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philophobia with certain people (pg. 2)
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| quote: | Originally posted by Turbonium
So like, I've pretty much always wanted to be with a caucasian/European girl.
Anyway, I'm just afraid of falling for any girl that isn't.
Is this normal? Like it gives me a lot of anxiety, especially when I have a few brown female friends, one of whom I get along with ok and have somewhat of an attraction towards. Like I DON'T want the attraction. |
Why?
If they're nice and attractive and you get along with them, why would anything else matter?
Seriously... |
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| Inertia |
| quote: | Originally posted by Turbonium
So like, I've pretty much always wanted to be with a caucasian/European girl.
Anyway, I'm just afraid of falling for any girl that isn't.
Is this normal? Like it gives me a lot of anxiety, especially when I have a few brown female friends, one of whom I get along with ok and have somewhat of an attraction towards. Like I DON'T want the attraction.
I've never been in a relationship by the way. Unless you count one where in the end, I got rejected. Let's just say I've never kissed, let alone anything more than that. |
i get what you're saying. i've felt it some times, in different ways. i have a huge thing for european girls as well. like, i don't know, the fact that she is from miles and miles away from here adds a couple extra points in my book. it can actually deter my judgement from time to time. but that's neither here nor there.
it is kind of normal to have weird like that go on in your head. even more so for people with high intelligence and more complex personalities. dumb men will just poke the nearest hole, no questions asked.
our brain gets in the way of what we're doing, and we try to rationalize everything based on our internal belief system, which is normally flawed. you're basically thinking it's illogical for you to like non caucasian/european girls, since they are inferior in some way. the problem is, that is a flawed belief, so by trying to rationalize and use your head, you're doing something more irrational than what you started with.
in other words, after all of that bull i just typed, it may come down to this: yeah, it is kinda normal to have weird preferences, what ISN'T normal, or at least a good idea, is making decisions based solely on them that end up hurting more than helping. if you have to choose between two beautiful women that love you with all other things equal, a latina and a russian girl, then by all means, choose the russian girl because deep down you'll feel more satisfied with her based on your personal preference. don't however, shy away from the cute latina girl in class because you're dreaming of when your soulmate will come from europe to jump your bones. |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| quote: | Originally posted by chach
I was raised on the notion that a caucasion mother is the worst thing you could do for your kids and family. |
What? |
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| Ted Promo |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
What? |
Shut up. I'm going to rape you like my mom taught me how. Through ty cooking. |
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| Frenchie |
Probably the dumbest you've ever said, chach.
WHITE POWER |
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| chach |
| Meh, and I'll stick by it.:p |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ted Promo
Shut up. I'm going to rape you like my mom taught me how. Through ty cooking. |
My dad was the cook in my house. |
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| chach |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
My dad was the cook in my house. |
Perfect example of ty mothering.
:o |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| quote: | Originally posted by chach
Perfect example of ty mothering. |
Maybe, but at least my dad stuck around to raise us.
[/racial stereotyping]
:o |
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| chach |
He said he was getting a pack of cigs and coming back...
:( |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| quote: | | Originally posted by Turbonium |
Another question: Do you have friends that would look down on you for dating a "brown" person? I guess that could be part of your anxiety. |
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| SuspicionVandit |
| white girls can sing |
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