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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by MeLLyMeL
Now i'm dating someone 2 years older.
of course my single years were a mix of younger and alot older.
i have no preference.
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so whens the move? lol or did you decide to stay a while? :p |
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| MeLLyMeL |
| quote: | Originally posted by gehzumteufel
so whens the move? lol or did you decide to stay a while? :p |
course.
i'm gonna see how a year goes here.
i've already moved to new york. unles you were asking when was i gonna move BACK to miami
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by pvdAngel
I only say this from experience. Most of the guys I've encountered who are the same age as me or younger have been a bit immature, especially the ones I knew from college. Any who were older were fine.
I'm not saying that applies to ALL younger guys but it's impression I've got so far. |
and all i'm saying is that any guy that dates a girl that much younger than himself is really only interested in something physical.
sure maybe after a certain age that will change...like girl is 25+ and out in the real world, but other than that you're just dating that immature guy from 5-10 years earlier... |
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| Slylee |
| yea it's been my experience anyway that guys in their 30's act like ing moronic frat boys...trying to recapture they're youth or something. lol |
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| MeLLyMeL |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
and all i'm saying is that any guy that dates a girl that much younger than himself is really only interested in something physical.
sure maybe after a certain age that will change...like girl is 25+ and out in the real world, but other than that you're just dating that immature guy in 5-10 years earlier... |
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true that.
fuk that..that's why you shouldn't discriminate!!! |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by AndreaCKY772
since i was 16, i noticed older guys were into me more than younger guys, so i think that partly has to do with the fact that i like older guys. i'm not going to discriminate though, i'm an equal opportunity employer but i won't go below 20 though... or over 30 for right now |
lol under 20 is a def no for in general. i lately have yet to meet a girl that is under 20 that isnt consumed with stupid . |
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| bananas |
Older that's cause I'm 18, when I'll be 30 I'll prob like youngers, DOH
I don't get older woman often tho :]]] |
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| pvdAngel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
and all i'm saying is that any guy that dates a girl that much younger than himself is really only interested in something physical.
sure maybe after a certain age that will change...like girl is 25+ and out in the real world, but other than that you're just dating that immature guy in from 5-10 years earlier... |
Yeah, you've got a point. For a while, I wasn't that open minded about the whole thing. I guess I'm still a bit narrowminded.
I'd say the real reason to go for anyone is you like them, regardless but also knowing that you're both compatible and you enjoy spending time with each other. :) |
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| Ygrene |
| I've never had a serious relationship with anyone older than me. I don't know that it has anything to do with preference though, it just seems that that's the way it worked out. |
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| FallingMoon |
| quote: | Originally posted by gehzumteufel
well thats why i was just now surprised you were only 21! cause when i met you and mel in SF you didnt seem like a dumb teenager or anything remotely close! you had a very mature attitude and didnt present yourself like some 12yr old that was consumed with stupid ! |
lol :D ty
well then again I kinda see why you are that way...those girls in San Fran were something else...I know it was a lot of younger girls but wow I can see your frustration. Def. not something you'd really want yourself associating with.
Don't worry though we have more than a handful of those in Miami. |
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| lücid |
when i was younger (15-20), i totally had my heart set on chasing after older guys. i always felt old for my age, so i guess it just felt natural for me to be dating older guys.
as i've gotten older though, i think the huge maturity gap between women/men kind of evens out, and you realize that maturity isn't always directly related to how many years you've been alive. it has more to do with the type of person you are, where you're at in your life, and what you've gone through to get there. those are the things that matter, imo.
funnily enough, the most immature guy i dated was 11 years older than me. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
when i was younger (15-20), i totally had my heart set on chasing after older guys. i always felt old for my age, so i guess it just felt natural for me to be dating older guys.
as i've gotten older though, i think the huge maturity gap between women/men kind of evens out, and you realize that maturity isn't always directly related to how many years you've been alive. it has more to do with the type of person you are, where you're at in your life, and what you've gone through to get there. those are the things that matter, imo.
funnily enough, the most immature guy i dated was 11 years older than me. |
+1 on all of that, but he was 7 years older than me. he still acts like a 9 year old. lol |
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