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Follow up to the "ideal girl" thread...here's a good question? (pg. 2)
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| WebmaN |
| ideal is a big word. and it's ofcourse not only about looks either. but i can honestly say i will go for the ideal person. cause if i would only think about my gf that i have to settle with less, it wouldn't be worth it. if i stay with someone, she will be the ideal person for me. your love for someone will affect the view on how someone looks in your eyes. well allright, she will have her flaws. but don't we all? |
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| FallingMoon |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
Call me a pessimist, but I’ve come to the realization that there is no perfect person…not even for you. The truth is, relationships and love take work. They take courage and ability to change for the better and to adapt to situations and feelings. You just have to prioritize your needs and wants and think about the little things that might possibly bother you about someone, and think about how important it is to you that he/she doesn’t do that. i.e. Can you live with the fact that he never folds his laundry and just shoves it in the drawers despite your analness and organized personality? Can you tolerate her being a vegan vegetarian? Now obviously things like trust, sex, chemistry, honesty, communication are key in a relationship…those are like the understood necessities. But when it comes to all the little things, I really don’t think you’re going to have that PERFECT match. I’m sure it happens, but I still think it’s kinda rare. |
Oh I agree with you 100%
I am just curious to know because some guys have such large illusions on how their "ideal" girl should be & either 1. they never get them or 2. the girl they actually find is a bitch.
So that arose my question in this thread...some people put so much time/effort into describing how a girl should fit their standard but that they make it seem that if they happen to find someone not matching the appearance they look for but they fall in love with them would there be something missing?
I guess because a lot of people in this world are that shallow. |
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| Clovis86 |
| quote: | Originally posted by FallingMoon
Oh I agree with you 100%
I am just curious to know because some guys have such large illusions on how their "ideal" girl should be & either 1. they never get them or 2. the girl they actually find is a bitch.
So that arose my question in this thread...some people put so much time/effort into describing how a girl should fit their standard but that they make it seem that if they happen to find someone not matching the appearance they look for but they fall in love with them would there be something missing?
I guess because a lot of people in this world are that shallow. |
I dont really have an "ideal" girl for that reason...how do I know what shes like if I've never met her? Its impossible to lay out traits and go for that...everyone is different, and humans have more intricacies than anything I know of.
Plus, I dont choose who I fall in love with...it happens. |
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| DJ RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by Clovis86
Plus, I dont choose who I fall in love with...it happens. |
plus juan. |
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| Moongoose |
| quote: | Originally posted by FallingMoon
I guess because a lot of people in this world are that shallow. |
Newer a truer word spoken.
I actualy met someone who was what i thought to be in that point in time an ideal person for me. After a week it was either break up with her or strangle her with a piano wire. To further prove the insanity of the niverse, the girl i had cared for the most was as far removed from my perception of ideal that a fish had more things in common with a digital watch than me with her but still... |
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| BadBadNeil |
| There are certain parts of my checklist that are MUST HAVES and certain parts of my checklist that I let fly. Typically the personality items are the ones I must have because it can be unbearable to live with someone you can't stand. Looks on the other hand I find are very flexible. I can picture the perfect looking woman in my head right now but if it falls short it really isn't a huge deal, we're all gonna be a shriveled and nasty at some point. I do want someone who is in shape however. Used to piss me off when my ex would get tired or bitch and moan when hiking or walking around the city. |
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| Vlad |
| I know what I like in features, I dont have an ideal woman, for me the most important part of finding a woman is all in the eyes. I have an immense obsession for eyes and if I find a girl with nice eyes, its really all I need, all the other stuff that comes with the package is just a bonus. |
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| Clovis86 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vlad
I know what I like in features, I dont have an ideal woman, for me the most important part of finding a woman is all in the eyes. I have an immense obsession for eyes and if I find a girl with nice eyes, its really all I need, all the other stuff that comes with the package is just a bonus. |
There are so many of them though! :p
I hate walking through a club and catching a nice pair of eyes and then a guys arm on hers. lol pwned. :S |
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| Slylee |
while we're on the topic...
my ideal guy...
1. speaks his mind when something is wrong
2. isn't afraid to take on anyone for me, any time, any place (like if some chump is disrespecting me, he'll get some teeth knocked out...ok so maybe he doesn't have to be so ghetto about it, but basically won't put up with that )
3. extremely affectionate
4. likes to kiss a lot before sex
5. can talk to anyone (life of the party but without being overly obnoxious)
6. doesn't do drugs
7. sense of style
8. can shop for me without me being there (and likes to shop for me)
9. will paint my toenails for me
10. likes my dog
11. likes my music
12. doesn't constantly check out other chicks in my presence (i ing HATE that...i mean a little once over is harmless, but staring pisses me off)
13. smart
14. thoughtful
15. trustworthy
16. nice body scent (without cologne)
17. big penis
18. nice hands
19. doesn't make me feel like i always have to look perfectly groomed with makeup on and all that crap...appreciates me more when i just throw my hair back with little or no makeup on and a pair of jeans and flip flops.
20. will buy tampons for me and midol when i'm too bloated and cranky to go to the store myself
21. isn't afraid to judge another male's looks
22. solid relationship with parents/family
23. has the same views as me on raising children (i'm strict)
24. good with finances (cuz i suck at that)
25. calmer approach to stressful situations (cuz i suck at that too...i need someone to level me out)
26. thinks it's cute that i smell my clothes that are on the floor before determining if they are clean or dirty.
27. likes my cooking (but that's kind of hard not to since i rock in the kitchen)
woah, got a little carried away there... |
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| Clovis86 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
while we're on the topic...
my ideal guy...
1. speaks his mind when something is wrong
2. isn't afraid to take on anyone for me, any time, any place (like if some chump is disrespecting me, he'll get some teeth knocked out...ok so maybe he doesn't have to be so ghetto about it, but basically won't put up with that )
3. extremely affectionate
4. likes to kiss a lot before sex
5. can talk to anyone (life of the party but without being overly obnoxious)
6. doesn't do drugs
7. sense of style
8. can shop for me without me being there (and likes to shop for me)
9. will paint my toenails for me
10. likes my dog
11. likes my music
12. doesn't constantly check out other chicks in my presence (i ing HATE that...i mean a little once over is harmless, but staring pisses me off)
13. smart
14. thoughtful
15. trustworthy
16. nice body scent (without cologne)
17. big penis
18. nice hands
19. doesn't make me feel like i always have to look perfectly groomed with makeup on and all that crap...appreciates me more when i just throw my hair back with little or no makeup on and a pair of jeans and flip flops.
20. will buy tampons for me and midol when i'm too bloated and cranky to go to the store myself
21. isn't afraid to judge another male's looks
22. solid relationship with parents/family
23. has the same views as me on raising children (i'm strict)
24. good with finances (cuz i suck at that)
25. calmer approach to stressful situations (cuz i suck at that too...i need someone to level me out)
26. thinks it's cute that i smell my clothes that are on the floor before determining if they are clean or dirty.
27. likes my cooking (but that's kind of hard not to since i rock in the kitchen)
woah, got a little carried away there... |
Did you just make a list of what Craig does? :wtf: |
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| Vlad |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
while we're on the topic...
my ideal guy...
1. speaks his mind when something is wrong
2. isn't afraid to take on anyone for me, any time, any place (like if some chump is disrespecting me, he'll get some teeth knocked out...ok so maybe he doesn't have to be so ghetto about it, but basically won't put up with that )
3. extremely affectionate
4. likes to kiss a lot before sex
5. can talk to anyone (life of the party but without being overly obnoxious)
6. doesn't do drugs
7. sense of style
8. can shop for me without me being there (and likes to shop for me)
9. will paint my toenails for me
10. likes my dog
11. likes my music
12. doesn't constantly check out other chicks in my presence (i ing HATE that...i mean a little once over is harmless, but staring pisses me off)
13. smart
14. thoughtful
15. trustworthy
16. nice body scent (without cologne)
17. big penis
18. nice hands
19. doesn't make me feel like i always have to look perfectly groomed with makeup on and all that crap...appreciates me more when i just throw my hair back with little or no makeup on and a pair of jeans and flip flops.
20. will buy tampons for me and midol when i'm too bloated and cranky to go to the store myself
21. isn't afraid to judge another male's looks
22. solid relationship with parents/family
23. has the same views as me on raising children (i'm strict)
24. good with finances (cuz i suck at that)
25. calmer approach to stressful situations (cuz i suck at that too...i need someone to level me out)
26. thinks it's cute that i smell my clothes that are on the floor before determining if they are clean or dirty.
27. likes my cooking (but that's kind of hard not to since i rock in the kitchen)
woah, got a little carried away there... |
You could have said one thing to save yourself all that time to type all of that...
Craig. |
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| LiquidX |
| I think one grows into knowing what type of girl you want after dating a couple of girls. Dating its good, helps you grab a piece out of each person.. narrowing the road tours the chick that better fits you. Once you date, you tend to have a better profile of a person you would most likely click with or look for in a person.. Dating gives you experience in this term and helps you learn and mature as well. To be honest, its helped me a lot.. ;) .. At least I know what things I definetly dont want from a chick coming out from experience. |
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