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Old fashioned guy in a new fashioned world (pg. 2)
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| Clinkz913 |
Is this Nou's older brother?
Nou's alt?
which is it? |
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| psiico111 |
Damn, I was hoping for more comedy in the replies. I figured a post like this would bring out some great wisecracks. Not that I made it up, but I don't really need advice, I was just bored.
SHORT VERSION:
Basically I'm off my game. I haven't been the kind of guy to pick up women in bars in a long time and due to the nature of the types of bars I used to hang at no woman who spoke to me was worth talking to and I don't approach women in bars anymore. I prefer meeting women through friends or at work, in situations with no expectations.
Now lately I find myself being approached by women who are worth talking to but all I'm interested in is talk at this time. I don't know how to express enough interest to make them want to continue to talk to me but not so much that I seem like the kind of guy I used to be, looking for sex.
I really not that worried about it, I just thought it might garner some interesting replies since other similar threads were so entertaining. I'll just be myself, whatever happens, happens. |
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| Frenchie |
| quote: | Originally posted by Clinkz913
Is this Nou's older brother?
Nou's alt?
which is it? |
Who ever it is..sad.
You sad lonley men need to stop posting your relationship problems on here. WTF do you think this is, lavallfe for the TA's??
C'mon now.... |
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| stren |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
My wingdings don't work. |
women don't have wingdings |
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| Orbax |
It is called being a coward.
*shrug*
Practice being less of one by going up to random groups of people and telling them the worst joke you can. |
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| sensorium |
| quote: | Originally posted by psiico111
Damn, I was hoping for more comedy in the replies. I figured a post like this would bring out some great wisecracks. Not that I made it up, but I don't really need advice, I was just bored.
SHORT VERSION:
Basically I'm off my game. I haven't been the kind of guy to pick up women in bars in a long time and due to the nature of the types of bars I used to hang at no woman who spoke to me was worth talking to and I don't approach women in bars anymore. I prefer meeting women through friends or at work, in situations with no expectations.
Now lately I find myself being approached by women who are worth talking to but all I'm interested in is talk at this time. I don't know how to express enough interest to make them want to continue to talk to me but not so much that I seem like the kind of guy I used to be, looking for sex.
I really not that worried about it, I just thought it might garner some interesting replies since other similar threads were so entertaining. I'll just be myself, whatever happens, happens. |
You have to shrink it a bit more. According to C0r rules, two sentences max for the short version. Don't alienate possible readers. |
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| dj_alfi |
I took the liberty
Short version:
i want girls for interesting conversations about our feelings and flowers and stuff, ergo i am gay. |
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| Akridrot |
| quote: | Originally posted by Omega_M
Jesus Christ :wtf: you are too old to be asking this question already |
Yeah, there's no way anyone should be having those kind of problems at that age. |
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| zokissima |
| quote: | Originally posted by dj_alfi
I took the liberty
Short version:
i want girls for interesting conversations about our feelings and flowers and stuff, ergo i am gay. |
DING DING DING.
ok but srsly though, you aren't looking for only sex, which is admirable I suppose. Have something interesting to talk about. If you're on the dance floor and she is too, and both of you are flailing about, its probably not the best scenario to have any kind of legitimate conversation. But if you're both sitting down, then talk. Saying nothing is just saying 'not interested' plainly and clearly. |
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| Psy-T |
| quote: | Originally posted by psiico111
I'm kind of an old fashioned guy |
why?
| quote: | Originally posted by psiico111
I wouldn't pick up a strange woman in a bar and sleep with her nor would I let one pick me up |
why?
| quote: | Originally posted by psiico111
I don't go to clubs to meet women but I'm always open to the possibility of meeting someone. I normally don't even speak to women in bars unless they talk to me first, I don't want to give the wrong impression. |
your idea of "the wrong impression" is obviously skewed as shown by the rest of the post, and is in desperate need of revision. you can start by defining your 'wrong impression'.
| quote: | Originally posted by psiico111
My problem comes in when they do talk to me. |
...it's safe to say that's the least of your problems.
| quote: | Originally posted by psiico111
...I may be interested in the woman too but I get all worked up about what to say and do. |
...why?
| quote: | Originally posted by psiico111
For example, this weekend while dancing the woman next to me starts talking to me, asks me if I'm having fun, asks my name, tells me I'm a good dancer, stuff like that. I made a bit of small talk with her but with her being a total stranger I really had nothing to say so she did most of the talking. |
...yet you're here telling your life story to thousands of strangers.
| quote: | Originally posted by psiico111
After a while of us not talking she says "nice meeting you" and wanders off back to her friends. |
duh
| quote: | Originally posted by psiico111
So now I wonder, was she just being friendly? Did I do something to turn her off? Did I give her the impression I wasn't interested in her? |
no. yes. and no, you gave her the impression that you're a loser who gets all fidgety when approached by females, hence leading her to realize she was wrong to approach you and hastily removing herself from the situation, ala:
| quote: | Originally posted by psiico111
I saw her around a few times throughout the evening afterwards and she seemed to be ignoring me. |
meh, enough. just pretend like my response to each of your following lines is a "why?", especially in regards to being old-fashioned, i'm sure it helps you a lot in other fields of life too. |
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| Psy-T |
| quote: | Originally posted by zokissima
DING DING DING.
ok but srsly though, you aren't looking for only sex, which is admirable I suppose. Have something interesting to talk about. If you're on the dance floor and she is too, and both of you are flailing about, its probably not the best scenario to have any kind of legitimate conversation. But if you're both sitting down, then talk. Saying nothing is just saying 'not interested' plainly and clearly. |
if he genuinely wasn't in it for "only sex" he'd have no problem talking to the women, or alternatively, no more problem talking to them than if they were a bunch of guys instead. |
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| El Spamo |
El Spamo laughs @ yo punk scaredy cat ass..:haha:
Wassamara ese?? Even a beaner like me can pick up hotties without STD's and having to pay! |
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