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To message or not to message (lol girl advice on the internet etc)
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| Taranis |
So you meet someone on a friday night in town through mutual friends/acquiantances, end up hanging out with them for a couple hours while ed up later in the night, have a load of fun, nothing else happens (no hookup/making out etc, was too pilled up at the time), mutual friends/acquiantances spend the next morning dropping all sorts of (not so) subtle hints at recovery.
Is messaging them out of the blue later in the weekend (just a 'hey whats up, you have fun, how'd your weekend go? thing) a good idea that shows interest in maintaining contact, or too soon/borderline kinda creepy and I should just wait till I see her out to talk again (most likely next weekend/weekend after).
Meh I know asking for advice on chicks on the internet is sad etc, I don't make a habit of it :p Just a new situation for me, I'm not used to meeting chicks at clubs who I'm interested in beyond a purely physical sense. It's always been through school/work, where I'm in near-daily contact with them anyway.
Flame away. |
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| Allied Nations |
| sure, can't hurt |
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| jastiC |
| yeh got nothing to lose |
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| THE_Chris |
| Go for it, any girl who insists on that nonsense about "you have to wait x days to contact me or you're too needy" isnt worth having anyway. If she likes you, she likes you and will be happy to hear from you. |
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| Ian |
| sure and if she's a bitch, give us all her msn. |
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| trewqy |
Ur a wimp.
Call her up.
Say something like this..
"Hi there, its me, *name*, guys from *whenever*, just calling to touchbase and say hi, was wondering if you're free this saturday for dinner?"
If she says yes then GO!
If no, and say some other time..dont worry, just say call her up sometime next week. |
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| Taranis |
So the general consensus is 'do it you .'
Thanks cor!
Will let you know how it goes, possible win (or rejection and lulz) incoming.
It's funny how much weight I put on annonymous advice provided by total strangers via the internet. |
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