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Not cumming.. (pg. 8)
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| Slylee |
i think it's kind of harsh to say that women who fake oragasms are "phony". it has nothing to do with that. it has to do with the fact that they are being sensitive to their partner and feel bad for him, so they don't want to hurt his ego. now, i'm not saying that's the case for all girls who do this, but it was certainly the case for me when i used to fake orgasms with my boyfriends.
i know how impossible it is for me to cum, and i didn't want to get them so discouraged to have sex all the time, so i'd fake it, and then later come clean after i had my REAL orgasm. lol
but i've learned now and gotten wiser with age, and i don't do it any more and realize it is pointless, but i had completely good intensions for doing so back then. |
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| stren |
| I fake orgasms, when I fap |
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| lücid |
i didn't mean that women who fake orgasms are phony... just that it's a very silly and dishonest thing to do to someone you're in a relationship with. you shouldn't worry so much about hurting your guy's feelings or bruising his ego. that's totally not what sex should be about. it's about both people having a good time and pleasuring each other, and if you can't be honest about what you want/need, then you shouldn't even be having sex with that person to begin with.
i know it's hard for lots of women to cum, and it's not always the guy's fault either. simply telling him "sorry baby, it's just not happening for me tonight" or "i just can't seem to get over the edge" is not that hurtful. i mean it's not like you have to tell him "damn your dick is tiny!" or "wow you are a n00b at sex LOL!"
i dunno, i guess i've just never had a problem telling a guy if he's doing something wrong or if my mind/body just can't focus on an orgasm... i mean can you imagine how you'd feel if you knew your boyfriend was faking orgasms just to keep you believing that you're doing the right thing? that would make me feel like . |
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| pvdAngel |
| quote: | Originally posted by stren
I fake orgasms, when I fap |
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| RJT |
Any guy who has actually made a girl cum even once in his life will know if a girl is faking it, and that will hurt/piss them off a lot more than just being honest.
Unless you're having sex with inexperienced n00bs, don't fake orgasms.
Edit: Jamie, the road to hell is paved with good intentions. ;) |
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| iammesol |
| quote: | Originally posted by RJT
Edit: Jamie, the road to hell is paved with good intentions. ;) |
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| Slylee |
lol well ok in sue me because i wasn't as mature when i was 19/20 as i am now at 25. :p
i was just more sensitive to their ego back then and wasn't mature enough to realize i was doing more damage than good.
oh well, u live and learn. like i said, i don't do it any more, so i guess that's the important thing. |
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| lücid |
| sorry Jamerz - wasn't tryin to give you a hard time, just wanted to clarify that i didn't think you were phony. :p |
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| Slylee |
| that wasn't really aimed at you...sorry, i shouldn't have said "in sue me". that sounded harsh. |
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| lücid |
| i WILL in' sue you! :whip: |
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| bas |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
that wasn't really aimed at you...sorry, i shouldn't have said "in sue me". that sounded harsh. |
Not really, coupled with 'lol' and ':p' made it pretty tame. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i WILL in' sue you! :whip: |
lol
hey i washed all your new clothes and i'm gonna mail them this week. i want to burn you a CD of some cool indie rock/electro stuff too, so i'll do that tonight and then get it all out tomorrow.
man, i got rid of so many jeans to give to you, but i went to marshall's over the weekend to get a big picture frame (mother's day present) and decided to browse around the clothes and found 2 pairs of PERFECT jeans. i am so excited about them. got a pair of Seven jeans for like $35. i think they're almost $100+ in the stores. :D |
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