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what shall I do about this girl (pg. 4)
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| jdat |
call her every hour on the hour
she's bound to answer eventually!
( perhaps indirectly by having your phone number blocked from calling her but hey that's still means she validates your existance, treasures your person and wants to perhaps be your babys mommy :D ) |
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| daeus |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ Mikey Mike
Unlucky, you've been shot down. Get over it and move on. |
Thanks Mike, always helpful as usual!
| quote: | Originally posted by trunks1022
can i get a skeet skeet |
What?
| quote: | Originally posted by DigitalPhoenix
text her again: 5vrpri53 bvtt53x 2nit3? |
lol.
I'm gonna try calling her either tonight or tommorrow after work again then leave it, chances are Ill see her about In town as its not very big but that could be pretty akward for her if shes chosen to ignore me. |
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| DJ Mikey Mike |
| quote: | Originally posted by daeus
I'm gonna try calling her either tonight or tommorrow after work again |
Deluded. Desperate. Denial.
Do you have no pride? Show some restraint for 's sake. |
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| RapidFire |
| ^yea I suggest you dont. if she cared she wouldve answered by now |
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| Lilith |
| Just leave her alone :( |
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| Dj O'Callaghan |
As everyone would say give up and move on. She's not intrested mate if she was she would of replied or called you back in a instance.
Don't ever text girls when re-establishing contact with them too always ring.
If you do call her getting a response this time no nice guy stuff, she's the one in control of the interaction because your on the backfoot it's 3-0 to her. So I suggest 'Telling her that she looks like a downie'. |
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| EXTREMUM |
| quote: | Originally posted by daeus
I met this girl on Sat night and got on really well - she gave me her Number.
Just Today I txt her once asking if she wanted to meet, and called her once when I got home after work to follow it up as didnt get a reply, just now, but it sounded like she hung up on the 4th "ring".
I dont want to prester her but she was REALLY nice....
Shall I: Damn polls not working..
Call again
or
Leave it, see if she replies |
Wait 'til she calls back. Repeating your calls, will only make you look desperate. In the meantime, keep your options open to seeing other women. |
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| daeus |
| I meet a fair few girls so this is pretty old hat but I am js stuck on this certain one, ive only tried calling her once so its not like she thinks im that bothered at the moment.. |
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| Scoops |
| nxt time. let her buy her own damn drinks |
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| DOOMBOT |
| quote: | Originally posted by daeus
I'm gonna try calling her either tonight or tommorrow after work again... |
There you go! But if she doesn't pick up, why stop there? Unless of course, you are a quitter! |
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| Aristronica |
first of all, correct me if i'm wrong. if you met her on sat it was too soon for a call. i like to place a phone call on a wed/thurs - get them ready for a weekend.
no text messaging, no follow-ups, one phone call - that's all you get. if they don't pick up, voicemail is along these lines " hey, it's Denys, we met last saturday night. i'm going (here) with some friends this friday, just seeing what you're up to this weekend. gimme a call." (so far so good, you're let her know what the you up to and that you don't need her ass for anything, if she's interested she calls you back finds out more details etc... if it seems right and going good you go a little farther in conversation and ask her to come with you or whatever BUT NEVER in a voicemail, never give a lot of details/ask questions in a voicemail - save that for when she actually calls you so you have something to talk about)
...and if you're really that ing desperate, leave her a little snippet for example "i'd like to see you again" - i wouldn't, but if you want to that's fine. i mean if the bitch is smart she'll recognize "wondering what you're doing this weekend" as basically saying the same thing - but it's not in that desperate tone so you're set. for some dumb girls you gotta reinterate the fact, so you go with "i'd like to see you again" - again why i don't use it, if you're not smart enough to get it from the original message i shouldn't be talking to you in the first place.
and THAT'S IT!
you leave it at that. if a woman is interested she will call you back... if she's not... well i don't know what women do in those cases i haven't got to experience that yet.
and there's my thesis on "the phone call" |
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| RapidFire |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
first of all, correct me if i'm wrong. if you met her on sat it was too soon for a call. i like to place a phone call on a wed/thurs - get them ready for a weekend. |
that could be a lil too late. thats already 4/5 days after...unlesss you absolutely blew her mind she'd forget about you by then.
id say wait 2 days at most. |
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