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Challenges of Asexuality (pg. 3)
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| weymouth |
| You definitely don't type or use the wording that I would expect a person with those disorders to use. |
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| Inconspicuous |
| quote: | Originally posted by djmaxima
my teacher said that Tourettes OCD and ADD are not genetic |
Your teacher is a moron, or you are very gullible. In either case, that's nonsense. |
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| Sand Leaper |
| quote: | Originally posted by venomX
From your previous post of how your concerned about repercussions due to engaging in sexual activity I would say you're just too anxious to actually have sex more than being asexual. If you're physiology goes wild you are having a sexual response, you're just not acting on it. So basically you're only asexual in your head while heterosexuality and homosexuality that someone mentioned here have a strong biological factor. I.e. you said you react to females, then you have heterosexual inclinations, you just choose to not act on it. It's like being hungry and deciding not to eat. |
Dead on. It's not like the concerns mentioned (STDs, unwanted pregnancy, rep loss) only apply to the people with genetic disorders. They apply to anyone who wants to be sexually active. That being said, it's certainly understandable that these risks can seem daunting enough to put you off sex, even though the pleasure derived from sex normally is convincing enough. |
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| La5eR |
yeah Venom youre right, A one night stand would be awesome but even behind every female with an Emotionally strong fasad is an actual person with emotions and feelings so I choose not to hurt anyones feelings I am a lover not a hater or a person that likes to hop from one to another. Too many Males in this world are only "in" (pun intended) it for themselves and are selfish. I guarantee you that if there is a girl out there that has the courage to take me on as an emotional/phyiscal means of support I will be there for every step she desires to take.
This is the way I look at it relationships, they are meant to be cherished and enjoyed and believe it or not they are marriages from the very on-set in a sense that they have the aspect of dedication and commitment. Relationships arent meant to be tossed around like toys. |
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| venomX |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sand Leaper
Dead on. It's not like the concerns mentioned (STDs, unwanted pregnancy, rep loss) only apply to the people with genetic disorders. They apply to anyone who wants to be sexually active. That being said, it's certainly understandable that these risks can seem daunting enough to put you off sex, even though the pleasure derived from sex normally is convincing enough. |
I agree. Not to belittle your situation La5er but I don't think this is anything special or related to having ADD or Tourettes. I think this is more a problem of you not being determined enough to engage in sexual intercourse with people. |
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| venomX |
| quote: | Originally posted by La5eR
yeah Venom youre right, A one night stand would be awesome but even behind every female with an Emotionally strong fasad is an actual person with emotions and feelings so I choose not to hurt anyones feelings I am a lover not a hater or a person that likes to hop from one to another. Too many Males in this world are only "in" (pun intended) it for themselves and are selfish. I guarantee you that if there is a girl out there that has the courage to take me on as an emotional/phyiscal means of support I will be there for every step she desires to take.
This is the way I look at it relationships, they are meant to be cherished and enjoyed and believe it or not they are marriages from the very on-set in a sense that they have the aspect of dedication and commitment. Relationships arent meant to be tossed around like toys. |
Yeah, i see your point. I wish you luck too, its a noble endeavor :p. It's a matter of personal choice. I for one wouldn't be able to keep to such a committment im way too horny :wtf: |
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| Inconspicuous |
| btw, wouldn't this be celibacy, not asexuality, since it's a choice, not a lack of interest? |
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| Lebezniatnikov |
| quote: | Originally posted by Inconspicuous
btw, wouldn't this be celibacy, not asexuality, since it's a choice, not a lack of interest? |
To be technical... yes. |
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| ZxZDeViLZxZ |
| life i the urge to procreate if your not going to might aswell just knock yourself becuase sorry whats the point ohh by the way meaningfull trustfull relationships arent relationships at taht point they are friendships and friendsships can have three things same sided which is fun to ahve fun with then the opposite side which means you can do as you wish |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by venomX
It's like being hungry and deciding not to eat. |
sexual anorexia? :conf: |
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| Lebezniatnikov |
| quote: | Originally posted by ZxZDeViLZxZ
life i the urge to procreate if your not going to might aswell just knock yourself becuase sorry whats the point ohh by the way meaningfull trustfull relationships arent relationships at taht point they are friendships and friendsships can have three things same sided which is fun to ahve fun with then the opposite side which means you can do as you wish |
Can anyone translate for me? |
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| Inconspicuous |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lebezniatnikov
Can anyone translate for me? |
something about self-impregnation...and the opposite sex being all for it. |
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