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| Dervish |
Right I'm just back from a night out and I'm questioning myself, so I thought why not ask the CORe?
Anyway I had the oppertunity to "be with" a girl who fankly I in normal circumstances I really would. But she does have a bf (though not here, he's away).
Se to me thats a big deal. But right now I'm pretty horny and she was ALL over me. Now I semi shot her down (to be honest if she had been evn more full on and said sdomething... actualy she did*... but anyway hmm)was sooooooo tempted because of being kinda drunk but I resisted.
Once I did that she went to one of my mates and tried to make me jelious. Now it is highly possible he's getting it.
I think I made the correct call I mean she's probebly now shagging someone else just because he was there (and good luck to him) but I personally don't need to have sex (though I REALLY do like it and I know it would have been ALOT of fun!). So I am at peace with my desision and the fact that she's probebly went for a second option has made me think even more that it was a good desion.
But.... I just turned down a wild night of passion! Am I a fool (note not had it in awhile cos I tend to err on the side of not shagging anything I can get)?
I stand by my desion but I want to know what you guys think.
(sorry fo the SP)
*She said to alll the people at the table "it's all of you guys bedtimes"... then to me "but not yours if you want....." |
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| Silky Johnson |
| You did the right thing. |
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| jonSun |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
You did the right thing. |
plus juan |
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| _Nut_ |
most girls will say you did the right thing, most guys will say the opposite.
Ill take the stance of both.
You did the wrong right thing.
btw I can see plusses and minuses of both. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by _Nut_
most girls will say you did the right thing, most guys will say the opposite.
Ill take the stance of both.
You did the wrong right thing.
btw I can see plusses and minuses of both. |
I guess it depends which he values more....his honour and integrity, or his need to gratify himself. Personally I think it shows strong character that he didn't do it. |
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| igottaknow |
| unfortunately there is no right or wrong but you should have hit it. |
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| RapidFire |
you did the noble thing and retained your dignity.
you truly are a highlander, sir! |
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| Ygrene |
You're a good kid Dervish! Good kid!!
*pats on back* |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
I guess it depends which he values more....his honour and integrity, or his need to gratify himself. Personally I think it shows strong character that he didn't do it. |
integrity smegrity. when he's an old man what do you think will bring a smile to his face? The night he banged the out of some wild slut or how he held on to his integrity? :haha:
anyways you might want to try to convince yourself of the integrity bull jenny is spouting because it might make you feel a little bit better. |
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| Dervish |
I'm (kinda) regreting it I'm sooo horny right now.
Hopefully the self satisfied "buzz" will kick in tomorrow. :( lol
EDIT:
But part of me knows that it would be worse tomorrow if I was... currently....banging a hottie.......instead of being on the internet.....
Damn you concience.... nah right seriously I don't do sluts, good me, good me....
well I did do a few and it was good, but none who had bfs I once semi (the girl started it and I didn't stop her but we didn't get all the way, that ing conceince thing again) cheated on a gf and regeted it ever since.
Anyway how could you respect and so value a girl like that? (as you can see I'm wavering both ways lol) |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Dervish
I'm regreting it I'm sooo horny right now.
Hopefully the self satisfied "buzz" will kick in tomorrow. :( lol |
i guess your hand will have to keep you company tonite :stongue: |
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| MeLLyMeL |
is he your friend? then don't hit it.
if u don't know the guy... then u did the wrong thing !
SHAME ON YOU!
haha i keed:p |
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