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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by eye_03
dude, what if she cheats on you.. its alot easier for chicks to get guys then it for guys to get chicks.. :\ |
yeah well i know thats a possibility.. i dont mind though. we are on break!
so if she cheats it wont be cheating.. she just has to be honest with me cause id liek to know her previous sex history etc. Ill be open about it as well.. thats whta i want to happen.. but shes just being a nag.
i dont think this relationship is going to succeed anyways. Im already hung up over another girl...
DRAMA.... |
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| igottaknow |
| is she the cripple you fell in love with and dragged around the dancefloor when you were drunk? :conf: |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
is she the cripple you fell in love with and dragged around the dancefloor when you were drunk? :conf: |
lol no.. that girl snubbed me when i tried to to talk to her again..:p |
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| Orbax |
try calling her. Text is notorious for miscommunication.
I mean, you guys think im a man. :wtf: |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| im just giong to let it settle.. we agreed on something before she left, so we can stick with it til she comes back.. she still has alot of her stuff at my place so a breakup cant happen until we meet up again |
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| philliez |
wtf man just go find someone to while she is gone and get back with her if you feel like it when she gets back.
i mean if it makes her happy tell her you arent on break blah blah blah and just tag some fresh while she is gone
its all gravy, we wont tell her |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by philliez
wtf man just go find someone to while she is gone and get back with her if you feel like it when she gets back.
i mean if it makes her happy tell her you arent on break blah blah blah and just tag some fresh while she is gone
its all gravy, we wont tell her |
i dont think you guys understand.. i want to be single now and not be commited.. we agreed on this.. and im pissed offnow that shes all turning it around on me like she never new. So i dont care if she has sex when shes away. i want her to feel teh same way.
(Even though i probably wont have another partner) i just want to be free for these next 4 months and not have to worry and be checekd up on by a gf.
anywyas.. its stupid thread i just wanted to get your opnions if its wierd to go on breaks like this. and if you guys and girls who are and were in relationships have done breaks as well |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit
i want to be single now and not be commited |
you don't need a "break"... you need a break-up.
you can't just take a 4 month vacation from your partner and expect everything to be all fine and cool when she gets back. you're either together or you're not... and you two need to decide on that together. |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
you don't need a "break"... you need a break-up.
you can't just take a 4 month vacation from your partner and expect everything to be all fine and cool when she gets back. you're either together or you're not... and you two need to decide on that together. |
well its long distance ugh.. and we've only been together for a month!
so i guess you and rjt dont take breaks :p |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit
well its long distance ugh.. and we've only been together for a month!
so i guess you and rjt dont take breaks :p |
the concept of breaks actually really pisses me off. it's a cheap excuse and a convenient way of keeping someone around without really giving any effort into having a relationship. usually breaks are just a nice way of getting sex elsewhere without it being considered cheating, a way to explore your other options, or a way to "ease" out of a relationship without having to do a full-on breakup.
i mean, if you've been seeing this girl excluvisely for a month, you two need to decide whether you think you've got something special or if it was just a fling. i think it's wrong for you to put her on a back burner while she's away so that you can go out and have fun with other girls, and then just expect her to come home to you and act like everything is all hunky dory. you might think it's okay, especially if you're telling her she can do the same thing, but maybe she doesn't want to... maybe she really likes you and doesn't want to sleep with other dudes. |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
im not saying that my mission is to go out and sleep with other girls. thats not the purpose of the break.. the purpose of it is that we are far away from eachother, we cant see eachother, we talk to eachother rarely so its pretty stupid to continue the relationship for those 4 months. AND we talked about it before she left. Im just trying to be realistic here and not seem like a cheat if something happens. Its not cheating if your on break. If we cant even agree to terms like this we probably should break up.
actually we should have broke up before she left.. that was my bad right there. |
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| placebo |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
the concept of breaks actually really pisses me off. it's a cheap excuse and a convenient way of keeping someone around without really giving any effort into having a relationship. usually breaks are just a nice way of getting sex elsewhere without it being considered cheating, a way to explore your other options, or a way to "ease" out of a relationship without having to do a full-on breakup.
i mean, if you've been seeing this girl excluvisely for a month, you two need to decide whether you think you've got something special or if it was just a fling. i think it's wrong for you to put her on a back burner while she's away so that you can go out and have fun with other girls, and then just expect her to come home to you and act like everything is all hunky dory. you might think it's okay, especially if you're telling her she can do the same thing, but maybe she doesn't want to... maybe she really likes you and doesn't want to sleep with other dudes. |
i was about to post almost the exact same thing, but yeah. my gf is in cali for 3 months, but we aren't taking a break from anything. in fact, i'm even going to fly down there and see her for a week.
yeah, its just an easy way out because you don't want to be committed. either break it off, or keep it together, don't play games, it's not worth it in the end. |
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