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Best way to introduce people you know to your girlfriend? (pg. 3)
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by trewqy
LoL, I'd probably bail out by then. I just cant see it, maybe you're right.. |
For the first while, it makes sense. But then the girl starts to wonder why you don't want to bring her out with you and your friends.
Is it because you're ashamed of her?
Is it because you're worried one of your friends will tell her something she shouldn't know?
Are you really going out with these "friends" all the time?
Why can't she be one of your "friends"?
It goes on and on. Finally it will start bugging her so much and she'll bring it to your attention. You'll give her the ole "I just like to keep things seperate... it makes it easier". Then she starts mis-trusting you, becomming suspicious etc. etc.
It gets uglier and uglier. Trust me on this one. |
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| Allied Nations |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
For the first while, it makes sense. But then the girl starts to wonder why you don't want to bring her out with you and your friends.
Is it because you're ashamed of her?
Is it because you're worried one of your friends will tell her something she shouldn't know?
Are you really going out with these "friends" all the time?
Why can't she be one of your "friends"?
It goes on and on. Finally it will start bugging her so much and she'll bring it to your attention. You'll give her the ole "I just like to keep things seperate... it makes it easier". Then she starts mis-trusting you, becomming suspicious etc. etc.
It gets uglier and uglier. Trust me on this one. |
The thing is, she knows my friends, and doesn't get along with them very well- They aren't her biggest fans... this is my out of school friends though, not the people i know at school which shell be meeting tonight
anyways, keep discussing, im off to buy champagne. |
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| chojin |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
pretty much. just walk up and say, "HEY GUESS WHAT?! I'M HITTIN' THAT!" and point to her.
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response: 'daaaaaaaaamn, way to tap that bro' |
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| DaveSZ |
| quote: | Originally posted by Allied Nations
Hehe.. I could never say that, I am not like that.
But I suppose you guys are somewhat right, I shouldn't give a ! Plus I'm going to goa on Monday anyways :)! |
Tease her when you introduce her to your friends. |
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| DaveSZ |
| quote: | Originally posted by Allied Nations
Probably not- I guess it just bugs the out of me when people talk - i can't stand being talked about in terms of relationships or girls im with etc- So I don't give anyone anything to talk about- makes life very easy. |
So say "No" to worry about others think about ____ fill in blank.
Then it won't bother you. |
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| Allied Nations |
| quote: | Originally posted by DaveSZ
So say "No" to worry about others think about ____ fill in blank.
Then it won't bother you. |
WHat do you mean? And why tease her? I semi understand why you'd say tease her, but I want your reasoning. |
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| ZeJayMan |
| Fill me in.. What's happening here? |
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| Allied Nations |
| quote: | Originally posted by ZeJayMan
Fill me in.. What's happening here? |
Summary. I have a girl who NO ONE ill meet tonight knows, maybe one or two know who she is, but no one knows her and I want to make sure things go smoothly |
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| RapidFire |
| tbh, I dont think your friends give much of a . just be chill and introduce her. if theyre your friends then they'll accept her, if not then you need to get yourself another group of friends. way I see it anyway. |
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| ZeJayMan |
| Yeah, I mean just go for it no-one is going to make a big deal out of it i'm pretty sure... If you're friends start giving it "Tee-hee, chortle chortle" then give them a roundhouse kick to the face... |
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| Allied Nations |
Let's just say she has a bit of a rep for being a bit... crazy? She's openly bi which is what causes most of the talk...:p
I'm sure I'll get some tee-hee's and chortle chortles and roundhouse kicks will be delivered when necessary. |
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| ZeJayMan |
| If they start giving you crap, just get her to grab another hot bi chick and you can leave with both of them while your friends jerk one another off... In another house... |
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