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GIRLS, a question for you.... (pg. 3)
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| Miss Proximus |
O god.........did you actually read the thread??? I feel so much like slapping u in da face!! |
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| SmellsExcellent |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Proximus
O god.........did you actually read the thread??? I feel so much like slapping u in da face!! |
yeah, i posted that site in my original thread... :toothless=trance_freak
lol.. no worries though..
-Marc |
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| Devbert |
Very true, I never fully understood the bad boy mentality thing.
I think it is a self-esteem issue though. Girls have been treated like a lot, and it makes them uncomfy when someone is just nice and polite to them. Because that's how I act around girls, genuine, polite, a little vulgar on occasion, but honest. Yet it's the guys who insult girls to their faces in front of their friends who end up getting them.
The ironies of life. There are many of them. |
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| SmellsExcellent |
| quote: | Originally posted by Devbert
The ironies of life. There are many of them. |
and so well-said by Alanis Morisette in her smash hit song "ironic."
HAHAHA lOL :) :D :eek: :rolleyes: :clown: :toothless :stongue: :stongue: :stongue: :stongue: :stongue:
HAHA - had to hit that one.
-Marc |
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| Djinn |
This site may also provide some insight, it's from a female POV.
When you want facts, go to the source! :) |
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| u4ea:[soulstar] |
Ahem.. err. I didn't check the threads, I'll just go by what's written here. Maybe the chicks have a self-esteem problem previously before getting into another male-dominate relationships. Like attracts like, negatively or positively. Just like girls drop one-sided, abusive relationships for another. Or the chicks like aggressive, egotistical bastards because they're like that also. But I doubt that actually happens. The formers seem more appropriate.
If that's "what it takes", it's not worthy of your time and compromising your principles and dignity. Unless, of course, you uh can't myself... Do what you must! :D
If I'm wrong, correct me. |
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| TiestoInTheMix |
ok, i asked two of my female friends about this and they practically said yes.
the one that does not have a boyfriend said "hell yeah. bad boys!" and she's definitely NOT your typical 'bitch' or whatever. maybe a little immature. the other one was kinda unsure, but she has a boyfriend who's practically a girl himself, so most of the time he's nice to her. they've been together for almost a year and well, he's not a bad boy.
so maybe it comes down to this: immature girls choose badasses, and girls more experienced with life want peace, so they go with the nice guys. not pointing any fingers. but yeah, i heard somewhere that if you don't "spice up" the relationship, as DJ_Exon said, she might get bored.
and btw, alanis morissette - ironic is a good song, one of my favorites. kinda like a soundtrack to life... |
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| Endlesswave |
| quote: | Originally posted by Dj_ExOn
No this is actually true. Be an at first.. make her think she is in control, then gradually be more nice to her.
You cant be an all the time because then she will get tired and break up with you or leave you.
Then be an once in awhile to "spice up" the realationship.
If you are to nice they will get tired of you..that's a fact! |
I mean , I couldn't agree more, the thing that pisses me off is why do we have to be that way just to make things not so boring? I don't think you necessarily have to be an to "spice" things up but apparently that's how it is? I dunno, I'm just sick of all the BS period. As of tomorrow I'm gonna go live in a monastary in Tibet. j/k lol:p But it really does get annoying. I mean to only be nice all the time is completely pissing me off but it's HOW I AM. I cannot change that temporarily just to "get some", so I guess I'm stuck like this...oh well, life goes on. And with regards to that site posted above with the "facts", HA! All I can say is if women want an who cheats on them whenever they get the chance then more power to em...later...
P.S. I Love this "Nice guys sit there like passive puppies, waiting for their girl to make all the moves. This is because woman love to feel undesirable."
My thoughts with that is that I am SHY, making a first move does not come easy to me, and I have to suffer because of it?
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| Lazgti |
EndlessWave...well said.
Eugene...I used to agree but now I think the right girl is getting treated like by some wanker who thinks he's the but is really an idiot who does not know what he has...
I agree with the comment about the immature chicks...unfortunately I have yet to meet a mature girl these days. Everywhere I turn girls my age playing games that were old even when we were 16...stupid stupid games. |
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| Az |
| quote: | Originally posted by infinity HiGH
Nice guys do finish last...
...hehe, this reminds of a story...I was in love with this girl and ya, it was all good and , but she wasn't ready to be in a serious relationship again...so I told her that I can give her all the time in the world. I was nice to her, treated her with respect...joked around, etc etc etc, had fun, basically. And, ya, all of the sudden she turns into this bitch and tells me that its not going to work out, completely ignores me, and just gives up on the friendship me and her had.
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same happened here my friend, only she ed off with the biggest, most evil bastard I've ever had the displeasure of meeting. wit. :rolleyes:
but anyways, been "pursuing" some lass for a while, only been dead nice about it, didn't fone or message her for a week,and when she foned me I was generally 'off' with her, anyway she invited me to "keep her company" while she babysits for a woman down her street on saturday. hehe I'm the man :D |
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| biznology |
| possibly one of the most annoying things about dealing with women is that a group of guys can sit around staring at a TV for days, not say a word, and consider themselves better friends afterwards. most girls require you to treat them like , and entertain them otherwise they just move on to someone else that can treat them worse...their loss i guess/ |
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| TiestoInTheMix |
| quote: | Originally posted by Endlesswave
I mean , I couldn't agree more, the thing that pisses me off is why do we have to be that way just to make things not so boring? I don't think you necessarily have to be an to "spice" things up but apparently that's how it is? I dunno, I'm just sick of all the BS period. As of tomorrow I'm gonna go live in a monastary in Tibet. j/k lol:p But it really does get annoying. I mean to only be nice all the time is completely pissing me off but it's HOW I AM. I cannot change that temporarily just to "get some", so I guess I'm stuck like this...oh well, life goes on. And with regards to that site posted above with the "facts", HA! All I can say is if women want an who cheats on them whenever they get the chance then more power to em...later...
P.S. I Love this "Nice guys sit there like passive puppies, waiting for their girl to make all the moves. This is because woman love to feel undesirable."
My thoughts with that is that I am SHY, making a first move does not come easy to me, and I have to suffer because of it?
Chris. |
i absolutely agree with everything^^^^^^^^^^ that's like you talking about me
i admit, i'm shy and i'm nice, so what? it's not like i have never seen a girl who liked nice guys, i have. and she was making the first moves, btw. not all girls like s.
and about this "spicing up" relationship thing... i think it's totally wrong. first of all, why would you want a big fight to spice it up? i remember watching this sitcom a really long time ago where this guy got tired of his "too perfect relationship" and picked a fight with his girl. they broke up. of course it's a sitcom, but there could be an element of truth there.
oh, another thing. why do we, guys, have to "spice up" the relationships? love will hold only and only if both sides contribute to it. and it doesn't have to be assholish. |
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