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when girls say sex isnt important.... (pg. 2)
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| Aristronica |
| sex isn't important until you're not having any. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
so you're saying if your b/f was horrible in bed you'd still be with him? |
Yeah. People learn you know, lol. A good sexual connection doesn't happen with everybody. Every person is different, just because the first time with someone is , doesn't mean either person is , it just means they have to find that connection.
It's not rocket science.
And why do people always have to question/doubt what others say like this? LOL...I'm not making it up. You're trying to get me to change my own mind about how I feel?? Ridiculous. :p |
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| all-nite-freak |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
sex isn't important until you're not having any. |
not really true.
after 2 months of total abstinence i find that i am able to do more and achieve more.Its like that episode of Seinfeld where George gets smarter through abstinence.Sex can control your life when you are getting plenty, especially if its of the i have sheets stuck up my ass variety. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
this is after 9 years bear in mind.Not the same thing.
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Actually that has nothing to do with it. I've never been like that, even when I was single.
Again, why do you people feel the need to question me? I think I know how I am, lol. You guys are trying to tell me how MY experiences are?? Think about how stupid that is. |
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| Frenchie |
| I'd stay with him. Saying you'd leave your SO if they were not good in bed is saying you put sex over love. If you love them, does/should it matter? Unless sex IS more important to you. |
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| wienerschnitzel |
| lately i've been thinking i shouldn't have waited until i was married to have sex.. now i'm always going to wonder what i'd be like to another d00d, and i have no one to compare eli to (which is maybe better, i don't know?) either way.. i think it is important.. but if i'm not getting as much sex i would like it wouldn't be the end of the world. Does that make sense? |
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| Slylee |
i just think the emotional connection that can go along with sex is so intense and amazing....it creates a bond. so it's kind of important to me that the guy i'm with can make me feel amazing and sexy and close to him during sex.
and i'm talking about sex with your serious partners. :p |
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| all-nite-freak |
| quote: | Originally posted by wienerschnitzel
lately i've been thinking i shouldn't have waited until i was married to have sex.. now i'm always going to wonder what i'd be like to another d00d, and i have no one to compare eli to (which is maybe better, i don't know?) either way.. i think it is important.. but if i'm not getting as much sex i would like it wouldn't be the end of the world. Does that make sense? |
was your man a virgin too? |
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| wienerschnitzel |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
was your man a virgin too? |
:stongue: no eli was quite the man whore before we met. |
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| all-nite-freak |
| so he sowed his wild oats and locked up a virgin.Today that is the equivalent of winning the sexual loto. |
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| wienerschnitzel |
| don't leave out the part where i gave him anal on the second date. |
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| Aristronica |
just to clear up - i wouldn't leave a person i'm with just because the sex is horrible.
and in reality it all depends on what that relationship is based on. if it's sexual, and after a while you come to the realization that the sex is not that great, i guess i would leave that person - because the attachment that brought me to them in the first place has lost its luster... so that's why they call it lust... |
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