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| Jah |
| hey guys im sorry to dump my problems on all of you again must be sick of these kind of threads... its just im feeling really atm need to take it out somewhere... well me and my girlfriend split up... less than a day later at someones party she got really drunk and i saw her holding hands with some guy she had liked "before" for ages and only just met again (coicedence we broke up then) she reckons it was all innocent she was drunk but thats no excuse and besides i had learnt to trust my instict on these things with her... and i just found out a few hours ago when she called up her exact words were me : "so you and aj are going round now" her : "well not at the moment but i can..." me: "see it in the future?" her: "yeah" god it hurt so much i mean this hasnt been easy just the whole split up but i saw them both come int hrough work and it all hit me and set in i think to be honest the reason she hasnt just gone for it now is outa respect (if so shes not doign a very good job because she was ing holding his hand a day after we broke up) but i dunno what to do im thinking stuff i would never before and i honestly thought i could deal with it until i actually saw it yesterday god i feel like ive been split in two, everyone tells me how to just keep it up itl all be cool and you shouldn't waste your time with selfish small people like her but if anyones been in this situation they know its so much easier said then done i just feel like bursting out in tears ALL the time im getting scared i dont even think she cares :( |
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| Vivid Boy |
peace of cake....roll him up into a carpet and throw him off a bridge..
or option #2 go out and find someone or have a fling with a girl just to get her off ur mind...ur single start living again =P |
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| tiesto14 |
Jah......
......WOW man i thought everything was going good for you...NOW this......dam man i am so sorry this happened to you....you have shown me that you are a VERY kind-hearted person that cares for others....
I have been in that situation where u see your recentley EX-girlfriend with another guy right after you both break up with each other....it really hurts....and you begin to wonder how can this person who was once my girlfriend and cared for me go and be all over another guy in front of me and not even care....its makes you get that terrible feeling in your gut and you just wanna kill the guy, cry by yourself or ask her how she could do such a cold-hearted thing....you are NOT alone..i was there not too long ago...and as corny as it may sound the only thing that helps is time....and that sucks !!
When you called her up and asked her if she was going to be with AJ and she said she could see it happening that must of really hurt...but for her to come out and tell you that, knowing it would hurt you then she seems to have very little concern for your feelings...why?..i dont know...same thing happened with my ex...and i just couldnt understand WHY....my advice dont even try and figure it out...
Her holding his hand must of really hurt..because YOUR the one who is supposed to be holding her hand...not him....but the only way to get over this is to AVOID her at all cost...even though u wanna go where she is STAY AWAY...thats what i ended up doing after everyone heeres advice and my friends and eventually i was better..u jus gotta fight it...
I am not going to tell you the same thing as the other people telling you forget her since she doesnt seem to care for you and shes not worth it..because that does NO GOOD...you like her and thats what counts...you know how it was between the 2 of you and that was soemthing special to you...what i will tell you is this...i am SURE she does care for you but maybe she is just not ready for a committed relationship with you or maybe she still wants to be free and do as she pleases....i really cant answer that...sorry
but by ALL means cry if you want...i did and it helps...
I have seen the type of person you are and i dotn think that you will have trouble finding someone new...like is aid AVOID her and situations that will lead to her....it is impossible to just forget her so dont try...and honestly dont ever forget her because it seems you like her alot...and that shoudl remain in your heart forever...just wait, give it time and you will see, because time cures all....jus be strong....
once again i am so so sorry this happened to you and i hope all is better soon....your not alone, most of us have been through this and feel your pain......take care Jah
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