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Trubble With gf/friends, help a fellow TA out (pg. 3)
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| sothis |
| quote: | | you are scary and evil |
you do realize, using such random and non-valid words to try to insult me does nothing more than make me laugh. |
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| sothis |
hehe.. i think your avatar is cute :) :)
tho i think strange things are cute... yay to scary and evil!
heh tho im pretty sure he meant me because he said "sothis" right before it. and i wasnt giving commands either, i was being assertive. |
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| hypronix |
Must I at first say that I wish to say I feel for U 2 (like so many said they do), Laun19, and that for sure we've all been through tuff times like this one.
Also, as I must admit I have not read all the posts, excuse me if I will be repetitive...
To begin with, I must say Ur ex-girlfriends attitude is rather foolish.. not only she broke up with U (and I believe she realises U aren't exactly thrilled about it), but the right next day she's dating Ur best friend. This is an attitude that should make U consider very well what type of person she is... whether a re-start of the relationship will benefit U (spiritually) or it would make it even worse for the easily-to-be-foreseen final breakup.
I hear the word love too often these days... I'm not saying U don't know what U R talking about, just that... judging by it's meaning, love is something eternal. Which is for sure not our case. Not for her.
Involving Urself in a one-sided relationship will not do U any good, that is a fact. I know for us it is easier to say then for U, but moving on is the best choice U've got. But don't give up without a fight... there should be one friendly meeting between U and the girl (alone, and just once.. so "gather" all Ur ideas straight!) where U should clear up things... being persistent over that line I find might be considered pathetic... of course, the matter of love is much more important then that of "reputation", but...
And so... I am not trying to diminish Ur hopes of a comeback... I know from experience things might change when U least expect it and then U will regret U never spoke to her about it... I'm just saying U have to try and be rational about it... it's like U should stop Ur heart from deciding for U, and let the brain take his part.
The friend? Not a friend. Forget him... it's the most intelligent approach U can take towards him... ignore and forget.
I hope for better days for U, fellow TA!
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| AnotherWay83 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vesa
You also need to be seen by her with extreme knockout model babes. There's some trouble in arranging those situations, but your friends will help you if they are real friends. |
lol no offense but thats the funniest i've heard all day!!!
wish i had such friends..
peace |
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| Eugene |
| quote: | Originally posted by AnotherWay83
lol no offense but thats the funniest i've heard all day!!!
wish i had such friends..
peace |
this can be arranged :toothless |
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| hypronix |
ofcourse Eugene is talking right now about his friends in the russian mob...
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| AnotherWay83 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Eugene
this can be arranged :toothless |
lol man u're my n00 best friend :D |
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| hypronix |
Guys, I guess it is not I that ust say the discussion has gone WAY of-topic... those that have been through such problems should realize that these are not things U'd need to hear... not even to make U feel better.
So please... although Laun19 didn't post recently w/ an update to the problem, I still think U should post whatever ideas U have that could actually help him...
sorry to be a bitch
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| Laun19 |
I will post the update when i have had a chance to work things out in my self, i think that my main prb is that i have a lot of things that have happened to me in the past 19 years in my life that i need to come to grips with before i can go on and find out what i need currently in my life. the reason that this one event has brought me down so much is that so many things that i have bottled up inside of my self are comming out with this one event and i don't know who i can talk to about it because whenever something in the past has hurt me or bothered me i have turned to her and sought her support in the issue and i think that i need to seek it now, but i don't know the best way to do that. i don't care about the loosing of a girlfriend, but it is just that she has always known how to help me through the times in my life and i need her now to help me through this time. i will be fine in time, infact i have gotten over the loss of my girlfriend, but not my emotional counlser as i see her now, that is what is bothering me, thankx for helping me through this guys, and if you all would keep helping me i would be greatful you all have helped so much and i don't know how to thank you guys except with this:
THANKX BUNCHES I LOVE YOU ALL!!!
Canfused TA,
Johnny :-) |
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| sothis |
| oh man.. ive been through that :( it really sucks.. im going to pm you |
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| bluE_Neon |
| quote: | Originally posted by Laun19
heres the story, my gf broke up with me last week after a 14 month relationship that everything was going great in, the next day my best friend, takes her out to get coffee. i ask him not to date her because i still care and she still really means a lot to me, which it true now still. i still love her and i am pretty sure that she still loves me, but he then goes off and tells me that i am being irrational that he can do whatever the that he wants. and for the whole week the only times that i have seen or talked him is when i call him, or make a point to see him. it seems to me that he is more conserned with getting in my ex-gf's pants, he calls her all the time and takes her out every day since we broke up, than trying to help me, his friend of over 6 years. what am i supost to think, or do for that matter. i am really lost and i don't know where i can find the answers, and i think that i still want to get back with my ex-gf, what do i do, and if going to get back, how do i go about it? i want them both as friends and her maybe more than a friend but how do i go about doing that without looking like an ass? any help would be greatly appriceated. thanks alot guys.
confused TA,
Johnny :-) |
u say your friends with your bro 6 years...and this what he does :rolleyes:? your friend is fake, if he was your REAL friend he wouldn't really do this, he wouldn't be hitting on her or watever he is doing right after you broke up with...that isn't respekt from his side :( sure if he's friends with her, then yes he can communicate with her and maybe since i suppose he may know what's going on with you guys, try to help her, see what the problem is...then yes that's a true friend, not friend that those it only just to get her...more and more often this kind of issue happens...the gf who you were dating a long time end's up being with your best-friend, en annoying, more couples end up like :conf: man, i feel for you :( i hope that it doesn't end up like that...my bro i know him about 5 years now as well, when i broke up with my ex, he didn't do anything, although he did want to, he told me, but coz were REAL good friends, he respekt's me, he didn't do anything and my ex was trying to get it on with me :rolleyes: having real true friends is something that we should treasure, not some fake one's...i see fake face's everyday in my life :eyes: if your friend tells you that your being irrational, then obviously he doesn't gave a man :confused: maybe he doesn't know what is like when you broke up with someone that u've been 14 months, i bet he doesn't...i dont wanna sound smart-ass or anything, but if he's like that, bro you lost a friend :sadgreen: i just hope really it doesn't end up like that...as for your ex, i dont see anything wrong with her, i think that she isn't really going for him as well, well only if she's a biatch..sorry :confused:...maybe things will turn out different, i really dont know your situation with your ex so i can say much more...
take care man and dont try to stress to much :) |
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| ZinG |
| we need a TA girl to volunteer and help our fellow TA in giving him some TLC!:D |
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