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Flirting or friendly? (pg. 4)
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| Sasha |
| quote: | Originally posted by Cribby
I've been told that I'm a big flirt. :clown: |
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| Misanthrope |
| quote: | Originally posted by jchung52
at my club, i was watching a certain female who was dancing around the subwoofer. she was sitting on it then got some guys attention, she then did a lean back with her legs spread wide open revealing her crotch (wearing a summer dress thing). the male thought this was an invitation and went for the kill. she then got off and walked away... me watching this was like wtf kind of action is that. the dude thought the same thing and got in a fight with another dude and then proceeded to have a 9 dude brawl. that was a fun one.
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH WTF
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| Gypsy |
honestly AJ, it depends on what kind of girl she is. for some girls, just like some guys, flirting is a sport and they'll use all those well known 'tell' signs (read: finding an excuse to touch or anything excessively physical) to their advantage just to get attention.
imo, initially the best and most sincere way for a girl to let a guy know she's interested in a way that's not platonic is sustained eye contact-- hold his gaze for a second too long and smile, then see if it's returned. it's intimate, signals that you're interested, and is uncommitted enough to move on from if it's not returned. a few of those from either across the room or while you're talking with her should clear up where you stand. if you aren't getting those looks from her, then initiate them yourself and see what she does.
/token girl response |
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| thesauce23 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Abercrombie
Maybe they just don't want us to know. |
see thats what i was talkin about with the games... they never end even tho most girls now would say "i dont play games"... pffft |
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| dEsidEL |
| quote: | Originally posted by jchung52
i dunno... im just talking out of my ass. tt im still a virgin |
LOL.. props for comin clean at least
| quote: | Originally posted by Abercrombie
Sadly, very little women are responding here, which may be prompting me to get the alcan from the top drawer and make myself a hat. Maybe they just don't want us to know. |
Unleash the TOTA --
anyways.. if you're really desperate for suggestions , tune into late nite 100.7 FM .. all u insomniacs will know what I mean lol .. alternatively, there's a resident "TA doctor" here whom I can suggest :thepirate
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| Vivid Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by Abercrombie
So I have a problem... I don't know when a girl is either flirting or just being friendly. I believe I have missed out on several opportunities because I thought she was just being friendly, AND I've mistaken being friendly for flirting, and got my heart broken several times.
What is it am I supposed to look for? How do I tell the difference? In a club... is it PLUR or is it genuine interest? On the street, in a mall, other events... what is it? |
this is how u tell. grab her tit if she giggles she'll be playing fiddle. if she begins to yell run like hell |
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| Truepioneer |
Try to keep yourself in situations where it's strictly direct and nothing less!
Everything in life always boils down to a yes or no decision in the end. |
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| Vivid Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by Truepioneer
Try to keep yourself in situations where it's strictly direct and nothing less!
Everything in life always boils down to a yes or no decision in the end. |
and if she says no you have to take the yes from her with force. tis teh way of life. when we first migrated here and the natives said "no, white man" we took the yes from them and shattered their babies skulls with pride. lets learn from our past and justtake things when we want them |
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| Lightshow |
Good advice, but i work in a strip bar, so i'd rather not follow this advice.
| quote: | Originally posted by Superstring
NEVER EVER EVER EVER hit on a girl at work. Several of my friends learned the hard way. Avoid at all costs. |
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| yankeeBaby |
| quote: | Originally posted by English Rachel
This is a difficult one, my darling AJ. One that doesn't have a simple answer because girls play games (not me) so you can never really tell.
A couple of subtle ways to tell if there is attraction are;
Touching - a skim of the arm as she is telling you a story
Eye contact - is she looking into your eyes?
Other than that, you're screwed for a foolproof plan because it doesn't exist. Watch how she talks to other people, does she save a certain look for you? Is she attentive?
At the end of the day, I would say ask anyway - you don't ask, you don't get :)
xxx |
best advice ever. English Rachel is a very intelligent woman, I would listen to this girl! |
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