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A question for the ladies (pg. 2)
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by -=ryancoke=-
This is the biggest pet peeve of mine. It always makes me feel like I'm back in high school and missed curfew. YUCK. |
A lot of guys are hyper-sensitive with this too. I often ask my boy how he is and what he did, but I am asking out of interest of his life and what he does when I'm not around. I think some guys misconstrue that as mistrust or jealousy. |
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| Jansa |
| quote: | Originally posted by dallastar
girls just like to know what's going on! If we don't ask, we may get suspicious! If there is suspicion then that might be a sigh of a decrease in trust. Curious minds want to know;) I dunno, but if she's asking all the time, you gotta tell her give it a break already! geez! I hate when guys are like "where were you?" who are you with?" yada yada, such a drag and it lead to a lot of break ups! |
It's not really like she's annoying me with questions or anything. It's just that the other day she was talking on the phone with a friend and told her what colour shirt I was wearing. :wtf:
I fail to see why talking about that could be interesting. And why anybody would actually care about this kind of ? :conf:
I can only wonder what they talk about when I'm not around to hear it. :nervous: |
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| -=ryancoke=- |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
A lot of guys are hyper-sensitive with this too. I often ask my boy how he is and what he did, but I am asking out of interest of his life and what he does when I'm not around. I think some guys misconstrue that as mistrust or jealousy. |
Fair enough, I will give you that one. Sometimes I feel like I'm under the microscope, and it's totally my issue. I suppose what really bothers me is when the interrogation starts. asking the same questions in different ways, to ensure a bullet proof story, etc.
or, the 'cell phone call for no reason' while I'm out, with follow up questions.
Those are the things that bother me more I think |
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| lücid |
| sometimes - and i find this is truer with the female population - people just need to talk about random pointless bull, just for the sake of talking. i don't divulge little details and secrets about my boyfriend or our relationship unless they're actually important to the conversation... and conversations like that don't exactly happen very frequently. i also think a lot of girls feel the need to compare and compete with, as well as seek approval from other girls when it comes to like relationships and boys. |
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| MeLLyMeL |
| I don't tell my girlfriends half as much crap as I tell my boyfriend. |
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| dallastar |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jansa
It's not really like she's annoying me with questions or anything. It's just that the other day she was talking on the phone with a friend and told her what colour shirt I was wearing. :wtf:
I fail to see why talking about that could be interesting. And why anybody would actually care about this kind of ? :conf:
I can only wonder what they talk about when I'm not around to hear it. :nervous: |
that's weird! punch her in the throat! just kidding!;) I don't know maybe you could talk to her and let her know the following things bother you!?
I just got outta a relationship with a guy, i didn't braek up with him for this reason, but this did annoy me a lil, here's the story.
he would host a karaoke night (temporary for a friend) and I saw this girl I hadn't seen since grade 9! that was about 15 years ago,and I was telling him outside that was the girl that introduced me to smoking, so the next time she goes up to the mic to sing he says, "my girlfriend tells me you started her out smoking", I was like Shut up , geez:rolleyes: I spoke to him after not to repeat everything I say. At that point that was the 5th time in the first three weeks of dating him! It still continued, and abotu a month later we get together with one of his guys friends and he was talking about our sex life right in front of me. I kicked him a couple time which he thought was me being funny and shy - I was pissed off!!!! SO yeah I dumped him abotu a week later after that - and he still text messages me "I love you xoxoxoxo xoxoxooxoxo xoxoxoxo I miss you a lot and you hurt me a lot xoxoxoxoxoox" like fuk give me a break!:eyes:
basically just talk to you girlfriend, tell her this bothers you and it should be all good - if she doesn't accept that then she's shallow!
:tongue2 that's all for now - good luck! |
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| Lira |
Hell, this kind of thread makes me feel girly :p
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
A lot of guys are hyper-sensitive with this too. I often ask my boy how he is and what he did, but I am asking out of interest of his life and what he does when I'm not around. I think some guys misconstrue that as mistrust or jealousy. |
I was the one who taught my girlfriend this kind of stuff: I'd ask her how her day was, for example, and this was something she wasn't used to.
So, in the end, yeah, this kind of stuff doesn't bother me at all :p |
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| Allied Nations |
| I hate it when my girl talks about me to her friends etc etc. STFU. |
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| Fast Turtle |
| I mostly keep to myself about my husband. Why the would my friends care what he eats or about his bad habits or sumat? |
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| Lilith |
| quote: | | Originally posted by Jansa Why do you always have to tell your girlfriends about everything? |
A: She's got nothing better to do
B: You annoy the hell out of her
Would your opinion be different in this regard if she was telling them nice things about you? Take it for what it is- a warning sign. |
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| Silky Johnson |
Because (most) women are ing stupid.
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| Jansa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lilith
Would your opinion be different in this regard if she was telling them nice things about you? |
She does! :p
| quote: | | Take it for what it is- a warning sign. |
I really don't think that. We're doing great actually. She even laughs at my stupid jokes. :toothless
Does it make me a hypocrite that I'm complaining about this and talking to strangers on the internet about her? :tongue2 |
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