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a question of morals (pg. 2)
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| D-res |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aquarian
There is nothing I could possibly tell my mother that would impress her. And yes, she did more drugs than me... alot more. ;) |
my mom did too. but she grew up in the 60's and 70's so what should i have expected? but jeez leave it to one really bad acid trip to taint her opinion of drugs forever. she was pretty mad when she found out i smoke weed, but she's pretty open minded too and she knows that i'm not a stupid who's gonna start pumping my viens full of heroin or start smoking crack just cause i smoke pot from time to time so she's pretty much ok with it now. |
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| chojin |
i wouldn't say
....you'd gain nothing from it |
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| lücid |
in that situation, i think stuff like that would be considered inconsequential.
if my mom was about to die, i'd be worried about spending time with her and having meaningful conversations... not confessing to her about all the drugs i've done. i just don't think it's important. |
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| DJ RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
if my mom was about to die, i'd be worried about spending time with her and having meaningful conversations... not confessing to her about all the drugs i've done. i just don't think it's important. |
+2
My mom has a pretty good idea of how ed up I've gotten (She definitely knows all the drugs I've done), and she pretty much knows about every girl I've been with already, at this point, it'd just be filling in the details, and I can't see those meaning much to her.
I guess maybe I'm just really not all that bad of a kid though. Some people more than likely have significantly more to confess... :p |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ RJT
My mom has a pretty good idea of how ed up I've gotten (She definitely knows all the drugs I've done), and she pretty much knows about every girl I've been with already, at this point, it'd just be filling in the details, and I can't see those meaning much to her.
I guess maybe I'm just really not all that bad of a kid though. Some people more than likely have significantly more to confess... :p |
yeah i admire how open and honest you are with your parents. i tell my mom a lot of stuff, but i've never felt comfortable discussing drugs with her. i know her opinion on them, and she knows i've probably experimented, but she never really talked to me about it... i think we just have a mutual understanding that she trusts me as long as i don't up... and i haven't ed up, so she still trusts me.
i'd have no problem telling her that i smoke weed, even though she probably wouldn't be thrilled about it... but i don't think i'd ever tell her about any other drugs i've done.
it was hard enough trying to explain to her that our trip to Miami wasn't going to be a "picnics-on-the-beach" kind of vacation. :stongue:
she already knows all my dirt in regards to boys, dating, and relationships. |
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| Mr. Pink |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
I fail to see where unimportant like that is relevent to someone on the verge of passing.
Confessing to someone all of your own defeciences when *they* are the ones about to die is kind of selfish, I think. If she were to ask, I would tell the truth, but no reason to bring up the past when it's just to clear your own conscience.
If your mom is about to die and she asks if you've ever lied to her about going out and getting ing up on the weekend, maybe it's time to unplug her anyways. ;) |
amen.
if she asks, ok......tell her.
otherwise, let her do her thing until she dies.
if you truly love and know your mother, you would kNOW what the right decision would be. |
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| DJ RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i'd have no problem telling her that i smoke weed, even though she probably wouldn't be thrilled about it... but i don't think i'd ever tell her about any other drugs i've done.
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Are you kidding me? Your mom is hitting my big suprise this summer! |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Confessing to someone all of your own defeciences when *they* are the ones about to die is kind of selfish, I think. If she were to ask, I would tell the truth, but no reason to bring up the past when it's just to clear your own conscience.
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I agree with this. Someone else's death is NOT an opportunity to clear your own conscience. Totally selfish. |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ RJT
Are you kidding me? Your mom is hitting my big suprise this summer! |
:haha: :haha: :haha: |
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| Lira |
If there's anything I didn't say, that's because it wasn't relevant to her in the first place.
However, she's always been a bit paranoid about me not telling her much about my life. Ideally, the thought of waiting until the last moment of her life to tell her that there wasn't anything to worry about, as I've only drunk alcohol and I only had sex with the girl I plan to get marry with - yes, that would be a pleasant sadistic final blow, but I'd rather keep it for myself and not have myself influenced by her own paranoia. |
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| Orbax |
| thats not morals thats etchics :p |
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| euphoria |
| My responses would depend on the type of person I was speaking to. My mom is cool and knows ALL the I do and she doesnt bother me. If it were someone that I know could not handle it in the unwell condition that they are in I would not tell them. |
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