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wierd dream that needs to be addressed
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| Temperate |
Ok, so, in real life my dad is paralized. And I kind of hate him for reasons you wouldn't understand unless you want to talk to me for a couple of weeks (aka complicated).
So, in the dream I was pissed at my dad, and the dude was standing up. And he did that eddie murphy thing where he said "Come on" and signaled his hand to come and get him. I was gonna beat the out of him and there was a knife in his hand! And he was all ready to stab me!
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| washout |
im sure an accurate interpretation wont be available until u disclose more information.
| quote: | Originally posted by Temperate
And I kind of hate him for reasons you wouldn't understand unless you want to talk to me for a couple of weeks (aka complicated). |
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| astroboy |
| I can't interpret your dream because I dn't know anything about you or your relationship with your father. But when you think about it remember that the dream is entirely a figment of your imagination, hence usually everyone in your dream represents you or an aspect of you. |
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| Trance Nutter |
| I think it means you want to beat up your dad and that he wants to stab you. |
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| Temperate |
| quote: | Originally posted by Trance Nutter
I think it means you want to beat up your dad and that he wants to stab you. |
That's kind of what I was thinking. I mean, beating up a paraplegic is pretty low. I think if I would feel better if he was standing up. THEN I could beat him up. |
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| Pjotr G |
| it means you watch too many Eddy Murphy movies? |
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| LiveTheDream |
In your dream you want to beat him up but you cant becoue he has a knife
In real life you want revenage but you cant becoue you feel bad becoues he is paralized.
The knife repersents him being paralized and not being able to get to him. |
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| astroboy |
Maybe it has more to do with getting over your anger. Part of you represented by you in your dream is angry at your father. The part of you represented by your father is armed with a knife. Your psyche is telling you that your anger is not only futile, it's self-destructive.
If you ever acted on it, you'd be sinking pretty low (attacking a paraplegic man), if you don't act on it it'll eat you away from the inside.
Let go of the anger... there's nothing you can do about it. What happened happened, you can't reverse that - by letting it take up any of your energy and wasting time being angry about it you're letting those past events (and your father who caused them) win. If you forget about being angry about it and blaming- but just accept the past and focus on dealing with any repercussions that you can still do something about you can move past it and win. |
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| Boomer187 |
| teh knife is a penis, and your anger is a butthole. SO you want your dad to bone your butt. |
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| sakabatou |
| quote: | Originally posted by Boomer187
teh knife is a penis, and your anger is a butthole. SO you want your dad to bone your butt. |
I literally laughed my head off reading that. |
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| Temperate |
| quote: | Originally posted by Boomer187
teh knife is a penis, and your anger is a butthole. SO you want your dad to bone your butt. |
LMAO! Ugh... why isn't there a vomit emoticon on ta? |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by astroboy
Maybe it has more to do with getting over your anger. Part of you represented by you in your dream is angry at your father. The part of you represented by your father is armed with a knife. Your psyche is telling you that your anger is not only futile, it's self-destructive.
If you ever acted on it, you'd be sinking pretty low (attacking a paraplegic man), if you don't act on it it'll eat you away from the inside.
Let go of the anger... there's nothing you can do about it. What happened happened, you can't reverse that - by letting it take up any of your energy and wasting time being angry about it you're letting those past events (and your father who caused them) win. If you forget about being angry about it and blaming- but just accept the past and focus on dealing with any repercussions that you can still do something about you can move past it and win. |
I actually really agree with much of this, except for the last paragraph. Yes, you should let go of the anger, but in order to do so, you need to confront your father and talk it out with him. You need to be able to tell him what you need him to hear, and you need to hash things out.
You only ever get one father, and yes, sometimes parents can royally suck and up, but they are human... and one day, you wont have a father to hate, so try and get this resolved so that you can have better relationships in the future. |
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