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| meneedit |
It's taken all these years for me to get a girlfriend and then after all that I break up with her.
Nobody ever told me that breaking up with someone hurt so much.
I imagine 99 percent of you have been through this too...
So how long does it take for the pain to just off? |
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| butterfly |
| the amount of time depends on the situation. don't worry things will work out for the best in the end. |
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| Allied Nations |
Unless he kills himself...:toothless
EDIT: No, actually everything does work out better in the end.
:disbelief |
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| Ian |
You need to think positive, a good sing helps that, try these for a start
Hast Du etwas Zeit für mich
Dann singe ich ein Lied fuer Dich
Von 99 Luftballons
Auf ihrem Weg zum Horizont
Denkst Du vielleicht grad' an mich
Dann singe ich ein Lied fuer Dich
Von 99 Luftballons
Und dass sowas von sowas kommt
99 Luftballons
Auf ihrem Weg zum Horizont
Hielt man fuer UFOs aus dem All
Darum schickte ein General
Eine Fliegerstaffel hinterher
Alarm zu geben, wenn es so war
Dabei war da am Horizont
Nur 99 Luftballons
99 Duesenjaeger
Jeder war ein grosser Krieger
Hielten sich fuer Captain Kirk
Das gab ein grosses Feuerwerk
Die Nachbarn haben nichts gerafft
Und fuehlten sich gleich angemacht
Dabei schoss man am Horizont
Auf 99 Luftballons
99 Kriegsminister
Streichholz und Benzinkanister
Hielten sich fuer schlaue Leute
Witterten schon fette Beute
Riefen: Krieg und wollten Macht
Mann, wer haette das gedacht
Dass es einmal soweit kommt
Wegen 99 Luftballons
99 Jahre Krieg
Liessen keinen Platz fuer Sieger
Kriegsminister gibt es nicht mehr
Und auch keine Duesenflieger
Heute zieh ich meine Runden
Seh die Welt in Truemmern liegen
Hab' nen Luftballon gefunden
Denk' an Dich und lass' ihn fliegen
If you're not smiling after this, try the smack |
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| meneedit |
| cool. I dont think that I was actually in love with her... i'd hate to know what it feels like if you are in love and have to break up. |
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| Ian |
| quote: | Originally posted by meneedit
cool. I dont think that I was actually in love with her... i'd hate to know what it feels like if you are in love and have to break up. |
take a knife. Stab self 3 times, bleed a bit, hurt. that just about covers it. |
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| meneedit |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ian
take a knife. Stab self 3 times, bleed a bit, hurt. that just about covers it. |
heheh, I'll take your word for it ;)
and for the record i'd just like to say that girls are strange.
Here is something that she did that I thought was rather odd.
When we were getting ready to watch a movie, I picked out Spiderman 2. Looking at the cover she says "god she's pretty. Isn't she pretty?" (Kirsten Dunst) Naturally, I laughed and said "No ing way, she's seedy as". Then for some reason she instantly starts kissing me. I'm not completely stupid though, like I know the reason why she kissed me... but.. I dunno, it was just funny. |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by meneedit
heheh, I'll take your word for it ;)
and for the record i'd just like to say that girls are strange.
Here is something that she did that I thought was rather odd.
When we were getting ready to watch a movie, I picked out Spiderman 2. Looking at the cover she says "god she's pretty. Isn't she pretty?" (Kirsten Dunst) Naturally, I laughed and said "No ing way, she's seedy as". Then for some reason she instantly starts kissing me. I'm not completely stupid though, like I know the reason why she kissed me... but.. I dunno, it was just funny. |
it's good that you broke up with her. you should date someone with enough self confidence to whom you can express honestly if you think another girl is hot or not. |
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| sakabatou |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ian
take a knife. Stab self 3 times, bleed a bit, hurt. that just about covers it. |
Breaking up with one who you have loved is like dieing, but not actually to the point of death,and having to heal onesself from the point of death, now, if you say got stabbed in the heart, and it was fatal, how long would it take to heal? It would be fatal so ... its a conundrum.... yes, lets just say that. |
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| meneedit |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
it's good that you broke up with her. you should date someone with enough self confidence to whom you can express honestly if you think another girl is hot or not. |
no no no, I mean "naturally" as in I really do think Kirsten Dunst is ugly. The fact of the matter is that she was (is) better looking than Kisten Dunst. |
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| adi26 |
| quote: | Originally posted by meneedit
It's taken all these years for me to get a girlfriend and then after all that I break up with her.
Nobody ever told me that breaking up with someone hurt so much.
I imagine 99 percent of you have been through this too...
So how long does it take for the pain to just off? |
Ouch! It sucks, really does if you loved that person. Time is the only healer though, keep yourself busy or hook up with some one else :)
Break ups suck but once you are over it (which takes time), you realise that you've become a lot stronger mentally and emotionally. |
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| OrZonE |
| quote: | Originally posted by adi26
keep yourself busy or hook up with some one else :)
you became a lot stronger mentally and emotionally. |
Two key points right here :D
Also, did you get the "let's be friends" speech? |
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