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Do you find it harder to get INTO a relationship or STAY in a relationship? (pg. 3)
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| Jansa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Stunade
I found a solution to my own 'not wanting to leave' predicament-anytime I want to check out another guy, I go on a little break is all. Wish I thought of that before! Fun to have multiple guys :happy2: |
But if your partner did that, he'd be a ing , right? |
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| trewqy |
Its harder to stay.
Every girl I've been with has bored the hell out of me. I get so bored and the whole thing gets so mundane that I usually have to bail out after 2 months or so.
Getting a gf is easy as . Meet a girl,ask her out and within a week or so u'll be holding hands and all lovey dovey. |
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| Allied Nations |
| Finding a girl I actually want to be with. I get bored...:stongue: |
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| meneedit |
have u guys found that girls are hard to please?
and why do they have to be so strange sometimes?
does it piss you off when sometimes a girl doesn't even want you to touch her? |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spyder
getting into b/c most guys are just bull ers who just want one thing and one thing only and will go to all lengeths to get it ... in retarts they should be hung
finding the person you can really stick with and be happy with is hard
staying with them is a whole lot easier |
lol i hope your not referring to me :p
i still have heart 4 u |
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| THE_Chris |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ian
get into, it's hard to find someone who truly accepts me for who I am & doesn't want me to change.
I find being in one so comfortable & natural but getting there is nigh on impossible |
+1 for that, applies to me as well. Seems that 99.9% of girls have this certain type of person that they're after, and if you're outside that box they wont even bother with you.
Least thats been my experience anyway. |
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| Ivand |
Its actually hard for me to find a girl, I dont know, im a complicate person i've been told.
I cant find a hot hot girl and if she says something stupid or somethng, then i go turned down.. and if she is ugly too, and then if I find somebody good, then I get bored quick :wtf: |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nou
Getting into one is easy, but after the initial spark its hard to keep the fire burning. |
not really. you just have to get creative and introduce anal.
no but as for me, i have a hard time "dating" so i guess i don't like the initial part of it because it involves a certain degree of phoniness and game playing. i do it though just because i know how it goes, but i hate every minute of it. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spyder
getting into b/c most guys are just bull ers who just want one thing and one thing only and will go to all lengeths to get it ... |
Red meat? |
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| Moral Hazard |
Maintaining a good relationship requires work, compromise, understanding, and a willingness to subjugate your own wants/needs to those of your partner. Your partner must also be willing to do this. These are difficult things as they are often counter intuitive and finding someone equally willing to take these steps / make these sacrafices is not easy. Ultimately, a relationship is only worth being in if both partners get as much out of it as they put into it, this is why the failure rate of romantic relationships is so high.... balancing return and effort is not an easy task.
To determine whether it is easier to find or keep a relationship is rather easy, one need only look at the failure rates. Most people have many more short term relationships then long term, thus, it is clearly easier to find them than keep them as there is a scarcity of successful relationships. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Maintaining a good relationship requires work, compromise, understanding, and a willingness to subjugate your own wants/needs to those of your partner. Your partner must also be willing to do this. These are difficult things as they are often counter intuitive and finding someone equally willing to take these steps / make these sacrafices is not easy. Ultimately, a relationship is only worth being in if both partners get as much out of it as they put into it, this is why the failure rate of romantic relationships is so high.... balancing return and effort is not an easy task.
To determine whether it is easier to find or keep a relationship is rather easy, one need only look at the failure rates. Most people have many more short term relationships then long term, thus, it is clearly easier to find them than keep them as there is a scarcity of successful relationships. |
See? This is why I torment you day in and day out for relationship advice on MSN. lol |
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| Stunade |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jansa
But if your partner did that, he'd be a ing , right? |
Hmm not sure...if he really wanted to go out and explore, I doubt I'd mind. Don't wanna be a hypocrite now, do I? I want him to see all the awful girls out there, so he comes running and screaming back! |
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