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| ivanbee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Kfrogger
yeeeeeeeesssssssss? |
i want one :p |
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| Lomeli |
| quote: | Originally posted by SVGmethod
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Mmmmmmmmmm |
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| gypsygirl |
hhmmmmmmmmmm...........tough one and many women have been trying to answer that question for years. unfortunately many people have grown up with the media telling them that there is this unrealalistic image of what beautiful or perfect is supposed to be. we look at magazines (airbrushed) and watch tv (stars that have trainers, cooks, nutritionists, money) and see these "perfect" people and think "well, i don't look like that so maybe something is wrong with me?"
unfortunately that goal for most people is unobtainable and then people beat themselves up for not being able to reach it and often go about trying to achieve it in an unhealthy way via pills, crash diets, belimia, anarexia, etc. and still don't achieve that "perfect look" and continue to feel empty inside or worthless.
living in this town can really be hard for those that feel they need to look "perfect" or be beautiful. i mean i go to the clubs and see some really amazing women, drop dead gorgeous but then i take a closer look and see lots of "work" has been done to make them look that way and i wonder do they feel full inside or really happy? i know, getting way too deep with this question but hey, i'll be honest, i have felt that way plenty of times that i'm not pretty enough, thin enough, etc. i look around at all the ladies with the large breast, natural or bought, either way and being a small chested woman think, maybe i really don't measure up. :rolleyes: sorry had to play on words there.
but then i think being in your 20's you go through a lot of that. questioning, trying to figure out . and then you hit your 30's and start to feel comfortable in your own skin and begin to not care really what others think is " beautiful" but that you find in yourself what is great and wonderful and then the outside doesn't seem to matter as much. (note: there are many people in their 20's who have their together, i'm just saying in general)
okay so a long comment to your question Ben but there are many different reasons women feel the need to get extremely thin. but i also look around at many women i know on these boards alone and think, wow what amazingly beautiful women on the inside and out. they're out there, the real ones just like there are guys out there that are looking for real, natural looking women. we all have an idea of what is attractive and what attracts us to someone, what turns us on and gets us hot. i have my image and thank God others have theirs and it isn't the same b/c how boring would that be?
yeah, i know, i'm gonna get all kinds of for this comment but i was bored :D |
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| TSG |
I'm bored too! :clown:
I just had a flashback to when I was really young, like before my early teens and/or even in my teens yrs... I always felt like I was too skinny. I wasn't all bones and sick looking, just thin but always felt too skinny. My weight was usually 100, give or take a few lbs.
In my 20's I put on alittle more weight on purpose. In my 30's I began working out and then found out that the weight the scale showed was not what I actually wanted to see. I then learned that muscle weighs more and so... I stopped worrying about the lbs but concentrated on inches.
I would never want to be or look anorexic (I've seen myself already & I look sick!). I also wouldn't want to be really fat either. I'm pretty content with my body size even though I do have a couple of areas to work on. |
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| sephywiggin |
Ah who cares what the women do so long as I have my 6-pack? hahaha
jp jp
Stupid media has messed up girls these days. From the time they're young and they play with Barbie or even watch "Totally Spies" they're given an image of beauty that in reality is not obtainable, or at least not healthy to obtain. Personally I agree with yall -- I like my women to have a bit of meat on em. Nothing better than an athletic girl :tongue3 |
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| GPC |
| Great. So lets make skinny girls feel bad about their bodies :rolleyes: |
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| Electrophile |
| quote: | Originally posted by GPC
Great. So lets make skinny girls feel bad about their bodies :rolleyes: |
Let's just make everyone feel bad about themselves! You're too skinny, you're too fat, you're too fair, you're too dark, your hair is too limp, your hair is all frizz, you're too tall, you're too short, you're clothes are to emo, you're clothes are so trendy, you're a loner, you try too hard...... etc |
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| SVGmethod |
| quote: | Originally posted by Electrophile
Let's just make everyone feel bad about themselves! You're too skinny, you're too fat, you're too fair, you're too dark, your hair is too limp, your hair is all frizz, you're too tall, you're too short, you're clothes are to emo, you're clothes are so trendy, you're a loner, you try too hard...... etc |
im too savage. :rolleyes: |
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| gehzumteufel |
| greg: amen brotha! |
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| |Thrax| |
| here's another question, why do you care? |
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| SVGmethod |
| quote: | Originally posted by |Thrax|
here's another question, why do you care? |
why do you care if they care? lol j/k |
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