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Oh for crying out loud... (pg. 5)
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| Lebezniatnikov |
lol, must be nice to be so popular.
Just tell him what you feel. Whether he deals with it or not, once you've laid yourself out there you have nothing to feel ashamed of. |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| Unless his feelings for you (or your feelings for him) change sometime soon, you are going to end up breaking his heart either way. Might as well cut it off sooner rather than later with as little opportunity for confusion as possible. |
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| XaNaX |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
umm, it IS that hard when it's someone you've known since you were 13 and they just got out of drug rehab and are filled with hope. is it that difficult to see the difference here between a situation like this, and a situation where it's just some random nice guy i recently met and am not interested in?
christ, sue me for actually feeling bad this time about breaking someone's heart:p |
I agree, like I said before I'm a big fan of lying in this instance. Last thing you want to do is crush the dude and send him on a bender. I'd just tell him that you are proud of him for goin to rehab and getting his life in order, and as a drug user you don't want to be a bad influence around him. If you word it right you can make it seem like you are doing him a favor. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| So uh, did he actually SAY that he's in love with you? Or are you just assuming that's how he feels? Maybe he's just glad to have someone there for support. |
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| Slylee |
well he keeps saying he wants to take me out on a "date" and earlier he was rambling on aim and telling me about how he brought me up in therapy at rehab (as if THAT'S not a big enough sign that this guy is really into me lol) and i forget exactly how he got on the subject of relationships, but he said something very presumptuous about us and i was like, "i dont understand what u mean" and he was like, "well i mean, i know this is out of left field, but i just think that romance should start off as friendship, like we are, and bla bla bla" like he was basically saying, "who knows! we could end up together"
i was like :wtf:
i didnt know what to say so i was just making general statements about how i agree that it's important to be friends with your partner. then he said he'd be back in 10 and i just signed off. lol
oh and he left me like a 5 minute long voicemail last night and was saying how beautiful my hair looks dark, but that i've always been beautiful...eek! |
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| Justkillingtime |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
umm, it IS that hard when it's someone you've known since you were 13 and they just got out of drug rehab and are filled with hope. is it that difficult to see the difference here between a situation like this, and a situation where it's just some random nice guy i recently met and am not interested in?
christ, sue me for actually feeling bad this time about breaking someone's heart:p |
So you think lying, rather than being honest, will do a lot more good? |
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| Perfecto Fluoro |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
well he keeps saying he wants to take me out on a "date" and earlier he was rambling on aim and telling me about how he brought me up in therapy at rehab (as if THAT'S not a big enough sign that this guy is really into me lol) and i forget exactly how he got on the subject of relationships, but he said something very presumptuous about us and i was like, "i dont understand what u mean" and he was like, "well i mean, i know this is out of left field, but i just think that romance should start off as friendship, like we are, and bla bla bla" like he was basically saying, "who knows! we could end up together"
i was like :wtf:
i didnt know what to say so i was just making general statements about how i agree that it's important to be friends with your partner. then he said he'd be back in 10 and i just signed off. lol
oh and he left me like a 5 minute long voicemail last night and was saying how beautiful my hair looks dark, but that i've always been beautiful...eek! |
See now I'm going to root for him...
Don't be a bitch jamie, give him a chance!!! :whip: |
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| Slylee |
i'm not going to force it, it's just not really there for me. that's all i can say.
he's really cute, and not to sound bitchy, but i really don't need a boyfriend in my life right now...ESPECIALLY a recovering pain killer addict. no thanks. that's too much baggage right now, i got too much going on in my own life. and i have a problem with getting involved with weaker men who seem to need "fixing" and i'm trying to break myself of that habit. |
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| Perfecto Fluoro |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
i'm not going to force it, it's just not really there for me. that's all i can say. |
dont let him know that... i been living the last 7 years of my life based on the assumption that can change... :p |
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| Lebezniatnikov |
I think I know what your problem is. You're only meeting men from Miami. Seriously, they all seem like something is off. But maybe that's just Florida in general.
:p |
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| Slylee |
hmm, ex boyfriend was from Ohio...only living in Florida for like 2 years now. boyfriend before him is from Minnesota and has only been living down here for a few years as well. Well, now it's longer, more like 7 years, but at the time i was with him, he had only been living here for 3 or 4 years.
:p
maybe i NEED a florida guy lol I'm a sucker for midwestern boys for some reason. very charming... |
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| Woj107 |
| jamie....you know youre my #1 girl......and i respect what your decision is ....but you have to tell that guy straight up whether you like him more than a friend or not .....like seriously dont think itll make you a bad person or anything....you just really have to tell him how you feel bc i know the feeling when a girl i liked never really told me whether or not she def wanted to be with me in that way ....she just kinda worked around it ....and honestly it could kill the guy inside .......so let me know what you do ...ciao |
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