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| sakabatou |
Ok,so been with this gurl for a month and I know she keeps alot of her feelings to herself, good and bad, and I am more open. Which makes it hard for me to tell how she feels even more hard.
We went out for the day yesterday and all day she hardly talked directly to me,we were in a group all day, and at the end of the day when she got home she texted and just said in simple terms thanks for buying dinner and a good day, night.
So I felt at end of the day that she really wasn't into me,and being the paranoid weirdo I am, (I am a very pessimistic person,from the fact alot of my gf's have cheated on me in the past, and basically a very unsmooth life.) I get sick feeligns that its over, and today I rang her, about 5minutes ago, and I said whats up? and she tells me that we'll talk about it later, now I did say is it anything to do with me,or us, and she said it was about her :(
I didn't get a good feeling and I've felt sick since yesterday,and she did say she felt bad for how she was with me yesterday, is it jus her? it is, that time of the month and I know that its not easy for her,so should I chill out, atleast a bit?
I brign it to teh cor,I know I won't get many serious replies,but I know that there are ones here who have been in the same position,and I hope I can get atleast a shade of help on this matter. Do I need to look into this,or not?
Oh, and inb4arcadia190lock. |
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| grooviebeats |
u hit it yet?
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inb4arcadia190 |
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| sakabatou |
| quote: | Originally posted by grooviebeats
u hit it yet?
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No,and before anyone asks, that has nothign to do with it. |
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| all-nite-freak |
serious reply:if you think you need help get it.It couldn't hurt.There are many women out there,so there will be others.If you say many girlfriends have cheated on you in the past work on your self confidence.If your girlfriend doesnt think you are a total pushover she is less likely to cheat on you.Good luck.
Cor Reply:Call her up and tell her your mother died.I dont know her ,but no chick is too heartless to resist helping during those times.Have her cuddle you and cry leading into the inevitable insertion of your pants bandit.Give her a face pirate and scream,"My moms not dead you've been punked!"at the top of your lungs.You might not feel better inside but at least you got laid. |
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| D-res |
| i just went through a really difficult relationship and your case really reminds me of mine in the sense that im open about feelings and she bottles everything up. i ended up breaking up with her due to the fact that a lot of did go down and her closedness really made it difficult to talk problems out because she likes to pretend problems dont happen and just likes to ignore those types of things. honestly dude, coming from someone whos been there for a long time, its not worth it so dont tear yourself up due to the fact that you guys might be breaking up. if i were you, next time you talk to her just bring up that since she keeps things to herself it will make any problems that come up very difficult to work out so you guys should just remain friends. just break up with her and move on because its not worth beating yourself up because problems come up and dont get worked out |
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| all-nite-freak |
| remaining friends with a woman you already had sex with is like masturbating with a cheese grater.Its too messy and the results leave your unit unusable for too long. |
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| bidor |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
remaining friends with a woman you already had sex with is like masturbating with a cheese grater.Its too messy and the results leave your unit unusable for too long. |
u nasty |
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| all-nite-freak |
| quote: | Originally posted by bidor
u nasty |
no nasty is using your teeth to pull on the string;) |
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| D-res |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
remaining friends with a woman you already had sex with is like masturbating with a cheese grater.Its too messy and the results leave your unit unusable for too long. |
i agree. the girl i mentioned and i are trying to remain friends but theres so much sexual tension. its weird ing like rabbits and then walking around with that same person not holding hands, not putting your arm around them, just acting like friends. |
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| all-nite-freak |
no more "giving her you credit card information during an online coversation"
doggystsyle. |
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| sakabatou |
She will open up the further it goes.
But I have to initiate convo's? |
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