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moving in together (pg. 3)
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| Taranis |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
whatever you do... DO NOT LEAVE THE DOOR OPEN WHEN YOU PEE.... once that happens the romance is gone. |
What if her boyfriend is into that kinda thing? |
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| CranberryJuice |
that's awesome amelia !!!
though i never lived with someone yet i would say like people said previously , just keep seeing ur friends and do some nights out with ur friends , keep some time for yourself and do things on your own
if things can work out towards jobs and all , we'd like to do this as well with my bf this summer
he is back in 3 weeks so we'll see then :gsmile: :gsmile:
i cant' wait! |
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| kr00t0n |
Ensure that the proper amount of time has passed before doing so.
It may seem like a good idea at the time, but rarely works out if done in the first few months of a relationship.
As everyone else has said, personal time/space is crucial. |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
whatever you do... DO NOT LEAVE THE DOOR OPEN WHEN YOU PEE.... once that happens the romance is gone. |
LOL, +1
and overall just be sure to maintain some of your own privacy and make sure you both get enough "me" time. living together is great but it's a huge step in a relationship and doesn't always turn out to be the fantasy world that people think it's going to be. as long as you both recognize that and respect each other's boundaries, things should be fine. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Taranis
What if her boyfriend is into that kinda thing? |
It's a symbolic thing... once you allow things to get that comfortable and informal then you're making the assumption that the other will always be there... that's when people stop trying, that's when things break down. |
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| Taranis |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
It's a symbolic thing... once you allow things to get that comfortable and informal then you're making the assumption that the other will always be there... that's when people stop trying, that's when things break down. |
What if he has a raging pee fetish he's kept hidden all this time for fear of being mocked and finally being able to indulge in the fetish rekindles their dying and monotanous sex life?
But I see what you're saying. |
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| Yan |
Men and Women living TOGETHER?
What's next? Unisex bathrooms? |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by josh4
Make sure to look through it first and ask him questions like "is that what you want me to look like?" |
Yeah! Big, bad and busty, moving up and down like a 764.
Hoo-yay-hay! Huh! |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Yeah! Big, bad and busty, moving up and down like a 764.
Hoo-yay-hay! Huh! |
what's a "764"? Is it the area code for the red light district in brazil? |
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| EXTREMUM |
| quote: | Originally posted by prolikewhoa
sooo i just moved in with my bf for the summer, and it's the first time i've ever lived w/ a guy.
does anyone have any advice, horror stories, words of wisdom, etc?
 , Pro |
lol jk |
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| RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
LOL, +1
and overall just be sure to maintain some of your own privacy and make sure you both get enough "me" time. living together is great but it's a huge step in a relationship and doesn't always turn out to be the fantasy world that people think it's going to be. as long as you both recognize that and respect each other's boundaries, things should be fine. |
Wait, life doesn't automatically move to a fantasy world when you move in together?
:eek:
So the brochure you showed me was a lie! :mad: |
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| EXTREMUM |
| quote: | Originally posted by RJT
Wait, life doesn't automatically move to a fantasy world when you move in together?
:eek:
So the brochure you showed me was a lie! :mad: |
You neglected to read the fineprint. :haha: |
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