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Long-distance relationships and the intraweb
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| igottaknow |
| most ppl are boring and ordinary once you get to know them. Girls are so mysterious and sexy until you've settled into a relationship with them. i so do like the chase but hate settling down. this leads me to my theory that long distance relationship and cyber love is appealing because distance makes the heart grow fonder and we aren't exposed to mundane crap of ordinary life. |
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| Zenchowdah |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
most ppl are boring and ordinary once you get to know them. Girls are so mysterious and sexy until you've settled into a relationship with them. i so do like the chase but hate settling down. this leads me to my theory that long distance relationship and cyber love is appealing because distance makes the heart grow fonder and we aren't exposed to mundane crap of ordinary life. |
summary: which is more enjoyable, the question, or the answer? |
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| DarkAngel |
| igottaknowgotta stopmnaking threads and giving DA migraines |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by DarkAngel
igottaknowgotta stopmnaking threads and giving DA migraines |
its my deep thought of the week :wtf: |
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| tribu |
| quote: | Originally posted by Zenchowdah
summary: which is more enjoyable, the question, or the answer? |
They were the hands of ka and they knew no mercy |
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| Psy-T |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
most ppl are boring and ordinary once you get to know them. Girls are so mysterious and sexy until you've settled into a relationship with them. i so do like the chase but hate settling down. this leads me to my theory that long distance relationship and cyber love is appealing because distance makes the heart grow fonder and we aren't exposed to mundane crap of ordinary life. |
being an empiricist as far as romantic relationships go allows me to enjoy the mundane, not get bored of it, and somewhat loathe mystique.. you should try it ;) |
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| KilldaDJ |
| its no fun masturbating to pics |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Psy-T
being an empiricist as far as romantic relationships go allows me to enjoy the mundane, not get bored of it, and somewhat loathe mystique.. you should try it ;) |
i'm not interested in dating a transexual but nice try :p |
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| DjConfessions |
i can't offer anything in a face-to-face relationship cus my face is ugly as
isn't it too easy to teabag someone else? |
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| _Nut_ |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
most ppl are boring and ordinary once you get to know them. Girls are so mysterious and sexy until you've settled into a relationship with them. i so do like the chase but hate settling down. this leads me to my theory that long distance relationship and cyber love is appealing because distance makes the heart grow fonder and we aren't exposed to mundane crap of ordinary life. |
Ahhh no. I disagree 100%. My fiance is 4000 mile away atm (me chicago-ish, her hawaii). Time apart is a bitch.
And for the fact that you are resorting to this as a means for starting a relationship is sad.... it goes to show that so many people lack the social skills to find and maintain a relationship outside of the realm of a computer screen. The 'mundane crap' is a part of life and essential in every relationship. All relationships, good or bad, are meant to prep you for marriage. Would you want to settle down with someone who you have met 3 times a year for about 2 years? You think you know them... but do you? no. There are so many traits, characteristics and hidden intricacies in people. You wont find those out unless you are with them. This excludes webcams, chatting and the likes.... |
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| klingklang77 |
| quote: | Originally posted by _Nut_
Ahhh no. I disagree 100%. My fiance is 4000 mile away atm (me chicago-ish, her hawaii). Time apart is a bitch.
And for the fact that you are resorting to this as a means for starting a relationship is sad.... it goes to show that so many people lack the social skills to find and maintain a relationship outside of the realm of a computer screen. The 'mundane crap' is a part of life and essential in every relationship. All relationships, good or bad, are meant to prep you for marriage. Would you want to settle down with someone who you have met 3 times a year for about 2 years? You think you know them... but do you? no. There are so many traits, characteristics and hidden intricacies in people. You wont find those out unless you are with them. This excludes webcams, chatting and the likes.... |
LDRs are quite bad. i was in one with my fiance (me- NY him- Australia) but we are getting married in 3 weeks and he is here in NY with me now. the time apart was really rough. but if you can make it thru this you can make it thru anything.
just remember to think of the end to the time apart. i would always think when things were getting rough to remind myself XX amount of days. that always worked. |
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| Mr. Pink |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
this leads me to my theory that long distance relationship and cyber love is appealing because distance makes the heart grow fonder and we aren't exposed to mundane crap of ordinary life. |
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