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how to spice up your sex life? (pg. 3)
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
that sounds like a girl who has lost all sexual/physical interest.
the emotional spark might still be there, but it sounds like she is becoming really bored and disinterested with the sexual part of your relationship. this shouldn't happen after 5 months.
in my experience, when this happens there isn't much you can do to fix it. for most girls, sexual attraction is almost entirely mental... it's either there or it isn't, and no amount of toys and tricks and kinky stuff will make her desire for sex with you any stronger. if anything, she will just feel forced and pressured into it and avoid it even more.
but here's what i think you should do... don't make any moves on her, don't touch her sexually, don't try to have sex, don't do anything that makes her think you want her. see how long this lasts before she either a) says something to you about it, or b) rapes you. |
i'm gonna have to agree with that...from experience haha. when girls start getting a little distant like that...things are headed for a "let's be friends" situation.
so get some more sex while you can and move on :p |
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| Protege |
| quote: | Originally posted by MeLLyMeL
Bring another girl to the sack!
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I need a girl like you;) |
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| Ang ' ela_ie |
| Cmon guys, youre obviously not reading this kids post! FIVE MONTHS! Its over. |
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| SuspicionVandit |
| teabag to death |
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| dj_bas |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie
Then again, I guess I dont know how that goes. My sex never loses spark. |
Hi :) |
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| Swamper |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
but here's what i think you should do... don't make any moves on her, don't touch her sexually, don't try to have sex, don't do anything that makes her think you want her. see how long this lasts before she either a) says something to you about it, or b) rapes you. |
Ding Ding! We have a winner! |
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| DigitalMP |
| pop it in her pooper = solution to all |
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| DigitalMP |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
but here's what i think you should do... don't make any moves on her, don't touch her sexually, don't try to have sex, don't do anything that makes her think you want her. see how long this lasts before she either a) says something to you about it, or b) rapes you. |
Don't combat lack of communication with lack of communication. It may get her to talk, but so will asking her what you want to know.
Explaining that you used her lack of action as a tactic against her will only make it worse. Learn how to address these matters now, the right way, and make her feel comfortable in the realms of expressing what's on her mind, and you may not have to wait for these same answers in the future.
She could very well have been chided during her upbringing for expressing herself when something was wrong, and this could cause her to bottle things up. |
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| Ang ' ela_ie |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigitalMP
Don't combat lack of communication with lack of communication. It may get her to talk, but so will asking her what you want to know.
Explaining that you used her lack of action as a tactic against her will only make it worse. Learn how to address these matters now, the right way, and make her feel comfortable in the realms of expressing what's on her mind, and you may not have to wait for these same answers in the future.
She could very well have been chided during her upbringing for expressing herself when something was wrong, and this could cause her to bottle things up. |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigitalMP
pop it in her pooper = solution to all |
A winner is you. |
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| DigitalMP |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie
A winner is you. |
LMFAO...for which part? :thepirate |
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| lightside |
| gavin u need to smash yougurt in her face and kick her to the curb!! |
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| FallingMoon |
damn only 5 months?
perhaps you're not sexually right for each other. I mean it is possible that she might be detached for a reason. Perhaps you're not doing something right or she isn't doing something right.
Either way if you've tried this all & you still can't get things going she just might have a dull sex drive & that might never change.
When you don't got it you just won't ever get it. |
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