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Age difrance (pg. 4)
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| clubamerica |
| Put it this way she is (younger) then me:( |
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| ::TranceVanDyk:: |
| not by that much. your both in your 20's. |
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| igottaknow |
| its perfectly natural to date younger women :) |
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| bananas |
| how come you can't write? |
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| Orbax |
age doesnt mean anything. If you guys are on the same level, who cares. if it bothers you because she looks old, acts more mature than you (boring), then dont date someone that has an inherent aspect that bothers you. That holds true for anyone regardless of age.
Just asking the question kind of seems like you are kind of bothered by it, but who knows.
For a man the rule is:
(age / 2) + 7 for the minimum age.
Thats more of a maturity issue though because girls are boring until they get older :D
girls can date pretty much whatever age they want though. |
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| Orbax |
Also, whenever someone is in a relationship, only someone who has never had a fulfilling relationship thinks they can break it up by being wonderful.
There are too many intimate moments, long histories, etc... for some random dude to even make a girl think about leaving.
edit: unless she is kind of a ho. in which case you dont want to date her. and if shes in that bad of a relationship, shes probably stupid or has some other glaring flaw that you aren't aware of yet, and her dating someone else is Gods way of protecting you from disillusionment. |
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| CranberryJuice |
some of my girlfriends are dating older guys (most of my friends are 21 or 22) and their bfs are 28 or 29 and they are perfectly fine....these girls are very mature and responsible and when u see them with their bfs u dont have see any gap between them (gap of difference of maturity) i think as long as u both agree on what you want in the relationship and how u want it then the age doesnt mean anything .....some people can be extremely mature at 20 .....and some at 30 still very childish
good luck ;) |
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| bidor |
| quote: | Originally posted by clubamerica
Yes i will ask her out,but im shure she will say no:( |
still worth trying. |
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| igottaknow |
| pm me her phone number if it doesnt work out :disbelief |
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| EXTREMUM |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
Also, whenever someone is in a relationship, only someone who has never had a fulfilling relationship thinks they can break it up by being wonderful.
There are too many intimate moments, long histories, etc... for some random dude to even make a girl think about leaving.
edit: unless she is kind of a ho. in which case you dont want to date her. and if shes in that bad of a relationship, shes probably stupid or has some other glaring flaw that you aren't aware of yet, and her dating someone else is Gods way of protecting you from disillusionment. |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
age doesnt mean anything. If you guys are on the same level, who cares. if it bothers you because she looks old, acts more mature than you (boring), then dont date someone that has an inherent aspect that bothers you. That holds true for anyone regardless of age.
Just asking the question kind of seems like you are kind of bothered by it, but who knows.
For a man the rule is:
(age / 2) + 7 for the minimum age.
Thats more of a maturity issue though because girls are boring until they get older :D
girls can date pretty much whatever age they want though. |
| quote: | Originally posted by CranberryJuice
some of my girlfriends are dating older guys (most of my friends are 21 or 22) and their bfs are 28 or 29 and they are perfectly fine....these girls are very mature and responsible and when u see them with their bfs u dont have see any gap between them (gap of difference of maturity) i think as long as u both agree on what you want in the relationship and how u want it then the age doesnt mean anything .....some people can be extremely mature at 20 .....and some at 30 still very childish
good luck ;) |
The best three posts I've seen, on here - they make perfect sense.
Cliff's Notes: Age doesn't mean a thing. For as long as it's legal, and there's a balance of maturity between the both of you, it has a chance to work out.
Good luck. |
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| Slylee |
that's not that bad. but dont expect her to be all with it...meaning, knowing what she wants. but if u just want to have a good time, then sure. i'm not saying that's a bad thing, but for the most part, a 20 year old girl has no clue what she wants. especially when it comes to men and relationships, but i'm sure there are a few exceptions.
god i was so obnoxious when i was 20. lol typical party girl doing what i wanted, not really thinking of consequences, and swearing up and down that i was soooo mature for my age just because i partied in the vip and drank champagne and hung out with older people. :rolleyes:
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| EXTREMUM |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
that's not that bad. but dont expect her to be all with it...meaning, knowing what she wants. but if u just want to have a good time, then sure. i'm not saying that's a bad thing, but for the most part, a 20 year old girl has no clue what she wants. especially when it comes to men and relationships, but i'm sure there are a few exceptions.
god i was so obnoxious when i was 20. lol typical party girl doing what i wanted, not really thinking of consequences, and swearing up and down that i was soooo mature for my age just because i partied in the vip and drank champagne and hung out with older people. :rolleyes:
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Typical, young brat... lol jk :p
That's why I'd never date a lady, under 23. At that age, MOST women are or close to dialing into reality. Most of them (if they're in college) are usually done with college, and 'just about' settled into a new career, showing that they have direction in life. I'm not bashing on women who haven't finished college, or haven't gone to college at all. There are women I know, that are single parents, that are anywhere from 24 - 26 years old, and they're either just starting college, or going for their Master's and PhD - I praise them, for such efforts. Anyway, these are things I look for, if I ever chose to date someone at a certain age. I'm not superficial - I just know what I want in life. I can't settle for 'deadbeat' women, who enjoy living off their men.
Knowing that they're doing something with their lives shows maturity, responsibility, and independence - these are things I look for, regardless of age. (with the exception, that they have to be over 18 :p) |
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