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| Vivid Boy |
| alright one of my good friends mauro was dating this chick for around 2 years and they broke up around 5 months ago...now they still love eachother and admit it...but my friend mauro has dealt with maybe around 6 different broads since that time and is pretty much in a relationship with one right now...pam his ex had already dated another guy since the break up and she sees other guys as well...now pam and i are pretty tight...we have been tight since they started dating...now tonight i was out with both of them (they still do chill with eachother) and she gave me her number out of the blue right in front of mauro...now im not sure if he cares or not...he did have a surprised look on his face when she gave it to me....but i dunno i think i should feel awkward but i honestly dont...what do u guys think? should i call her i mean shes really cute and i have to say shes one of those girls i will never forget for the rest of my life..i mean everyone who meets her thinks she's the most amazing girl not looks wise but shes just got the greatest personality ever and shes hot...like i would feel as tho id be missing something big if i didnt call..but should i backstab such a goodfriend? would it even br backstabbing?? bah in relationship bull it was more fun when u were a kid and just screwed girls and didnt give a abt the relationship part... |
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| kr00t0n |
I'd ask my friend if it was alright with him (I had a friend ask me once, so I feel its only fair to whoever is in question).
It's really up to you tho, I can make a well judged call coz I dont know your exact closeness to your friend and this girl. :conf: |
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| Fir3start3r |
He can't have his cake and eat it too.
He can't have it both ways.
Your both adults; deal with it.
He's abviously made his decision, and her, her's.
What exactly is the problem other than your guilt?
Get over it. |
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| lMIlk |
| you got any pics of her? is she hot? |
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| Orbax |
| I agree. If your friend is cool with it go for it 100%. From a personal experience if they just go for it, you would enjoy killing them slowly. |
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| Orbax |
| cool sig firestarter :) |
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| Juricimo |
talk to your friend if he's ok with you dating/seeing/sexing her. if he sounds fine with it, just double check again, cos he might lie, cos he maybe wants to see you happy. so yeah....remember, bros before hoes.
>JM< |
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| Ur Dream Grl |
hey eric i dont think it matters that much since they have dated so many ppl ever since they broke up... besides if they really liked each other they would be together.. i dont believe in this whole thing that ppl are still in love and are not together.. come on now.. if u love each other then there shouldn't be any boudaries...
the problem is...shes giving u her number... now how do u think she feels about u?? do u think she is interested??? i mean if she is..and u are .. yeah tell ur guy friend abotu it.. and ask him how he feels.. but that shoudlnt stop u from trying to go out with her because he hasnt tried to get her back know what i mean?
now if he had been trying to get with her and had told u that he misses her an all then it would be wrong. :) :)
xoxo Ur Dream Grl |
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| Vivid Boy |
| no i think they love eachother like best friends now...and she gave me her number out of the blue which was wierd dont know if shes intrested or that we're tight and she figured out hey we dont even have eachothers number... |
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| Endlesswave |
| well I say you size up the situation and find out if she is interested (more than just the friends thing) and I agree with Faye, your other friend has been seeing other ppl and if he is just friends with her and has accepted the separation than just go for her. IF you think she feels that way (and if you do too obviously). No harm in that... |
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| brunette |
| I think you should just call her up and see what it'a about.. and then talk to your guy friend.. cause it may be nothing major. |
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| QuickStep |
I've always had the understand with my close friends that no matter what, "You do not date you friends' ex's or sisters"
It might just be a dumb guy thing, but I've seen to many good friendships lost due to someone dating each other's ex's. No matter how much your frined "says" he's cool with it, he won't like to see you with her.
If they have only dated each other for a short time, then maybe it's OK. But unless you thinkn that you friendship is wirth a girl, then don't do it. There are millions of other girls in the world and a few thousand in your area.
Just don't let her make you believe that it's OK, it will kick you in the butt in the end.
My sexist logo: "Bros before ............Girls!"
PAyce |
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