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Relationship Troubles
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| dan_essential |
I'm with a girl and we've broken up a few times. We have constant fights and well, make-up sex a lot.
The first time we broke up, I hooked up with a couple of girls. The last time we broke up (a week and a half ago), she slept with a guy (she said she still loved me.)
I have a lot of insecurities, and well, i don't trust her, yet I say I love her and don't want to let her go. She's an outgoing person, and I'm not, she has a layer of friends that go out, flirt, blah blah, and I don't. She wants different things outta me (trust) than I want out of her (love).
Should I be in a relationship?
Advice please:)
Please be considerate about your replies.
Thankyou |
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| Dean Millson |
| with all due respect Dan, surely there are better ways to get advice on relationships than by asking a bunch of relatively total strangers on a public internet forum? |
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| sunrise3500 |
| quote: | Originally posted by dan_essential
Should I be in a relationship? |
Are you asking wether you should be in a relationship at all, or with this person? You started off asking the latter, but ended up asking the former? Two very different questions... |
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| charlee |
LOL
I'm certainly no help here! :stongue: |
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| Teflon_Teapot |
yeah i agree with dean, this is really not a good place to get advice from. may i suggest the cor;)
seriously though talk to your mates |
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| charlee |
| quote: | Originally posted by sunrise3500
Are you asking wether you should be in a relationship at all, or with this person? You started off asking the latter, but ended up asking the former? Two very different questions... |
Yeah stop loling around the bush ;) |
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| Lilith |
| quote: | Originally posted by Teflon_Teapot
yeah i agree with dean, this is really not a good place to get advice from. may i suggest the cor;) |
lol :nervous:
How about I just tell you to slap some sense into her and/or kill yourself and save reposting in the cor for the same answers :D |
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| mmkoiman |
trust is something that takes a very long time to rebuild/regain... and if you both want different things from each other and just seem to be going around in circles, probably best you cut yourself free and enjoy single life for a bit and before you know it you'll find something awesome in a new girly :D
sometimes a relationship that you've tried over and over at ends up so tainted, it'll never be as squeaky clean as you want it.
just bail dude, just do it.
NIKE. |
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| charlee |
| quote: | Originally posted by mmkoiman
trust is something that takes a very long time to rebuild/regain... and if you both want different things from each other and just seem to be going around in circles, probably best you cut yourself free and enjoy single life for a bit and before you know it you'll find something awesome in a new girly :D
sometimes a relationship that you've tried over and over at ends up so tainted, it'll never be as squeaky clean as you want it.
just bail dude, just do it.
NIKE. |
*gushes*
You are my hero Jed :p |
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| MiSSyM |
poor boy.
Really no matter what advice you may get, YOU are the only one who really knows your situation the best & can decide what you think you should really do. Listen to your intuition & do what YOU think is best.
If all else fails there's always DRRRRRRR PHILLLL
www.drphil.com
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| Paulie |
| Sorry mate didnt know she was your girlfriend... |
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