I don't want to spend Thanksgiving with family
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Jake Benson |
So this year no one in my immediate family will attend Thanksgiving except for my crunk ass ghetto sister. It'll all be aunts, uncles, cousins, their kids, and just Jewish babbling all night long and like "I do this & that and make money and never talk to Jake anytime of the year except for now when I'm talking about myself."
Meanwhile I got invited to spend Thanksgiving with a bunch of awesome producers and remixers whom are friends of mine.
Am I morally wrong to spend thanksgiving with my friends and not my distant family members? I feel really guilty ditching the fam, like I'm evil...but I don't feel right around them without my immediately family with me too. Anyone else doing something similar so I can justify my actions by comparing my desicion to another likely scenario?
c0r version: ditchin fam for Thanksgivin wit t3chn0 friends. Bueno? |
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Zild |
That blows that your family is like that. I'd never ditch my family for anything, but we're pretty tight knit and take care of each other. I used to ditch my family for my friends all the time, but I had to learn the hard way that friends won't be there for you when you're down and out. Sorry your family isn't cooler. I know I'd be royally screwed if I didn't have my family, and what if in a few years I need bone marrow? |
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Boomer187 |
wait, how old are you? |
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Ian |
move to england, we don't do thanksgiving, and we have some gay guys u could pick up. win-win |
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noikeee |
Spend the early evening with the family, then go with the friends? |
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chach |
Is it cause you're gay? |
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Lira |
quote: | Originally posted by Jake Benson
c0r version: ditchin fam for Thanksgivin wit t3chn0 friends. Bueno? |
Sí |
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Frenchie |
Ditch 'em.
Why spend a holiday with people you wouldn't have fun around and don't give to s about. You should be spending with with people whom you like to be around and are thankful to be with. Family doesn't always come first. |
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Fibonacci |
I'm ditching mine too. I'll probably see oakenfold instead... |
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ams.rld |
Normally I spend all my time with my family because that is all i have. I use to have "friends" but they were never there when I needed them most. It is hard finding good friends but even harder having a good relationship with your family, for many americans? Anyways, you should choose whoever you will get along best with. |
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nefardec |
bring your techno friends over and stuff the turkey with bass |
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nchs09 |
quote: | Originally posted by Jake Benson
So this year no one in my immediate family will attend Thanksgiving except for my crunk ass ghetto sister. It'll all be aunts, uncles, cousins, their kids, and just Jewish babbling all night long and like "I do this & that and make money and never talk to Jake anytime of the year except for now when I'm talking about myself."
Meanwhile I got invited to spend Thanksgiving with a bunch of awesome producers and remixers whom are friends of mine.
Am I morally wrong to spend thanksgiving with my friends and not my distant family members? I feel really guilty ditching the fam, like I'm evil...but I don't feel right around them without my immediately family with me too. Anyone else doing something similar so I can justify my actions by comparing my desicion to another likely scenario?
c0r version: ditchin fam for Thanksgivin wit t3chn0 friends. Bueno? | why not do something nice like volunteer for the homeless shelter?
anyhow i have a ghetto crunck sister as well... it sucks doesnt it :( |
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