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Yet another girl issue... Need advice
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
Ok so this story actually starts off about 2 months ago. I was drunk at campus bar and i went on teh dancefloor. I saw this gorgeous blonde, i made eye contact with her and she smiled. So i walked over and started talking to her. I cant remember what i said but we started dancing, grinding to salsa, to who knows what. I noticed that she had some trouble doing a couple of turns, but i thought nothign of it. We then proceeded to make out on the dancefloor. I told her how beautiful i thought she was etc etc. So we proceeded to go off to the side to go and sit on a bench to talk. It was then that i noticed that she didnt really have any function of one of her legs. and she was limping. So i thought nothing of it at the time. and we went to talk and made out again. Then out of no where this guy comes and grabs her away from me. All i did was erach out my hand to try to pull her back but i didnt want to start anything so i let him take her away.
The next day i woke up and realised what i had done, it was quite a moral contraversy for me, since i remember doing all these crazy dance moves with her and literally forcing her into moves which i probably shouldnt have been doing. (you have to do this sometimes with salsa dancing) and as well making out with her not knowing that she didnt have use of one of her legs. (no big deal really but it was something unexpected).
Really i didnt know what to do the next time i saw her.
Soon enough yesterday i saw her again. I wasnt sure if it was her or not, i was leaving hte gym, and i saw a hot blonde girl rolling by on a wheel chair. I was totally unaware that it was her at the time, but she smiled at me, and i just looked at her blankly. Then i turned around to do a double take and then she smiled and i smiled back. She was out of sight, and then it hit me. It was that girl from the bar!
So i felt like such an , i was with a friend, i should have said something but i didnt.
Ok so this girl is handicapped, its not a big deal right. But I am not ready for a relationship and i dont know if she'll be alright with that. I mean we could try out a relationship but its not really what im looking for righ now.
I want to find her and talk to her and try to sort things out. Shes a very beautiful girl. and no i dont have pics.
any advice on my next actions? should I ask her out? should i ignore the situation (since i am not looking for a relationship) should i just date her? or should i just make out with her the next time i see her :wtf: |
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| MeLLyMeL |
u made out with her... doesn't mean she wants to carry your children
:rolleyes: |
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| Vivid Boy |
| you made out withher u didnt ask her for her hand in marriage. but look on the brightside if u guys get together ull be able to park in handicap spots! |
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| Radagast |
| Elbow her in the leg a few times. It won't even hurt her. |
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| Pariah Cleric |
Seriously, dude, you might as well be saying, "I just wanna be friends with her."
You messed up and don't wanna date the handicapped girl, no reason to foot about it. It's not like you have to be ashamed of that. |
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| jonSun |
| If you just danced with her & made out with her at a bar, how do u know you would want to be in a relationship with her. |
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| BadBadNeil |
| everytime you salsa with someone sex is inevitable |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by jonSun
If you just danced with her & made out with her at a bar, how do u know you would want to be in a relationship with her. |
i dont want to be in a relationship i said that already |
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| Vivid Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit
i dont want to be in a relationship i said that already |
why because shes handicapped?
whats thematter with u HUH!
she has feelings too!
i hope she beats u over the head with her peg leg |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by Pariah Cleric
Seriously, dude, you might as well be saying, "I just wanna be friends with her."
You messed up and don't wanna date the handicapped girl, no reason to foot about it. It's not like you have to be ashamed of that. |
no i dont want to be her friend.. well id like to be. but i want to get intimate with her with baggage |
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| Orbital32 |
it worked for Duece Bigalow!
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| Vivid Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nou
Wait.. wtf.. she needs a wheelchair but she was dancing with you... im confused... :conf: |
man if i had a bum knee id like a wheel chair. |
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