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Girl dating Nice Guy: "I should love him... but I don't!" (pg. 2)
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| metalgearsolid |
Women shouldn't have an opinion.
They should all be treated like dogs.
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| pkcRAISTLIN |
| if youre gonna imitate my avatar and sig and location etc, couldnt you at least include my link for my jan uplifting trance mix metalgear? theres a good lad... |
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| metalgearsolid |
| too much copy and pasting |
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| venomX |
| quote: | Originally posted by dallastar
I think there are few nice guys left in the world! |
and none of them will ever get laid !:wtf: |
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| nrjizer |
The original post is fairly vague.
There's a big difference between arguing (as in, a civil debate) and fighting. It's good to be with someone who's not afraid to express their opinion to you, but some times one or both sides of a relationship just can never agree to disagree, and healthy debating turns into a full blown fight.
So, I'm not sure what the woman in the original post wants. If she's complaining that her boyfriend is completely passive and afriad to express an opposing opinion whatsoever, then he's a and that's hist fault. However, if she plays games with him and either a) turns his opinion around on him with a guilt trip, b) takes offense from it and bites his head off, or both, then she's a bitch and that's her fault.
I've known couples who turn a simple disagreement over something trivial (that doesn't even pertain to the relationship) into a huge fight, becuase they're too stubborn and immature to deal with it in an adult manner. I've also known girls who not only expect to fight with their significant other, but want to--and that's ed up. It only proves that they are immature and don't know how to deal with their anger or self esteem issues except by passing it to the other people in their lives. |
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| astroboy |
| quote: | Originally posted by dallastar
I think there are few nice guys left in the world! |
That's because most women are like the one that made that post - they talk endless about how they want a nice guy, but when they get one they don't like him... So every nice guy with half a brain realises that if he wants any he has to change and stop being nice.
That quote in the first post just proves what most guys already know:
1) What women say they wantin a guy normally (nice, sensitive etc etc) is completely different to what they actually want - some asshle who can "put them in their place" to remind them of their disciplinarian daddy.
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2) The other thing women want is for someone to facilitate the pointless arguments that they start, simply for the sake of arguing. The melodrama somehow boosts their ego, and if they don't have enough drama in their lives they start to feel unhappy (this is possibly a result of social conditioning via TV soaps?).
The key or guys is not to just acquiesce when women start to make unreasonable demands as this shows that a-you have no backbone and b-you're not facilitating the drama (you're not "passionate" enough about the relationship according to the chick quoted above). The best thing to do is remain emotionless and flatly refuse to play ball no mater how many childish tantrums she throws or to play along and pretend to get emotional and angry (this has the benefit of some quality make-up sex afterwards). |
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| Ang ' ela_ie |
| Personally, I agree. I dont want a pushover. Grow some pubic hair or something. Thats my advice to the "nice guys." |
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| pkcRAISTLIN |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie
Personally, I agree. I dont want a pushover. Grow some pubic hair or something. Thats my advice to the "nice guys." |
like we give a about advice from women :rolleyes: |
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| Aquarian |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie
Personally, I agree. I dont want a pushover. Grow some pubic hair or something. Thats my advice to the "nice guys." |
Speaking of pubic hair, it should probably be noted that women aren't attracted to mature guys either. |
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| all-nite-freak |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aquarian
Speaking of pubic hair, it should probably be noted that women aren't attracted to mature guys either. |
ca sent les troubles d'amour pour toi mon choux.:p |
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| Aquarian |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
ca sent les troubles d'amour pour toi mon choux.:p |
c'etait juste une observation :p |
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