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Pickin' up CHICKS!!! (pg. 2)
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| Marc Summers |
| quote: | Originally posted by eye_03
... clearly out of my leauge, expensive drinks, and FKING HIP-HOP, RnB, TOP40, 50CENT, KANYE WEST BULL!!
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| stevieboy32808 |
What a coincidence I was reading an article which talked about your same situation regarding girls out of your league. It mostly talks about how confidence is the major key. It's an entertaining read so here's the article:
| quote: | What it’s like dating a babe
By Jon Wilde
I’d like to say that the moment I met Lisa, I knew we’d be together. But really, all I thought when a mutual friend introduced us at a bar was: “She’s absolutely beautiful. And way outside my league.” We’re talking swimming-pool-sized, almond-shaped eyes, flawless skin, the kind of hair you see in a shampoo ad, perfect curves... everything. Cupid must have owed me one, because that night, our friendly conversation turned into kissing. After a few weeks, kissing turned into a real live relationship.And that’s when my love life became a rollercoaster ride. I never expected the highs and lows that go along with dating a hot girl, but read on as I spell them out. Hopefully, they’ll help you be prepared if it’s your turn to date an incredibly gorgeous woman.
The good: Pretty things are fun to show off
Remember getting an awesome toy for Christmas and feeling desperate to bring it to school to show it off? Dating a stunner isn’t much different. I think I’ve introduced Lisa to more friends than I knew I had. And lo, the whispers of “She’s beautiful” from the ladies and “Nice job, my man,” from the boys have rained down like songs from the angels. My only disappointment? Not having a high-school reunion scheduled for years.
The bad: Pretty things aren’t so fun to show off to strangers
On the other hand, that positive attention is painful when I don’t trust the person — er, guy — who’s giving it. Going out with Lisa is like carrying a thick t-bone, and there are wolves in button-down shirts everywhere, ready to pounce. Just as I convince myself I’m being paranoid, some Drakkar-scented predator slinks out of the shadows and starts putting the moves on her. An arm around her waist and a kiss on her cheek usually gets rid of him, but by then, all I want to do is whisk her away to the safety of my apartment. I never thought of myself as jealous, but Lisa has brought out my heretofore latent “protective” side—which isn’t always so pretty.
The good: Snagging a beauty breeds confidence
Never underestimate the ego boost that comes from having a lovely lady on your arm. Just knowing Lisa was my girlfriend made me feel more powerful. I attacked projects at work with more gusto, had more energy during my pickup basketball games, and even started using pen on the Sunday New York Times crossword. Seriously.
The bad: Relationship doubts are even more severe than usual
Self-doubt can crop up when you’re dating anyone, right? Well, that sentiment becomes even harder to fend off when you feel like the person you’re dating is somehow better than you. With girls before, I’d wondered, “Why is she really going out with me?” but with Lisa, I asked myself for the first time, “Why would a woman as beautiful as Lisa want to be with me at all?” I’d perceived an imbalance in the relationship that messed with my emotions.
The good: She’s the key to the town
Really, what can’t a beautiful woman get? A coy smile from her in the right direction and suddenly I’m through the velvet ropes, sitting at the best table in the restaurant, or — in one prime example of how beauty can tame a beast — escaping legal persecution. On our first romantic getaway, I was pulled over for speeding. Somehow Lisa, all batting eyes and cooing voice in her Australian lilt (sigh), convinced the cop who was lecturing me that my infraction was her fault and that she was truly, deeply sorry. In the end, the officer gave me a warning and told me to consider myself lucky. I do, and not just for getting out of the ticket.
The bad: You start to forget that you’re great, too
The perks, the attention, the self-gratification—I started wondering how I could have been happy in a relationship without them... or if I was worth any of it on my own. But then I introduced Lisa to a friend who wistfully recounted dating a gorgeous girl in college for a long time. Too long, he explained. They weren’t a good match, but he didn’t end the relationship because he figured he’d never date another perfect ten. It was a cautionary tale that made me wonder: Was I suffering from “I’ll Never Do Better” syndrome? A few times, when fights were brewing, I considered staying silent—she’s so darn good-looking that I was tempted to overlook anything. I had to have confidence in our relationship before I realized that if we were really going to be together, we’d have to talk as equals. And that’s not always so easy to do in the moment.
The good: You realize looks aren’t what matter
I’ve been with Lisa for over a year now, and I can honestly say that I’m with her because she’s the right person for me—not because she fulfills a fantasy. After all, she’s pretty, but it’s not like she’s curing cancer, you know? Just kidding: She actually has a Ph.D. in genetic research and is working for a leukemia specialist (true story). And that’s my point—now I’m confident that I’m with her for all the right reasons, like our shared sense of humor, her astounding intelligence, her beautiful laugh.
It wasn’t easy, but I took her down from the mental perch I’d placed her on. That restored equilibrium to the relationship, and now I feel confident that she wants to be with me. I still hate to see guys try to hit on her, but I can’t blame them. If I were single and met this drop-dead perfect specimen, I’d do the same thing all over again.
Jon Wilde is an editor at Maxim. |
Source:http://msn.match.com/msn/article.as...nuid=6>1=7569 |
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| twisted |
| quote: | Originally posted by eye_03
...and i dont want to just go up behind them and start rubbing my cack against their ass (or is that the only way?... |
didn't see this...it answers my first question. |
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| kadomony |
i think i saw it posted above:
dont go to clubs to pick up girls. there's so many other guys hitting on them that they'll have the bitch shield to maximum. |
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| sakabatou |
| Elbow her in the face. |
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| Subey |
Every social environment creates its own set of rules.
The main thing to understand in a club is that it is designed to only allow looks to be used in meeting people.
In other words very loud music eliminates your ability to supplement your visual appeal with conversation.
Best to meet girls on the battlefield where you are strongest. If you dance best with words then choose an arena that emphasizes that |
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| paranoik0 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Subey
Every social environment creates its own set of rules.
The main thing to understand in a club is that it is designed to only allow looks to be used in meeting people.
In other words very loud music eliminates your ability to supplement your visual appeal with conversation.
Best to meet girls on the battlefield where you are strongest. If you dance best with words then choose an arena that emphasizes that |
and what happens if you "dance best" in programing java? :haha: |
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| Konijn |
it's tough to pick up chicks in clubs because of the loud music, congested atmosphere and the difficulty in ascertaining who's there to get laid and who's there to dance and chill out. it's quite possible to have skanky chicks coming up to you for a good time, so that's your best bet in the club scene imo.
hit up lounges or bars where you can kick game with ease. |
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| basd |
| quote: | Originally posted by paranoik0
and what happens if you "dance best" in programing java? :haha: |
Off to http://www.nerdpassions.com/ you go! |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by sakabatou
Elbow her in the face. |
yeah.. that or the leg if you really want to steal her heart :p |
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| paranoik0 |
you just saved my life  |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
ok i have to admit.. im good at initiating stuff wtih girls at clubs.. butkeeping them around and getting them to trust me is hard.
The best way is to be very forward and just treat them like one of the guys.
here are some pickup lines that have worked with me:
1) find a girl. and yell at here and say "COME HERE!" and then they look over. and then say "come here i want to ask you a question" and then just ask them some question like "whats your name?" and then start talking about intresting stuff. Or make a joke about her or her friends.
2)elbow them in the face, and make it look like an accident "oh im so sorry i didnt mean to do that, here let me buy you a drink sweetheart"
then sweet talk her tell her she has beautiful eyes etc etc .. you win
3) find a group of girls on the dancefloor where 1 is dancing with a guy and the other isnt. just go up to her and start grinding with her. If she pulls away be like "sorry i forgot to introduce myself, my name is.. would you like to dance?"
4) Stare blatantley at her chest and tell her "wow omg you have a beuatiful face"
the key to all this is not to worry about rejection. you will get rejected 7 out of 10 times. |
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