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She made a mistake? (pg. 4)
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| Lebezniatnikov |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lilith
Oh look out, the 'Thought Police' have been busy with you!!!
I can't believe someone said that, it's like all the worst movie cliché's you've ever seen about redneck yanks sitting up in some wood cabin grinding their teeth and wringing their fists going "It's the government damn it... gawd durn g'ment sticking wires in mah teef... mother, where's mah electric drill... this is all coming out... RIGHT NOW!"
(I'm laughing so hard it hurt after that) |
Don't mock his almighty enlightenment. He has been endowed with superior intelligence and powers of reason.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enligh...t_%28concept%29
"Sometimes I feel like a nut, sometimes I don't." - Little boy in commercial |
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| AnotherWay83 |
| well its plain as day to me that the only reason she walked away was because you didn't do her in the bum like she wanted you to |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Some of you are pretty thick. |
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| Nsonic |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
Once she realized that she wasn't ready for a relationship, she probably figured that all that time spent with you, making out and the bit, was probably being perceived as something more than what she wanted.
At this point, she probably felt guilty as she most likely felt that she was leading you on. Her "mistake" was making you think that she was interested in more than she really was. |
Ohhhhh
that makes more sense |
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| drivingforce |
Thats extremely odd of her, but one thing that doesnt surprise me about women is their ability to just say or do the most random ever, and come straight out of left field.
Im still trying to understand 2 months of serious dating and getting no real physical relationship the entire time. As stated before is she a virgin or religious. Also as stated normally after I see a girl for a week solid it should of at least happened once even playing the game just the tip would count haha. So maybe she was looking for more control on your aspect, but then her saying what she said is pretty contradictory since she made the moves. Sounds possibly like maybe she kind became uninterested? That nite of her sleeping over maybe she expected whatever to happen or because it didn't go as planned in her head she decided she made a mistake. Dont worry though, better off since you wont be with some contradictory chick, just sorry you found out two months into it.
the moral of story-go to same bar...and one of her friends. |
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| Fledz |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Some of you are pretty thick. |
Do go on. |
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| Ian |
| sounds like the kinda girl who'd want you to sleep with her & then cry rape afterwards. |
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| we_R_DNA |
At any rate man her choice was clear. She left with out saying a word. Creeping through the cloak of darkness, in a last ditch effort, she sails away only to murmer that she made a mistake when you talked to her again.
That alone is reason enough to just ask, "What mistake did you make?"
Keep in mind, women love to make men angry in a dialogue; due to the fact it justifies their own agression. So the moment you get angry with her she will take your anger absorb it and turn into a super raging steroid abusing she-devil which you cannot by any humanly means win against.
Senario A:
If she tells you something like, "oh I left to go sleep in some other man's bed." Feel free to tell her, "Thanks for being honest. Now the off, stupid ing hoe."
Senario B:
If she tells you anything else listen closely to her assertion or claim and what type of data warrents her claim.
If any of this falls short of presuading you of what she was doing, say, "WTF did you just say to me?"
Then you have to counter rhetort.
Do this with out sounding angry.
The moment you show agression or sound angry, you are screwed to ever and I mean EVER get the reason out of her why she made a mistake because at this point she is already be thinking something else which justifies why she did not make the mistake in the first place.
Senario C:
Never call her again. Find another lady/woman in life to be with.
Senario D:
Invite her over to your place and sit down and talk about what went on that night. Feel free to play mr. Psychologist and get into her head, because for some weird reason women like it when you actually care about what they are thinking.
Senario E:
Drink coffee and beer, enjoy life and just know that our attachments as human beings really do get the best of our emotions.
"Experience life and all the things in it as the action of breathing. Take in the joys that give you life and just as easily let them go." ~Buddhist teaching
What I am saying is take her in, embrace her love her to no end when you with her if this is what brings you joy in life. Also be ready to let her go just as easily. I imagine if you did this your post might of never of appeared on the internet.
Peace be with you
I'm off to make some coffee! |
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| XaNaX |
| Dude who ing cares, two months and you haven't got any ass yet? Sounds like it was time to move on anyway. |
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| Zild |
| quote: | Originally posted by XaNaX
Dude who ing cares, two months and you haven't got any ass yet? Sounds like it was time to move on anyway. |
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| Spike |
| quote: | Originally posted by Turbonium
Yea, I've come to realize that the hard way.
Now, my confidence is permanently shot, and thanks to my upbringing, I can't really change myself for the better. That's the problem when you're brought up with integrity... you can't change it even if you wanted to. |
and this is the problem with so many men in america these days...being brought up with all these bs notions of what love and romance is like. And in the end it just screws with their minds and leaves there balls dry and flapping in the wind |
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