang up on us when she found out we wanted to rent a one-bedroom for two men.

I am the person who never knows which bathroom I should use if I want to avoid getting the management called on me.

I am the mother who is not allowed to even visit the children I bore, nursed, and raised. The court says I am an unfit mother because I now live with another woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who found the support system grow suddenly cold and distant when they found out my abusive partner is also a woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who has no support system to turn to because I am male.

I am the father who has never hugged his son because I grew up afraid to show affection to other men.

I am the home-economics teacher who always wanted to teach gym until someone told me that only lesbians do that.

I am the man who died when the paramedics stopped treating me as soon as they realized I was transsexual.

I am the person who feels guilty because I think I could be a much better person if I didn’t have to always deal with society hating me.

I am the man who stopped attending church, not because I don't believe, but because they closed their doors to my kind.

I am the person who has to hide what this world needs most, love.



beyond my personal experiences with some of these truths......

the fact that someone I know right now is dealing with comment number 1 makes it that much more relevant to post at this time.


thanks for reading
TheVrk
A depressing read:sadgreen:
naesean3
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Originally posted by TheVrk
A depressing read:sadgreen:


true Ivan but even more depressing to deal with.

Even more reason to be thankful for what we take for granted and to think of others besides ourselves this holiday season.

My christmas cheer had been trumped when I got the call from my friend about this kicked out business.......especially as to the timing of the situation - pathetic on the fathers part.
Nikitha
This is really sad.. and i'm really sorry to hear about your friend...

a good friend of mine recently was going through the troubles of coming out to his family.. but luckily for him once he told them they gave him nothing but support to his choices...

as much as it pains to hear about ppl still living with such closed minds.. its nice to know that there are many out there who will love and accept a person close to them no matter what...

I hope your friend finds some ppl who will accept him for who he is.. and i'm sure he will! and for now make sure he keeps his head held high and doesn't comprimise his happiness for anyone!

Nikitha
zoogla
I'm sorry to hear that about your friend Sean :(

I'm pretty naive about these things--isn't Toronto a good city with a good support network for people who have to face that harsh treatment?
TheVrk
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Originally posted by naesean3
true Ivan but even more depressing to deal with.

Even more reason to be thankful for what we take for granted and to think of others besides ourselves this holiday season.


I'm very thankful for everything i have in my life.
I know that i'm VERY lucky:)

quote:
as to the timing of the situation - pathetic on the fathers part.


Pathetic is such an understatement.
So sad that so many people still cant just love their children:sadgreen:




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